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Lost cherry

Lost cherry

Student
Oct 21, 2023
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do you write farewell letters? or do you think it is better to not write anything and why?
 
hi-okbye

hi-okbye

7.7.2023<3
May 5, 2023
656
I'm not sure if I'm going to write anything, I've still been deciding. I just don't want to say the wrong thing I guess. I don't really care if they know exactly why I ctb'd, they should have a pretty good idea on their own. other than that I just feel like it's too much to stress over, and I don't want anyone finding them in case I survive.
 
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Lost cherry

Lost cherry

Student
Oct 21, 2023
144
I'm not sure if I'm going to write anything, I've still been deciding. I just don't want to say the wrong thing I guess. I don't really care if they know exactly why I ctb'd, they should have a pretty good idea on their own. other than that I just feel like it's too much to stress over, and I don't want anyone finding them in case I survive.
I understand you. Few months ago, i want to writte letters. But now, when my ctb day is soon, i think that maybe is better to not writte anything..Is so stresfull for me..No sense..idk.. i am still thinking about it
 
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Sleeper System

Sleeper System

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May 5, 2022
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The only reason to leave a letter is to offer an explanation assuming there is someone in your life who deserves one. I don't care how much stress it causes me because it's not for me. If I didn't have anyone I wanted to saying anything to then I would at least leave it for the cops or corrinor so they can rule out murder etc.
 
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Lost cherry

Lost cherry

Student
Oct 21, 2023
144
The only reason to leave a letter is to offer an explanation assuming there is someone in your life who deserves one. I don't care how much stress it causes me because it's not for me. If I didn't have anyone I wanted to saying anything to then I would at least leave it for the cops or corrinor so they can rule out murder etc.
However, with or without letter i know that everyone will think that i am selfish when i did ctb..
 
Sleeper System

Sleeper System

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May 5, 2022
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However, with or without letter i know that everyone will think that i am selfish when i did ctb..

That's ok. You'll be gone anyway. Just do whatver you want to do.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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I believe it's up to the individual really, nobody is owed an explanation and suicide never needs to be justified anyway, but it could bring some closure to those left behind if they have some sort of explanation/farewell message.
 
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