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Enigma25

Enigma25

The No Mad Nomad
Mar 19, 2025
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Basically, I just figured out my friend (more fwb) is having ideations but no plan. Told me he feels hopeless. I want to help him really bad, but seeing as I have ideations AND a plan. Is that a good idea? or is it bad? My fear is that I become what he needs and he catches feelings or gets too attached. Im gonna ctb regardless so in healing him I feel as if Im just setting him up for more hurt
 
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SVEN

SVEN

I Wish I'd Been a Jester Too.
Apr 3, 2023
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Sometimes just being a listening ear is all we can offer. If you have these reservations I'd be cautious about getting more involved than offering "non directive therapy" style availability.
 
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bankai

bankai

Enlightened
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I would say don't help him plan anything .That's upto him.Looks like you're already lending him your rear ear. Just be there for him.
 
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Enigma25

Enigma25

The No Mad Nomad
Mar 19, 2025
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Sometimes just being a listening ear is all we can offer. If you have these reservations I'd be cautious about getting more involved than offering "non directive therapy" style availability.
I dunno Im not trying to sound consented but Im described as charismatic and its kind of a curse. (part of why I dont have fans).
I would say don't help him plan anything .That's upto him.Looks like you're already lending him your rear ear. Just be there for him.
You're funny. Im a top but youre funny. two points for you
Hold up hold up hold up. I gotta be dyslexic or something cause I messed up dang near everything I meant to say in that last post. Guys I can spell I swear
 
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