SuicidalOrganism

SuicidalOrganism

Experienced
May 31, 2023
223
mu face has lots of flaws it makes me want to die every day
other people outside laugh at me and call me ugly

i have bdd or i am just ugly?


my face has fat of obese and is very bloated. its over for my fat face
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Rocinante

Rocinante

My name is Lucifer, please take my hand
Aug 26, 2022
1,462
Mental
 
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Rack.-

Rack.-

Trying to understand this world
Jun 11, 2023
94
my face is not obese?
No way man, you look perfect! You almost remind me of a home teacher I had last year to help me with maths and stuff... He was smart and always very kind
 
SuicidalOrganism

SuicidalOrganism

Experienced
May 31, 2023
223
No way man, you look perfect! You almost remind me of a home teacher I had last year to help me with maths and stuff... He was smart and always very kind
how much you rate me?
Your face bf% is fine but you look non NT and angry
you look good facially imo
over for my brain and ogre genes i need lobotomy
 
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Rack.-

Trying to understand this world
Jun 11, 2023
94
I'm Subhuman I don't mog anyone I'm subhuman. I'm very recessed
Hey... I understand you are feeling like that but let me tell you that everything is mental. Even if you looked unattractive to me (seriously you don't) I'd still encourage you to love yourself because attractiveness is subjective and definitely changes to every person. Take care ❤️
 
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SuicidalOrganism

SuicidalOrganism

Experienced
May 31, 2023
223
Hey... I understand you are feeling like that but let me tell you that everything is mental. Even if you looked unattractive to me (seriously you don't) I'd still encourage you to love yourself because attractiveness is subjective and definitely changes to every person. Take care ❤️
if beauty subjective why im made fun for looking like ogre
 
Rack.-

Rack.-

Trying to understand this world
Jun 11, 2023
94
if beauty subjective why im made fun for looking like ogre
Man I seriously don't know 😅
If your friends are telling you that it's probably because they are simply mocking at you in a friendly way. If you are concerned about it you probably should talk this with them but I'm mostly sure they didn't intend to hurt you
 
Huggs

Huggs

Wish for peace
Jul 6, 2023
209
I don't know how best to respond to your post…
I truly believe you look alright but from what you wrote I don't know if you'd believe that.
I'm very sorry people are treating you the way they are. What people say and do doesn't necessarily say anything about you. Some people are just assholes.
You could have BDD. It might be worth getting an evaluation since you seem to be thinking there's the possibility. I found out I have ADHD through getting evaluated. It's helpful to some.
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
11,535
Beauty is subjective. I really don't know what to say here. Man there's nothing to waste a second to think about ctb here.
 
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90starve

90starve

i don’t know who i am
May 8, 2023
578
your face is absolutely fine! perhaps a different haircut will help you feel more confident, since that can change your appearance more than you'd think.
 
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Goodgirlryeo101

Wizard
May 27, 2023
661
I have people who have been called ugly and even compared to animals etc but they believe they are cute or good looking etc.

You gotta believe in yourself and tbh you are not fat because you are and don't even look obese. Don't worry about those who are laughing at you calling you ugly as there are people who would have laughed or even called them ugly too.

That's life.

All the best OP

Ps - I know of someone who would be angry because I remind him of how other people have said he was ugly or looked like an animal on first sight because he is the master of comparing others looks to animals and clown their looks and even children or even unborn children.
 
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CandyK__

CandyK__

Mercy on me, would you please spare me tonight?
Mar 13, 2023
124
tbh you're kind of hot. If anything maybe it's your cloths that do not complement your look.
Generally I'd advise trying on different cloths, and seeing how you feel.
Strong Jaw line and pretty hair, there's nothing wrong with you.
Maybe lack of self-confidence is making you feel worse.
 
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locked*n*loaded

locked*n*loaded

Archangel
Apr 15, 2022
7,258
Don't think it's the best idea posting your pic in a suicide forum. But hey, whatever you're comfortable with.
 
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Jolene79

Experienced
Jun 16, 2023
205
You're a very handsome young man. Way above average tbh. I feel you're quite vulnerable having your picture online like this. You never know who is on here and their intentions.

Have you had an assessment before with a professional to see what may be going on. The issue isn't about your physical appearance as it is not bad in any way. Do you know if you're neurodivergent possibly. Body dysmorphia I see as an issue based on the fact there isn't a single thing wrong with your looks
 
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suicidalloser

Specialist
Jun 30, 2023
365
It's all in his head
well i know one person who's gained some weight after leaving the specific industry; it doesn't phase me one bit, because he still is
Don't think it's the best idea posting your pic in a suicide forum. But hey, whatever you're comfortable with.
others have done it, i have anyways

You're a very handsome young man. Way above average tbh. I feel you're quite vulnerable having your picture online like this. You never know who is on here and their intentions.

Have you had an assessment before with a professional to see what may be going on. The issue isn't about your physical appearance as it is not bad in any way. Do you know if you're neurodivergent possibly. Body dysmorphia I see as an issue based on the fact there isn't a single thing wrong with your looks
see OP? give yourself some credit.
 
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GoneFromRevolution

Life is a highway, why not be the man in my trunk?
Nov 6, 2022
28
You have a cute face. Solid 8.
 
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transgenderfailure

Subhuman Creature
Apr 30, 2018
118
Youre so handsome !!
 
ikadasui

ikadasui

Arcanist
May 29, 2018
466
You look fine. I have horrid dysphoria and I understand where it comes from, but you genuinely are decent looking. I'd try recovery first perhaps then check your cards later
 
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deomlez

Not english native speaker. Ctb is my life.
May 19, 2023
330
I was afraid to scroll down and look at your pic , tbh... but whaaaat ? You look so good. Perhaps shy smile, due to lack of confidence, right ?
 
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Yavannah

Yavannah

Autistic & miserable
Jul 18, 2022
178
you are far from ugly…
to me you are good looking
this seems like a mental problem and most likely therapy can help
 
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Danique

Member
Jul 8, 2023
15
Beauty/attractiveness is all subjective and all that...

But I'm sure most people would agree that you look very handsome and masculine. I don;t know why you think you're overweight/obese. From those pictures you look quite fit.

So yes, I do think you have BDD. This can be hard to fix, but it's definitely possible. I hope that after seeing these feedback responses, you will consider the possibility that the way you see yourself, might be very unfair to yourself. Maybe, in small steps, you can change the way you view yourself. The best would probably be to see a therapist, but I don;t know if you have access to this.

I wish you the best!
 
Torabol

Torabol

Student
Apr 15, 2023
105
If you were ugly then okay, but you look great brother, you're wasting energy on the wrong thing.
 

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