speck
Student
- May 5, 2020
- 178
if you've seen my posts before, you know that I am in a bad situation. I have been in my relationship for ten years and it is deteriorating. I love this person very much but they have stripped my self esteem to the bone- I no longer believe I will be able to make it without them, I live in fear of the bad times and weep over remember the good times. I think "am I as bad as this person says? If this is so, then how can I ever hold a job, make friends, or find someone else?" I am so isolated. And I am so sad.
This person beat me pretty badly several weeks ago, this is not the first time. I think my rotator cuff is torn and I still want to try so hard to fix things. This person has said for years that I make them want to beat my face in, murder me, and that's my fault that's not who they are. How can I argue with that? I'm not supposed to argue back. And who can I ask for validation or understanding? This is the only person left in my life.
This person is leaving as soon as they can, they've explicitly told me they want me to be miserable because in asking them to stay I have made them miserable.
I was a stupid person when I was young but I had some self esteem- I never thought I would feel so raw and bereft.
I'm finally graduating from college this summer but I will probably be dead before then. I am in my early 30d and I can't bear the thought of being haunted for the rest of my life knowing that this person hates me so much, that they want to erase me, that i gave everything to them. I don't want to remember when things were good and I really don't want to have to reckon with how bad things were. I don't know how to find any peace.
I don't want to die- I want to have a family who loves me. Why couldn't I do anything right?
I don't even know if I'm the bad person anymore. I can't do this. How could I ever love anyone as much as this person? How could I when I have given everything in me to them? I know some people heal but I don't think I can.
When I look behind me I see two young people in love, I see the person who abandoned me and came back to me three times and think why can't they make this work. Why doesn't this person love me.
I'm sorry, you guys are the only people I have to talk to anymore.
This person beat me pretty badly several weeks ago, this is not the first time. I think my rotator cuff is torn and I still want to try so hard to fix things. This person has said for years that I make them want to beat my face in, murder me, and that's my fault that's not who they are. How can I argue with that? I'm not supposed to argue back. And who can I ask for validation or understanding? This is the only person left in my life.
This person is leaving as soon as they can, they've explicitly told me they want me to be miserable because in asking them to stay I have made them miserable.
I was a stupid person when I was young but I had some self esteem- I never thought I would feel so raw and bereft.
I'm finally graduating from college this summer but I will probably be dead before then. I am in my early 30d and I can't bear the thought of being haunted for the rest of my life knowing that this person hates me so much, that they want to erase me, that i gave everything to them. I don't want to remember when things were good and I really don't want to have to reckon with how bad things were. I don't know how to find any peace.
I don't want to die- I want to have a family who loves me. Why couldn't I do anything right?
I don't even know if I'm the bad person anymore. I can't do this. How could I ever love anyone as much as this person? How could I when I have given everything in me to them? I know some people heal but I don't think I can.
When I look behind me I see two young people in love, I see the person who abandoned me and came back to me three times and think why can't they make this work. Why doesn't this person love me.
I'm sorry, you guys are the only people I have to talk to anymore.