Everyone you ever knew has something real nice to say about you...

[thewalkingdread]

They're all just waiting for you to die.

Oh, the irony of it all...
Even in Death
People will still treat you
Like a Clown...

 

[Buh-bye!]

true dat

 

[hermestrimegistus]

You don't have to put any effort in if you wait until someone dies to appreciate them. The appreciation of someone after they die isn't even about that person, it's just a selfish way for the survivor to look empathetic. If they actually cared about this person they would've been expressing it to them while they were alive. Not to others for vanity purposes and social brownie points

 

[thewalkingdread]

If they actually cared about this person they would've been expressing it to them while they were alive.

That's exactly the point of this thread.

 

[Deleted member 65988]

You don't have to put any effort in if you wait until someone dies to appreciate them.

But a lot of people do that.

They're all just waiting for you to die.

Oh, the irony of it all...
Even in Death
People will still treat you
Like a Clown...

Yeah, that's true.

 

[F@#$]

Ain't nobody got nothing nice to say about me,I'll guarantee it.

 

[thewalkingdread]

Ain't nobody got nothing nice to say about me,I'll guarantee it.

That's the "beauty" of It all... They're all just waiting for you to die... Then, they'll say How wonderful you were. They will make you roll over your grave, full of dead ass spite, because you won't be able to call out their lies...

 

[Buh-bye!]

You don't have to put any effort in if you wait until someone dies to appreciate them. The appreciation of someone after they die isn't even about that person, it's just a selfish way for the survivor to look empathetic. If they actually cared about this person they would've been expressing it to them while they were alive. Not to others for vanity purposes and social brownie points

very true. but sometimes remembering is just a way of not forgetting someone and their deeds. and that's really empathetic that someone wants the idea of you to be alive even when you are dead. stupid though, but empathetic.

Ain't nobody got nothing nice to say about me,I'll guarantee it.

if u do that, i can bet you gonna live a life i'll envy.

 

[vak]

Hm, I might stick around as a ghost for a while to hear it for the first time.

 

[Buh-bye!]

That's the "beauty" of It all... They're all just waiting for you to die... Then, they'll say How wonderful you were. They will make you roll over your grave, full of dead ass spite, because you won't be able to call out their lies...

their are two different things, losing someone and the idea of losing someone. losing someone doesn't really hurt, as far as i've experienced. but the idea of them being gone, the idea of them not being around like they were, those are somethings that make you shred tears. and so once they're dead you just try to do a revision of all the memories of them in hopes of never forgetting those memories, you don't care about the people. so yeah, funerals and all of those things are just a selfish intent of not letting the happy memories get diluded. so that you, can relive those thoughts. it's never about the person. if it were, then those things wouldn't have been all about kind words and shite.

Hm, I might stick around as a ghost for a while to hear it for the first time.

WWWWWISH that were possible

 

[SoulCage]

You don't have to put any effort in if you wait until someone dies to appreciate them. The appreciation of someone after they die isn't even about that person, it's just a selfish way for the survivor to look empathetic. If they actually cared about this person they would've been expressing it to them while they were alive. Not to others for vanity purposes and social brownie points

Definitely.
The survivors, those who didn't care about you while you were still alive, are mainly questioning their own mortality. And if they will be missed or remembered by anyone when they are gone.

 

[hermestrimegistus]

Definitely.
The survivors, those who didn't care about you while you were still alive, are mainly questioning their own mortality. And if they will be missed or remembered by anyone when they are gone.

Yeah but I was referring more to the kind of self absorbed performative caring-out-loud that usually occurs with people who didn't really give a fuck about them while they were alive. But like I said I think it's for social brownie points more than anything. Not that they actually care about the dead person, they're just using them as a prop to garner sympathy for themself instead of the person who killed themself