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Lyn

Lyn

Momentary
Mar 1, 2025
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It's been part midnight... How are you feeling, Sbetto?
 
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claracatchingthebus

claracatchingthebus

Clara seems to be waiting for something. But what?
Jun 22, 2025
136
From your posts and username I'd have to guess you're female and therefore can't possibly comprehend what dating is like for the average (or below average) guy.

Dating apps simply don't work for the average guy. I've wasted a crazy amount of time creating profiles, scientifically testing what my best pics are, endless swiping day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year and so on. IT DOES NOT WORK. Not even close.

The reality is that many guys are hopelessly lonely in a way women simply can't fathom. Yes it's possible to escape, but the odds are absurdly slim. I've met one or two interesting women outside of the apps but of course they rejected and friendzoned me. When you've worked tirelessly for literally three whole years to find someone only to find that one single person you finally found isn't the slightest bit interested, well it leads you to forums like this one.

Why even try when all we know is rejection for our entire lives? I mean we're almost certain to get rejected next time too, it's just pointless really.
sorry, i believe you that it's hard

sbetto hope you are feeling alright, not sure if you are still with us
 
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RadiantNumber

RadiantNumber

Experienced
Mar 2, 2024
283
Goodbye, I hope you find happiness in afterlife
 
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not-2-b-the-answer

not-2-b-the-answer

Archangel
Mar 23, 2018
10,626
I don't know if you are still around.
If not I hope you found peace from this awful world. :heart::hug::heart::hug::heart:
 
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Bimbosqualo

Member
Mar 19, 2025
27
Hello my friend, I couldn't say hello in time 😪. I hope you can find a better life there and happiness, goodbye❤️
 
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overload

overload

SPREADING DISEASE SINCE 2003 🇮🇹🪞
Feb 16, 2025
38
Sbetto, l'autore del post, ha ricevuto la diagnosi di trombocitopenia (CTB) lunedì 7 luglio alle 03:19 AM. Il suo ultimo messaggio è stato "L'ho bevuto". Non ho preso gli ultimi 10 mg di metotrexato. Ha preso 5 mg di alprazolam mezz'ora prima della SN, più o meno.
Non so quanto abbia sofferto, né se abbia sofferto. Ha aiutato tanti di noi, non ci ha mai lasciati soli. Che riposi in pace.
 
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leot83

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Jul 6, 2025
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Sbetto, l'autore del post, ha ricevuto la diagnosi di trombocitopenia (CTB) lunedì 7 luglio alle 03:19 AM. Il suo ultimo messaggio è stato "L'ho bevuto". Non ho preso gli ultimi 10 mg di metotrexato. Ha preso 5 mg di alprazolam mezz'ora prima della SN, più o meno.
Non so quanto abbia sofferto, né se abbia sofferto. Ha aiutato tanti di noi, non ci ha mai lasciati soli. Che riposi in pace.
Scusa ma dove l'hai letto?
 
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Bimbosqualo

Member
Mar 19, 2025
27
Dear @Sbetto we will miss you so much, after @Placo departure you were the first to welcome me and support me, we were a nice group together with @ChildOfLove @Breadbfra, @HumanoidMonster and PICCOLINA where you played the part of the dad, I hope you are all having fun together now, you have reached your happiness, rest in peace now❤️
 
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Life Is My Coffin

Life Is My Coffin

One final action ⚰️⚰️⚰️
Oct 13, 2023
318
Did you try going on the Apps, things like Tinder, and just doing the whole swipe left swipe right thing to see if you would match with anyone?
A guy struggling with romance and acting like tinder is a viable solution is like telling a junkie "Have you tried just going cold turkey?"
 
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LetMeOut67

LetMeOut67

Experienced
May 7, 2025
257
@Sbetto

Sorry this hateful world didn't give you the love that everyone deserves
Shame on them
Sleep well ♥️♥️♥️
 
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Britney Spears

Britney Spears

toxic
Jan 4, 2025
520
I'm sorry I missed your thread. Forgive me wherever you are @Sbetto . Rest in peace, love. I'll be with you soon. I'm devastated. You've been such a wonderful person to me. Thanks for everything, friend💔
 
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claracatchingthebus

claracatchingthebus

Clara seems to be waiting for something. But what?
Jun 22, 2025
136
A guy struggling with romance and acting like tinder is a viable solution is like telling a junkie "Have you tried just going cold turkey?"
you're probably right. :-(
 
Life Is My Coffin

Life Is My Coffin

One final action ⚰️⚰️⚰️
Oct 13, 2023
318
you're probably right. :-(
It literally does not work for men period. Even those who are pretty good looking, getting matches is nearly impossible unless your standards are ridiculously low and you're ok with an overweight woman with 3 kids or something

Watch this - if you want the details. Basically, if you're a kissless virgin like OP is (was) the likelihood of getting a date is ... well... let's just say you have better chance of seeing a unicorn

Maybe tinder was decent at one point, i got laid using it a couple times but that was years ago but keep in mind I had to use it for like quite a while. It's a buffet haven for women, but for men (especially with the high ratio of men on there compared to women) you would only sometimes see success back then. I am positive it's 10 times worse now
 
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99th Dalmatian

99th Dalmatian

Member
Jun 11, 2022
6
bye bye Sbetto. belated message wishing you had an amazing journey away from all the pain
 
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