Venting (For those who grew up with narcissistic parents) Post a picture that describes your narcissistic or enabler parent

[WhatDoesTheFoxSay?]

For purpose of simplification, I'll be using the letters N and E to denote narcissist and enabler respectively.

My Emom
(I've recently come to realise that she is also narcissistic herself.)

 

[Seered Doom]

My Nmom (I call her the birther)

When she's on her "No one cares about me" tirade

 

[WhatDoesTheFoxSay?]

@Seered Doom
Good one! Classic DARVO and making it all about themselves



My man-child of an Nfather
(May he rot in hell)


Nfather is also a religious (Buddhist) hypocrite
(Never mind the Dalai Lama here, couldn't find many non-Christian memes)

 

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Bumping this thread

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

My dad anytime he saw terrible parents in movies or shows.

 

[Seered Doom]

Nmom and N/Edad when infighting

 

[Pluto]

 

[Cinnamorolls]

Nmom

 

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Nmom and N/Edad when infighting

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The animation is so cool! Yeah, my nparents used to be like that. At one point Emom just gave up altogether and let my man-child of an nfather have his way.


(It's the other way round in my case)

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My dad anytime he saw terrible parents in movies or shows.

Damn, this is so relatable. Every time there's a report about child SA in the news, E/Nmom'll get all enraged, where she'd lambast those mothers for turning a blind eye to, and enabling the abuse. Then rant about how she'd take matters into her own hands and kill the chomos and p*dos herself.

While I'd be smirking in the corner at someone whose motto has always been to "keep the peace" at home, and the family together, whatever the cost.

 

[ForgottenAgain]

Nstepmother 1:
"It doesn't matter if you're ready or not, your father wants me to live here so I will"

Estepmom 2:
"Stop suffering, it makes your father upset"

Nstepmother 4:
"Your mother is dead, I can get rid of her stuff if I want to"

Nfather:
"I'm a slave in this house, always having to do everything!"

This is something he would say for cooking lunch twice a week when he was retired and didn't do anything all day while I was attending university, working part time (to save him money) and doing physical and psychological treatment.

 

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NC

Nmom
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Mirror, mirror on the wall,
Who's the fairest of them all?




@ForgottenAgain
I'm sorry for what you've gone through, that must've been tough
I hope you're no longer in contact with them.

Oh, and yeah

 

[ForgottenAgain]

@ForgottenAgain
I'm sorry for what you've gone through, that must've been tough
I hope you're no longer in contact with them.

All the stepmothers from 1 to 4 are out of our lives. Step5 is finally a decent person but she only appeared after I had already left my home country.

I still keep in contact with my father because, I guess, I still hope one day he will show me he loves me.

 

[WhatDoesTheFoxSay?]

My Emom
(I've recently come to realise that she is also narcissistic herself.)

My E/Nmom
(I'm her emotional support animal/punching bag)


This woman demands my immediate, unwavering attention whenever she talks to me. She doesn't care even if she knows I'm preoccupied with something else. If I don't give her my full attention she gets upset and throws a tantrum. The other day she wouldn't even let me have my breakfast in peace! Even after I told her, politely, more than once, to let me finish first. The whole time was spent entertaining the chronic complainer and basically giving her a free therapy session. With each passing day I start to see the narcissistic, neurotic woman for what she is, and that she has been suffocating and sucking the life and energy out of me the whole time!

Can't you see that you're smothering me? Holding too tightly, afraid to lose control ~