For the first time in a long time, I have it back to him

[Water-Lily]

Living on campus is more imperative than ever. It always was, but dysfunction at home is making that clear

My brother has picked up a rather unsanitary habit of brushing his teeth in the kitchen sink at nights, since he can't wait for the person in the bathroom to be done

I mentioned to my dad how disgusting it was and he put up a sign on my brothers door telling him to "not do it"

But then I thought. "This is bullshit"

Because it is

I told my dad "look, do whatever you want. You have to make a choice. I never told you to put up a sign because of my discomfort. You do what you think is right"

After years of parentification, I've had to realize my brother is the way he is because of my dad

The communication is non existent because my father made it clear numerous of times that me and my brother were unwanted by him. Thus burdens. I know that for a fact

So all I'll do is utilize him financially for now. But continue to work on my financial situation/living situation till then.

Because I refuse to suffer like this because of his inability to take accountability in creating a family

He's just as bad as my mom

 

[mortuarymary]

Can you go back to campus

 

[Suicidebydeath]

I'm sorry that your brother has picked up an unsanitary habit and that your father has a stand-offish parenting style. I hope that you can find your own independent living situation soon.

It doesn't take very long to brush teeth, perhaps your brother should use the bathroom first.

 

[Water-Lily]

I'm sorry that your brother has picked up an unsanitary habit and that your father has a stand-offish parenting style. I hope that you can find your own independent living situation soon.

It doesn't take very long to brush teeth, perhaps your brother should use the bathroom first.

My brother is an abusive dick head and he's walled himself off from the entire family. He has everyone blocked on his phone and communicates in the sound of grunts

Can you go back to campus

I want to but we have a toxic roomate. I have to get that situation sorted out first
but my family is one filled with excuses

Like my father would rather enable my brother (ie he brushes his teeth because maybe it's not fair he has to wait) and I can tell my own father hates when I'm uncomfortable. So if he's "comfortable" with how my brother is, he can live with that for the rest of his life. He's even said he'll just avoid my brother entirely when I'm not around. His loss ig

Also I sat in for 2 Zoom Classes at my aunts place. Biggest mistake ever