Even hookers ignore me on whatsapp

[NothingElseMatters]

Hahah I just hit the rock bottom. I'm such a pathetic mf.

 

[lostmyself]

Hahah I just hit the rock bottom. I'm such a pathetic mf.

How could that be!?

 

[noaccount]

Why would sex workers talk to you on whatsapp? They often have ways of screening people, have to use discretion about how they'll communicate, where they'll meet, and how they'll accept payment. Even before the global pandemic, it was a common thing for them to be selective about, or just not taking, new clients at all.

 

[NothingElseMatters]

I got her number on a site, tries to talk to her but had no reply. She probably saw my pic and thought "i aint having sex with that diagusting fellow"

 

[awfullife]

Escorts are a transient bunch. Trust me, I have vast experience with them. The large majority have substance abuse issues of varying severity. This makes them not the most reliable communicators. Further, they are "gun shy" of folks that don't know the game. Trust me, most don't have aesthetic standards for clientele but focus is on financials.

 

[WornOutLife]

Don't get too sad about it. They're probably busy. Just look for another one.

 

[I want to end it]

They only care about your wallet sadly. They consider men who try to chat to them like a friend or girlfriend as time wasters. Don't take it personally.

 

[TessB]

I got her number on a site, tries to talk to her but had no reply. She probably saw my pic and thought "i aint having sex with that diagusting fellow"

That won't be the case. I have friends who are sex workers.. as long as you are polite and clean/ showered they are really not going to mind how you look..not that I'm assuming you look bad x

 

[popcorn]

i have to say my dude 'even' hookers are people with probably in some cases more problems than us. addiction, trauma, sexual abuse..etc

expect nothing from people you will be less disappointed

im sure your not as disgusting as you think, and there are things you can do to improve your attractiveness. some very simple

attractiveness is a spectrum, there are literally billions of women in the world i bet there is at least one that will like you!!!!

stay strong brother!!

 

[ZardozOmega]

Well, at least you're not me. so that's a plus

 

[Addi_Madd]

Sex workers use tools like Whats App for work, so clients can make bookings. They receive a constant deluge of messages from men who have no intention of booking and just want to chat and receive free emotional labour (or free spank bank material). It's exhausting and demoralising and sex workers are people too.

If by chance you mean you are making booking inquiries and being declined or ignored, have you read the sex worker's ad carefully and are you making a proper inquiry? As in "Hello (X), I saw your ad on (Website), I would like to book an hour on Wednesday afternoon please", as opposed to "Hello" or "Tell me more about yourself" or "You're pretty" etc?

Obviously there are sex workers who ignore some legitimate inquiries, usually because they're busy and don't want to reply hours later for discretion reasons. But the majority of the time if you contact a sex worker on social media like Twitter or Whats App and they don't reply it's because your message screamed "I'm not a legit client, I'm just a bored/horny/lonely guy who wants free attention/entertainment". If that's not your intention then try adjusting your messaging style and you will probably get different results. Good luck!

 

[MyStateKilledMe]

Sex workers use tools like Whats App for work, so clients can make bookings. They receive a constant deluge of messages from men who have no intention of booking and just want to chat and receive free emotional labour (or free spank bank material). It's exhausting and demoralising and sex workers are people too.

If by chance you mean you are making booking inquiries and being declined or ignored, have you read the sex worker's ad carefully and are you making a proper inquiry? As in "Hello (X), I saw your ad on (Website), I would like to book an hour on Wednesday afternoon please", as opposed to "Hello" or "Tell me more about yourself" or "You're pretty" etc?

Obviously there are sex workers who ignore some legitimate inquiries, usually because they're busy and don't want to reply hours later for discretion reasons. But the majority of the time if you contact a sex worker on social media like Twitter or Whats App and they don't reply it's because your message screamed "I'm not a legit client, I'm just a bored/horny/lonely guy who wants free attention/entertainment". If that's not your intention then try adjusting your messaging style and you will probably get different results. Good luck!

This guy gets it! <thumbs up> Sex workers/escorts/prosties are nothing like women on dating sites. You don't need to "show your interest" or "pique her interest". You just get down to business: "I'd like to meet on [day and time] for [duration] at [your place or hers]. Let me know if you need any additional information." That's it! Be respectful, short and to the point, and use proper writing.

And another thing: Did you (the OP @NothingElseMatters) mention any sex acts in your messages? That's a HUGE no-no! It's what police officers do when setting up an arrest. That's to collect evidence of sex being exchanged for money, and nothing screams "evidence" more than a written message. And some sex workers fall for it. So if you did that, then those girls mistook you for a cop and ignored you. If all you wrote is "meet tomorrow for 1 hour at your hotel", then "technically" nothing illegal was stated, and the cop has no ground to stand on.

I toyed with the idea of a sex worker years ago, before FOSTA/SESTA went into effect; that's how I know this stuff too. But my sex drive now is virtually nonexistent, thanks to Effexor I take. So it'd be like hands-free masturbation, if that, and therefore redundant. So I might as well save my money. Not to mention, FOSTA/SESTA made escort sites pretty much inaccessible in the US.

 

[Mentalmick]

FOSTA/SESTA

I thought that said Ford Fiesta.

 

[MyStateKilledMe]

I thought that said Ford Fiesta.

No, it didn't. But there's also a Ford Escort.

 

[roguetrader]

I got her number on a site, tries to talk to her but had no reply. She probably saw my pic and thought "i aint having sex with that diagusting fellow"

 

[Final Escape]

Hookers do have some preferences in aesthetics I'm not sure where u get the idea they don't and also for race. While the money is important their sanity is as well. You might have to actually peak their interest for them to see u. It's true that many have to use substances as this numbs out emotion and reduces sensitivity. Unfortunately we are not especially attracted to the average client we see but occasionally u do meet one u click really well with. I'm not that transient if I have a stable place to live where I don't have to worry about my neighbors ratting me out and there's enough privacy. There's a lot of men who assume sex workers are freaks that do weird stuff that their wife or gf won't do but I think most sex workers are not going to do hardcore porn stuff with u because it's too risky for our health to do dangerous stuff with unfamiliar people. Don't assume sex workers are like porn stars lol!

 

[MyStateKilledMe]

I got her number on a site, tries to talk to her but had no reply. She probably saw my pic and thought "i aint having sex with that diagusting fellow"

You're wrong. With sex workers, your looks are a very low priority. All they worry about is, in no particular order: (1) Is he a cop?, (2) Will he pay in full?, and (3) Is he clean physically and sexually? Trust me, they know they gotta have sex with unattractive men. And why did you send her your picture anyway? From what I remember reading a few years ago, sending your photo is not required to see a sex worker.

If your looks are still a big concern for you, see older (30+) sex workers. Older women in general, paid or nonpaid, are less picky about looks.

 

[Addi_Madd]

This guy gets it! <thumbs up> Sex workers/escorts/prosties are nothing like women on dating sites. You don't need to "show your interest" or "pique her interest". You just get down to business: "I'd like to meet on [day and time] for [duration] at [your place or hers]. Let me know if you need any additional information." That's it! Be respectful, short and to the point, and use proper writing.

And another thing: Did you (the OP @NothingElseMatters) mention any sex acts in your messages? That's a HUGE no-no! It's what police officers do when setting up an arrest. That's to collect evidence of sex being exchanged for money, and nothing screams "evidence" more than a written message. And some sex workers fall for it. So if you did that, then those girls mistook you for a cop and ignored you. If all you wrote is "meet tomorrow for 1 hour at your hotel", then "technically" nothing illegal was stated, and the cop has no ground to stand on.

I toyed with the idea of a sex worker years ago, before FOSTA/SESTA went into effect; that's how I know this stuff too. But my sex drive now is virtually nonexistent, thanks to Effexor I take. So it'd be like hands-free masturbation, if that, and therefore redundant. So I might as well save my money. Not to mention, FOSTA/SESTA made escort sites pretty much inaccessible in the US.

Thanks but I'm actually a woman...

 

[MyStateKilledMe]

Thanks but I'm actually a woman...

Oops, sorry!

Either way, no truer words were spoken. I hope your post helps the OP.

 

[Nexey]

I'd be willing to bet $20 that she had a good reason to ignore your message. Not sure why you're trying to hire a """hooker""" anyways, pretty nasty. And that's coming from someone who was one.

 

[I want to end it]

I'd be willing to bet $20 that she had a good reason to ignore your message. Not sure why you're trying to hire a """hooker""" anyways, pretty nasty. And that's coming from someone who was one.

Straight men can't get sex without paying for it, unless they're very attractive or famous. Just how it is I'm afraid. The market wouldn't exist if men could get it for free.

 

[MyStateKilledMe]

I'd be willing to bet $20 that she had a good reason to ignore your message. Not sure why you're trying to hire a """hooker""" anyways, pretty nasty. And that's coming from someone who was one.

I mentioned some of those reasons earlier, like him writing messages that made him look like a cop. What else did he do wrong? Do tell.

 

[Into The Void]

I got turned down by a escort once, It was a shitty picture of me though. I have a GF now anyway, so no need to pay a escort.

 

[Mentalmick]

Why on earth are people sending prostitutes pictures of themselves? What am I missing here. I needs to know. Last time I sent someone a photo Interpol arrived at the door.

 

[Donk]

Damn these escorts be thinking they on "the Bachelorette". Business must be booming during Covid.

 

[UterEntonaur]

They receive a constant deluge of messages from men who have no intention of booking and just want to chat and receive free emotional labour (or free spank bank material).

^^ This. That's why they have private whatsapp groups where they share numbers of time-wasters (so other sex workers can block/mute them too)

 

[TessB]

Hookers do have some preferences in aesthetics I'm not sure where u get the idea they don't and also for race. While the money is important their sanity is as well. You might have to actually peak their interest for them to see u. It's true that many have to use substances as this numbs out emotion and reduces sensitivity. Unfortunately we are not especially attracted to the average client we see but occasionally u do meet one u click really well with. I'm not that transient if I have a stable place to live where I don't have to worry about my neighbors ratting me out and there's enough privacy. There's a lot of men who assume sex workers are freaks that do weird stuff that their wife or gf won't do but I think most sex workers are not going to do hardcore porn stuff with u because it's too risky for our health to do dangerous stuff with unfamiliar people. Don't assume sex workers are like porn stars lol!

The sex workers I know really do tend to do stuff the clients wives won't do.. like one girl was paid to do a poo on a client! And often the guys hire 2 or 3 escorts at a time for a group thing.. or they want girls who will do coke then fuck which wives generally don't do either.
I just make sure I AM a wife who does everything escorts offer and more.. the only reason he'll need to pay for sex is if I book a girl for a threesome :-)

 

[Final Escape]

The sex workers I know really do tend to do stuff the clients wives won't do.. like one girl was paid to do a poo on a client! And often the guys hire 2 or 3 escorts at a time for a group thing.. or they want girls who will do coke then fuck which wives generally don't do either.
I just make sure I AM a wife who does everything escorts offer and more.. the only reason he'll need to pay for sex is if I book a girl for a threesome :-)

I would never do that stuff lol! But I do this for money sometimes.

 

[Mentalmick]

like one girl was paid to do a poo on a client!

 

[ZardozOmega]

The sex workers I know really do tend to do stuff the clients wives won't do.. like one girl was paid to do a poo on a client! And often the guys hire 2 or 3 escorts at a time for a group thing.. or they want girls who will do coke then fuck which wives generally don't do either.
I just make sure I AM a wife who does everything escorts offer and more.. the only reason he'll need to pay for sex is if I book a girl for a threesome :-)

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