Discussion Give me hope?

[usernamesarehard]

My ex broke up with me a few months ago and I'm finally in a place where I got the closure I needed to be completely ok moving on.

Anyone want to share their good experiences dating or give advice?

Idk, I guess I'm just looking for some hope. I want to find someone and get married one day (don't worry I'm not desperate and I won't rush into anything), but I've had a hard time attracting guys and I'm kinda worried that I won't get into another relationship for another 10 or 20 years.

 

[Higurashi415]

Look im drunk so Im sorry if maybe this won't make much sense, but the reality is that most people are idiots. You're not gonna get a good relationship with most people anyway, why would it matter if it took you 10 years to find the next one? You'll realistically only meet about 4-6 people with which a serious relationship is really possible, who cares if it takes you 10 years to find them? it's not about "attracting guys", it's just that sensible people are rare in general, period.
would you be willing to invest 10 years of your life to find the love of your life? that's the real question, in my opinion. and in my opinion, it's definitely worth it :)

source: took me about 15 years to find a sensible person, about 5 to convince myself that I deserved a decent relationship, and now I'm 5 years in :)