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Captive_Mind515

Captive_Mind515

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Personally, I think these organisations are deliberately making it difficult for more people to avail of their services because they know that if large numbers of people choose to die, then there will be more publicity and scrutiny on them from the general public. This public pressure will force their closure, because sadly that's how our society operates. It won't matter if all of these people had legitimate reasons to die, the public will see them as some sort of Nazi death camp...

Keeping it expensive and highly selective, just helps to ensure they remain in business - by staying somewhat under the radar. I'm not trying to make excuses for them or their profiteering, but unfortunately they have to exist in a society populated by many unreasonable and irrational people.
 
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doneforlife

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Jul 18, 2023
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Personally, I think these organisations are deliberately making it difficult for more people to avail of their services because they know that if large numbers of people choose to die, then there will be more publicity and scrutiny on them from the general public. This public pressure will force their closure, because sadly that's how our society operates. It won't matter if all of these people had legitimate reasons to die, the public will see them as some sort of Nazi death camp...

Keeping it expensive and highly selective, just helps to ensure they remain in business - by staying somewhat under the radar. I'm not trying to make excuses for them or their profiteering, but unfortunately they have to exist in a society populated by many unreasonable and irrational people.
Also they might not be getting any funding from wealthy and powerful sections of the society nor anything from the government. It is a miracle that they have existed and operated for so long.
 
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befree

befree

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Dignitas is the only other one that I know that takes foreigners
Not true. Please read:
why is Lifecircle not accepting ? what if its critical case ? Can you speak with lifecircle ?
I will try to talk to Lifecircle.
Exit website says you have to be a Swiss citizen or permanent resident.
Right, and 50+.
Dignitas is the only other one that I know that takes foreigners and they seem to have a more rigorous application process and lower likelihood of acceptance. Also their membership fee is higher. Pegasos seems better suited for English-speaking applicants. In my opinion.
All 7 VAD associations speak english fluently.


It would be good if you would continue here:

 
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dyingslowly

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Jul 17, 2023
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Total nonsense ! Another overpriced book from an author who want´s to make a lot of money, based on hope and illusions.
Just like the PPH, this book is not worth the paper it´s printed on.

Exit cooperates with Pegasos. Pegasos used to be my favorite VAD association. But today I hate them as much as I hate Exit.
Exit charges CHF1.750,- to help you with the VAD application + another CHF1.750,- to accompany you to Pegasos to identify your body.
I have helped people successfully apply for free for many years.

Pegasos has become extremely unreliable and arrogant. Pegasos does not respond to emails, even after the person has sent the same mail several times as a reminder. On top of what Exit charges, Pegasos charges CHF10.000,- for the VAD. You have to pay them CHF5.000,- deposit.
If your application is rejected, Pegasos will refund you CHF3,500. But you lose the money for the help with the application. In total you will lose
CHF3.250,- + plus costs for an expert opinion by a doctor in Switzerland (required in some cases). I´m just helping a person with the application.
Only after several mails Exit writes that they help people with the application who are at least 50 years old. Why don´t they tell this the person at the beginning ? They want you to become a paying member first.
So, true I asked them what will be the whole charges for the full process and they said like 11000-15000 CHF I was shocked and sad.
 
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doneforlife

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So, true I asked them what will be the whole charges for the full process and they said like 11000-15000 CHF I was shocked and sad.
You got a reply? Also I thought it was 10000CHF (All inclusive)
 
befree

befree

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doneforlife

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Total nonsense ! Another overpriced book from an author who want´s to make a lot of money, based on hope and illusions.
Just like the PPH, this book is not worth the paper it´s printed on.

Exit cooperates with Pegasos. Pegasos used to be my favorite VAD association. But today I hate them as much as I hate Exit.
Exit charges CHF1.750,- to help you with the VAD application + another CHF1.750,- to accompany you to Pegasos to identify your body.
I have helped people successfully apply for free for many years.

Pegasos has become extremely unreliable and arrogant. Pegasos does not respond to emails, even after the person has sent the same mail several times as a reminder. On top of what Exit charges, Pegasos charges CHF10.000,- for the VAD. You have to pay them CHF5.000,- deposit.
If your application is rejected, Pegasos will refund you CHF3,500. But you lose the money for the help with the application. In total you will lose
CHF3.250,- + plus costs for an expert opinion by a doctor in Switzerland (required in some cases). I´m just helping a person with the application.
Only after several mails Exit writes that they help people with the application who are at least 50 years old. Why don´t they tell this the person at the beginning ? They want you to become a paying member first.
Do I have to undergo all the tests in Switzerland again for the x rays , MRI reports etc.? If yes , does the service cost cover it ? Also, can we just walk into any hospital or there is some process in place that would take time to avail such tests? Will Pegasos help in accelerating the testing ? Do they have any tie up with hospitals or we are on our own for this ?
 
befree

befree

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Do I have to undergo all the tests in Switzerland again for the x rays , MRI reports etc.?
If you don´t have the required medical records, lab tests...etc. you would have to get them in your country, not in Switzerland.
If yes , does the service cost cover it ?
No, of course not. You or your health insurance would have to pay for it in your country. Please read "The VAD costs include" in the new megathread.
Will Pegasos help in accelerating the testing ? Do they have any tie up with hospitals
Both no. And there is not only Pegasos in Switzerland. You can find the list of all VAD associations in the new megathread.

Please read the VAD megathread.
 
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doneforlife

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If you don´t have the required medical records, lab tests...etc. you would have to get them in your country, not in Switzerland.

No, of course not. You or your health insurance would have to pay for it in your country.

Both no.

Please read the VAD megathread.
Ok. Thanks. Yeah read it already.
 
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bluebirds

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Jun 15, 2023
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@befree , How can I contact you to ask for help regarding my specific situation ? and my application ?
 
befree

befree

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@befree , How can I contact you to ask for help regarding my specific situation ? and my application ?
I don´t help with the VAD application anymore on SS. It was becomming a fulltime job. And after weeks or months of correspondence and more than 500 PM´s many members changed their mind, told me they don´t have the money for VAD, don´t have the required documents and medical records or they are afraid of dying...etc.

For any further questions and comments it would be better to continue here:
That's what I made the thread for.
 
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bluebirds

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I don´t help with the VAD application anymore on SS. It was becomming a fulltime job. And after weeks or months of correspondence and more than 500 PM´s many members changed their mind, told me they don´t have the money for VAD, don´t have the required documents and medical records or they are afraid of dying...etc.

For any further questions and comments it would be better to continue here:
That's what I made the thread for.
@befree , do you have the contact info for the Dr at life circle ? Why is she refusing to help people who arent old but with significant reasons to end it !

also i dont understand why would pegasos ask for xray or mri as requirement, not every pain is shown in some scan, is that a New requirement ?!!
 
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ab_

"I'd feel trapped if I couldn't CTB at any time."
Feb 15, 2019
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I'm sorry but why are so many people here ITT shocked at the fact that VAD organizations in Switzerland have very stringent requirements and safeguards in place before a person is allowed to access the service?

I'm ulimately pro-choice, but it's a fact that even here on SS there have been minors who signed up and have CTB'ed (under 18). There have also been people who CTB'ed on SS with their main reasons (that they have stated in their goodbye threads) being unattractive, not sociable, getting rejected/dumped/divorced by their GF or wife, losing their jobs, losing their money, not being able to afford housing or any other socioeconomic circumstances. Also users who've mentioned that they need to get drunk before they CTB to bypass SI, or those who have to do it impulsively. Users who have CTB'ed when they haven't exhausted all attempts at medical treatment.

I wholeheartedly agree that every adult who is mentally competent has the right to take their own lives of their own volition for whatever reason because living isn't an obligation. Those SS users all had a right to CTB in the end as adults for whatever reason. However, there's a fundamental difference between consenting adults committing suicide by drinking SN which they have acquired through whatever means of their own volition, versus asking for direct active assistance from someone else to CTB.

If I was the head of Dignitas/Exit/etc I too would institute requirements to make sure that requests for assistance to CTB are due to medical reasons and not to socioeconomic circumstances that aren't unamenable. I absolutely would include a safeguard such as psych eval to make sure said patient is mentally competent and has the mental capacity to decide on something as final as CTB (I agree that mental illnesses do not automatically equate to mental incompetence or incapacity, but for a non-negligible amount of people does.) I absolutely would mandate a lengthy waiting period is in place to prevent impulsive requests, and I would mandate that EVERY avenue of treatment has been exhausted before our org assists someone to end their own lives. If I didn't have these safeguards and requirements then VAD would be COMPLETELY banned for EVERYONE (even the terminally ill) with no exceptions within a single week.

Sanctioned suicide booths where every consenting adult is able to CTB with no further questions asked will never be a thing in our lives, and not in many centuries in the future either. It doesn't matter if you think it should in principle. Yes, it fucking blows that humans are born without their consent(s) in this world, and it fucking sucks that SI exists in every human so humans will naturally be heavily biased towards continued existence (and a truly objective assessment of the value of life will never be possible). It also sucks that gravity is a thing and humans cannot fly without needing aircraft. These are however fundamental realities of this universe and it's simply impossible to change otherwise. 2+2 will never be 5 even if one wishes with all their heart that it would.


As much as some people on here want to pretend otherwise it's a fact that not EVERY single one of the 1 million suicides that occur on this planet each year were all carefully, and cooly deliberated and thought upon without impulse. Not every single one of these suicides were committed by people who have truly exhausted every attempt at medical treatment. It's insanity to think every VAD/MAID org in Switzerland should be completely laissez-faire on CTB'ing. As I've stated above, if they were then VAD would be completely banned for good. The right wing anti-choice conservatives would have every evidence and cause they can think of to prohibit the practice permanently.



'Pro lifers' like FT26, Kelli, etc, are opposed to CTB in every circumstance. They're opposed to adults CTB'ing without any assistance from others. They're also opposed to VAD being permitted and ESPECIALLY for non-terminal reasons such as MI. What I'm saying above isn't fucking 'pro-life'. It's simply reality.

It's disgusting how many people on SS are attacking orgs like Dignitas/Exit/Lifecircle/Pegasos when they have helped so many adults on this world end their abject suffering and torment because they have strict safeguards in place. Please don't do this.
 
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befree

befree

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There is a reason why I made the VAD megathread. The VAD megathread was made to discuss general questions about the VAD.
Instead, in this thread, which actually only concerns the book, general questions are discussed. Of course I don't want to forbid you to discuss general questions in this thread, but the VAD megathread contains all important information and answers all questions. I thought it would be a good idea to have everything bundled in 1 thread instead of 12.


Why is she refusing to help people who arent old but with significant reasons to end it !
VAD organizations in Switzerland have very stringent requirements and safeguards

Please read my answers here:

 
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