That's exactly the point of this thread.
But a lot of people do that.
Yeah, that's true.They're all just waiting for you to die.
Oh, the irony of it all...
Even in Death
People will still treat you
Like a Clown...
That's the "beauty" of It all... They're all just waiting for you to die... Then, they'll say How wonderful you were. They will make you roll over your grave, full of dead ass spite, because you won't be able to call out their lies...
very true. but sometimes remembering is just a way of not forgetting someone and their deeds. and that's really empathetic that someone wants the idea of you to be alive even when you are dead. stupid though, but empathetic.
if u do that, i can bet you gonna live a life i'll envy.
their are two different things, losing someone and the idea of losing someone. losing someone doesn't really hurt, as far as i've experienced. but the idea of them being gone, the idea of them not being around like they were, those are somethings that make you shred tears. and so once they're dead you just try to do a revision of all the memories of them in hopes of never forgetting those memories, you don't care about the people. so yeah, funerals and all of those things are just a selfish intent of not letting the happy memories get diluded. so that you, can relive those thoughts. it's never about the person. if it were, then those things wouldn't have been all about kind words and shite.
WWWWWISH that were possible
Yeah but I was referring more to the kind of self absorbed performative caring-out-loud that usually occurs with people who didn't really give a fuck about them while they were alive. But like I said I think it's for social brownie points more than anything. Not that they actually care about the dead person, they're just using them as a prop to garner sympathy for themself instead of the person who killed themself
