ferret-in-a-sock
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- Jan 25, 2023
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I don't even know where to begin. My thoughts are so disorganized. I really want to CTB when I get back to my home. I have to take a 14 hour bus ride now to go home.
So, to start with, I've been trying very hard to get better. My therapist kind of dropped me a year ago and shoved me into DBT (Dialectical behavior therapy), and it didn't work for me. I failed it. They tell you over and over there's no failing it, but then what is it when your therapist recommends you switch out because it's not a good fit for you? You mean, just like CBT wasn't a good fit, now this one isn't? Is any therapy a good fit or am I just untreatable?
I tried to address my fears of driving and agoraphobia on my own through reading and books and asked my doctor for an SSRI and all at once it looked so much better. I made progress, I was going to accomplish my goals...
I crashed the car. It's gone. It's gone and it's my fault. I don't know where my attention lapsed. I don't remember what I did wrong. I know I have a concussion and it's possible my thinking is worse than usual. I denied evaluation, but i think the paramedic knew looking at me I took a hit to the head. I shined a light in my pupils at home from the edge and lovely, one didn't shrink at all. Great. Brain damage. The dull headache, nausea and sensitivity to light and noise aren't exacrly great signs either.
I wish it'd killed me outright. I remember driving for all of the last few days and feeling my hands grip the steering wheel and thinking with my anxiety "one wrong turn is all it takes to die." And lo and behold, I didn't. But the car did and my hopes did.
I don't think I meant to, but I think my fears of failure materialized and well...life is now worse.
Because I should have accepted I was a failure. Because clearly I wasn't going to get better. I wasn't meant to.
So, to start with, I've been trying very hard to get better. My therapist kind of dropped me a year ago and shoved me into DBT (Dialectical behavior therapy), and it didn't work for me. I failed it. They tell you over and over there's no failing it, but then what is it when your therapist recommends you switch out because it's not a good fit for you? You mean, just like CBT wasn't a good fit, now this one isn't? Is any therapy a good fit or am I just untreatable?
I tried to address my fears of driving and agoraphobia on my own through reading and books and asked my doctor for an SSRI and all at once it looked so much better. I made progress, I was going to accomplish my goals...
I crashed the car. It's gone. It's gone and it's my fault. I don't know where my attention lapsed. I don't remember what I did wrong. I know I have a concussion and it's possible my thinking is worse than usual. I denied evaluation, but i think the paramedic knew looking at me I took a hit to the head. I shined a light in my pupils at home from the edge and lovely, one didn't shrink at all. Great. Brain damage. The dull headache, nausea and sensitivity to light and noise aren't exacrly great signs either.
I wish it'd killed me outright. I remember driving for all of the last few days and feeling my hands grip the steering wheel and thinking with my anxiety "one wrong turn is all it takes to die." And lo and behold, I didn't. But the car did and my hopes did.
I don't think I meant to, but I think my fears of failure materialized and well...life is now worse.
Because I should have accepted I was a failure. Because clearly I wasn't going to get better. I wasn't meant to.