• Hey Guest,

    We wanted to share a quick update with the community.

    Our public expense ledger is now live, allowing anyone to see how donations are used to support the ongoing operation of the site.

    👉 View the ledger here

    Over the past year, increased regulatory pressure in multiple regions like UK OFCOM and Australia's eSafety has led to higher operational costs, including infrastructure, security, and the need to work with more specialized service providers to keep the site online and stable.

    If you value the community and would like to help support its continued operation, donations are greatly appreciated. If you wish to donate via Bank Transfer or other options, please open a ticket.

    Donate via cryptocurrency:

    Bitcoin (BTC):
    Ethereum (ETH):
    Monero (XMR):
masterofnone

masterofnone

let down and hanging around
Jul 2, 2025
8
Hello, I am new and have been looking for some answers to this question but can't seem to find any. I plan to CTB at my secluded lake house sometime in the next couple months. I will do it during the middle of the week, so my family is 2 hours away and at work during the day. I plan to turn off my location and drive there, not telling anyone where I am. How do I make sure the police find me before they do? I want to avoid them finding me at all costs. I am afraid they will see me missing and drive up there themselves. It doesn't seem like I can schedule a text to 911. My method will need for me to be alone for 12ish hours with no chance of finding me. I need someone to come right after my 12 hours. I am afraid a scheduled Welfare email would take too long and someone in my family would find me first. I want them to possibly wake up in the morning and get a call with the news, instead of finding my notes and drive around in a panic. Any suggestions appreciated :)
 
  • Hugs
  • Like
Reactions: gifted.pumpkin, Emerita, FishRain3469 and 3 others
ChainedCrow

ChainedCrow

The crow of hopelessness and despair
Jun 21, 2025
382
I dont think there is a good way to avoid that. Maybe write a note explaning that u CTB and u are at this location and to call an ambulance i cant think of anything more solid, the note can be also in a form of a scheduled email. Good luck i wish u all the best and hope whatever u dream of is in the afterlife comes true. Much love 🤗
 
  • Like
  • Hugs
Reactions: easyb123, FishRain3469 and masterofnone
masterofnone

masterofnone

let down and hanging around
Jul 2, 2025
8
I dont think there is a good way to avoid that. Maybe write a note explaning that u CTB and u are at this location and to call an ambulance i cant think of anything more solid, the note can be also in a form of a scheduled email. Good luck i wish u all the best and hope whatever u dream of is in the afterlife comes true. Much love 🤗
That's a good idea. Will probably make sure to say in note to send the police there. And thank you, you as well :)
 
  • Hugs
  • Like
Reactions: easyb123, FishRain3469 and ChainedCrow
ijbolijbol8979

ijbolijbol8979

in need of iron
Jan 26, 2025
69
Hello, I am new and have been looking for some answers to this question but can't seem to find any. I plan to CTB at my secluded lake house sometime in the next couple months. I will do it during the middle of the week, so my family is 2 hours away and at work during the day. I plan to turn off my location and drive there, not telling anyone where I am. How do I make sure the police find me before they do? I want to avoid them finding me at all costs. I am afraid they will see me missing and drive up there themselves. It doesn't seem like I can schedule a text to 911. My method will need for me to be alone for 12ish hours with no chance of finding me. I need someone to come right after my 12 hours. I am afraid a scheduled Welfare email would take too long and someone in my family would find me first. I want them to possibly wake up in the morning and get a call with the news, instead of finding my notes and drive around in a panic. Any suggestions appreciated :)
Maybe you can ask a friend to call the police for you after 12 hours? I'm not sure if that's a viable option. Or schedule a text to be sent out after 12 hrs to someone to call the police at the location you're at, I wish the best for you❤️
 
  • Like
  • Hugs
  • Love
Reactions: masterofnone, easyb123, FishRain3469 and 1 other person
T

TBONTB

Enlightened
May 31, 2025
1,114
You could also add a physical note on the doors of your house saying not to come inside and to call police/ambulance.

And of course, the perpetual friendly reminder you can change your mind anytime.
 
  • Like
Reactions: masterofnone, Kali_Yuga13 and easyb123
unluckysadness

unluckysadness

Enlightened
Jul 9, 2025
1,244
huge problem for me too. i'd like the cops find my corpse and not my family. good luck 🙏
 
  • Like
Reactions: masterofnone
A

alwaysalone

Specialist
May 14, 2025
331
Is your family the type to bust windows and enter? Maybe invest in a deadbolt inside so they can't get in easily and leave a note on the door? Sorry I can't be more helpful
 
  • Like
Reactions: masterofnone

Similar threads

Liwujin
Replies
2
Views
181
Suicide Discussion
Liwujin
Liwujin
blossomsinwilt
Replies
2
Views
238
Suicide Discussion
blossomsinwilt
blossomsinwilt
P
Replies
3
Views
323
Suicide Discussion
ginadu
G
2BContinued
Replies
1
Views
133
Suicide Discussion
SASU-KE
SASU-KE
BlueMist96
Replies
3
Views
247
Suicide Discussion
peacebenow
P