ctb-soon

ctb-soon

Student
Jul 12, 2023
166
My preference is a delayed post that is sent out after I have CTBed.

While I really feel for people who write goodbye threads because it's tough and you need support at that time. But I think I want to convey there is certainty I am gone,

I have always wondered how many of those people who have written goodbye threads were successful. It's NOT a criticism because anyone has the right to change their mind, without embarrassment.

I guess for me, I like the sense of success that a delayed post would give.

And maybe it's because I have already written one.
 
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dogtired

dogtired

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Jul 3, 2023
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Agreed, I prefer the certainty of a delayed post over a goodbye thread. It's quite a strange feeling to read a goodbye thread and not know if I'm reading the words of someone who's dead or alive. Kinda... unnerving?
 
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ctb-soon

ctb-soon

Student
Jul 12, 2023
166
Agreed, I prefer the certainty of a delayed post over a goodbye thread. It's quite a strange feeling to read a goodbye thread and not know if I'm reading the words of someone who's dead or alive. Kinda... unnerving?
I agree with you on this one. It also centers on how real what you are doing. It's delivered after you have CTB. To bad you can't read the responses
 
StolenLife

StolenLife

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Sep 19, 2022
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Personally I wouldn't do either, as I don't know if an attempt will be succesful. It would feel kind of awkward in case I fail.
 
ctb-soon

ctb-soon

Student
Jul 12, 2023
166
Personally I wouldn't do either, as I don't know if an attempt will be successful. It would feel kind of awkward in case I fail.
well a delayed post here can be set to post several days or weeks in advance. If CTB fails, you cancel the post, if it doesn't well.....
 
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