Does anyone else feel that if only they had done one or two things differently, life would be completely different?

[Beachedwhale]

Yes ,but you were a different person then, didn't know the things you know now, so It wasn't your fault.

And you can ALWAYS have a new beginning and control your present. What you can't do is going back in time-so please stop thinking about it

Yes indeed....thanks...your post made me realise something. My current brain needs to die. Either I need to destroy it or I need to rewire it and be reborn. And the way to do that usually is with psychedelics. I need an ego death trip and rebirth

 

[Emilia1012]

Yes indeed....thanks...your post made me realise something. My current brain needs to die. Either I need to destroy it or I need to rewire it and be reborn. And the way to do that usually is with psychedelics. I need an ego death trip and rebirth

I have the same problem, keep thinking about the past and what I should have done differently and now everything would be better -but I can't know that for sure. And you were a different person then.

 

[Yasuke]

I don't really believe in free will. I think it's very, very limited. Too many things are beyond our control - from the place and time of birth, our parents, genetics, physical and mental health and so on and so on.
It's pointless to beat yourself up over this, there's too much randomness and chaos involved.

Thank you for saying this. Most are not willing to acknowledge this reality

 

[Journeytoletgo]

My options were

Option 1: suicide in high school
OR

Option 2: find a cure for acne disease if no solution here go back to option 1

 

[Pharmaruined]

My options were

Option 1: suicide in high school
OR

Option 2: find a cure for acne disease if no solution here go back to option 1

Glycolic acid.. have u tried?
or a laser like fraxel.. it'll nuke the bacteria.. or hydroquinone or skin peel.. so many things to try ,

 

[idonntseethepoint]

All I can think of is leaving my relationship. One of those things where you don't know what you've got until it's gone. Seeing her with someone else kills me. I've accepted I'll always be alone and that I'm going to die young. It makes me mad when people say 'you have a lot going for you', because if they were inside my head, they would CTB just the same as I will.

 

[logan]

Yes, a few wrong decisions can change everything. And often cannot be reversed.