Discussion Do you think youre ugly?

[vonvonwantpeace]

To some people I'm ugly, to others I'm not.

 

[Quitter]

I picture myself as being absolutely hideous most of the time, and barely presentable when I put on some makeup and nice clothes. Bf says I'm gorgeous even in a ratty tshirt and morning hair, bless his heart. Generally I've been told I'm pretty, in a tomboyish way. I also get constantly carded for friggin energy drinks (you gotta be 16 to buy them here) so I guess I'm youthful looking for being near 30 :P

 

[Final Escape]

I used to be attractive but now I'm ugly because age. Not hideous just not attractive like I was. Now I look in mirror and it's like yikes I don't wanna look too closely lol! I was so vain as a young lady because I was attractive that I didn't want to have kids bc I liked how my body looked lol! I didn't want to mess it up with kids. If that's not some shallow thinking I'm not sure what is.

 

[I’vehadenough]

We're you put on psych meds? Because those will make you ugly

 

[Lennox]

I'm not good looking, though some people have disagreed with this throughout my life, I could conclude from that that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but life gave me a couple of extremely good looking close male friends which accidentally rubbed in my face how life can be when you look like a model.
But, I could be appealing to people specially in situations where looks aren't the only variable.

I felt my best physically a few year ago, when I was pretty fit, had an almost visible 6 pack. Nowadays though, I let myself go completely. Developed a visible pot-belly, trim my beard once a week at most, and even though I have long hair, don't take anywhere near the necessary care to it.

 

[ots]

I'm a ratty piece of shit.

 

[peacefully31425]

I have some good angles, but on the whole, I'm like 4 or 5

 

[LastFlowers]

I was gorgeous, then a doctor prescribed a medicine and it made me instantly ugly by killing my facial tissue. Reason why I'm going to ctb

What was the medication?

I think the very notion of "beauty" is something extremely ugly.

I guess that explains why society and human kind at large is a rather hideous entity

 

[Alexus]

I'm telling it. I'm ugly as fuck.

 

[Mort]

Yep I am an ugly bugger i even had a couple of prostitutes turn me down :( . And they were no super models them selfs . I took all the mirrors out of my house even cant look at my self for before I see how ugly I am.

 

[LonelyCarioca]

I feel very average in every way, but there are things about me that I severely dislike. I feel ugly because I have hormonal acne and it just kills any kind of confidence. I never had it in my teens but now in my late 20s I suffer from it. Go figure. If my skin is clear, I tend to have a better day. Those days are few and far between anymore.

 

[blanketyblk]

Both ugly and short.

lol i'm tall and ugly.. so if we combine both of our DNA, we might be able to make 1 decent sized normal looking human! :-)

 

[ArtsyDrawer]

I look like a classic mid aged Ukrainian. The jowls are starting to show. Kinda want to take the way of the blade.
Seriously wanting hair follicle implants, though.
As I told the hair guy, I want my hair down to my ass and my beard down to my balls. Hair guy needed like five minutes to stop laughing. lol

Edit: then again, if the surgery works, I'm turning into a clean shaven skinhead - a 180 flip from what I am right now: short haired Hagrid.

 

[mathieu]

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. I don't seem to have trouble attracting guys. Seeing two at the moment. I'm trying to lose weight at the moment so being fat is kinda like being ugly I guess. Down to 98kg at 176cm.

 

[First loss]

lol i'm tall and ugly.. so if we combine both of our DNA, we might be able to make 1 decent sized normal looking human! :-)

Lmao sure. It would still be dumb because I am in the equation.

 

[sadgirl2002]

I'm ugly, I've always felt that way. I was bullied throughout all my years of high school by older girls and people in my year because of that and other reasons. My family think I'm pretty. I'm always told by my aunt that I'm a beautiful girl, her relatives and anyone who comes to visit say the same. I don't see it or believe it. I'm honestly an ugly person, inside and out. Also, I think I'm fat despite my average weight. I have problem areas which make me look horrible so that also contributes to my ugliness. I used to look beautiful; the kindness, purity and goodness reflected on my face. I look at old pictures from when I was 13-17 and I can see it, especially at 14-15. The suffering, torment and sins have brought my face really down and made me ugly.

 

[Morphinekiss]

I'm prettier when I'm thinner. That's not my eating disorder talking, my facial features just look better when I'm thinner. So right now I consider myself ugly. If I could lose weight I'd be passable.

 

[Emerald]

I'm strange looking but wouldn't say ugly. I have extreme sensory issues due to aspergers so to me everything about myself is wrong.

 

[azucaramargo]

No, I'm actually really fucking pretty.

Fucking love this. You go, Girl!

 

[Sweet emotion]

I used to think I was on the outside... but took work & became a nice looking lady. Now I see I'm a ugly person on the INSIDE... I want death because of this

I've met a lot of people who are ugly on the inside and trust me you are not one of them.
No. I've always been told that I was pretty beautiful, gorgeous. You can be told that all day and still be unhappy though. I'm sick with the highest ranking pain condition in medical history called Complex Regional Pain Syndrome. You can't see it. So when I tell people I'm sick they are so ignorant and say, but you look so good! Yeah well you can't see nerves so what do you want from me?

 

[Blackjack]

I used to be beautiful. Now I'm Fugly.

 

[mnjkl]

I feel very average in every way, but there are things about me that I severely dislike. I feel ugly because I have hormonal acne and it just kills any kind of confidence. I never had it in my teens but now in my late 20s I suffer from it. Go figure. If my skin is clear, I tend to have a better day. Those days are few and far between anymore.

I used to have that problem too but I took accutane and that pretty much cured it, only thing that worked at all. I just wish that I took it much earlier.

 

[Wayfaerer]

People keep telling me that I look younger than I really am. Is this suppose to be a compliment?

 

[LastFlowers]

I used to have that problem too but I took accutane and that pretty much cured it, only thing that worked at all. I just wish that I took it much earlier.

I had to go on accutane too. I was scared of scarring so wanted to be on it before the cystic acne did permanent damage. My skin was kind of the last good thing I had left about my face until bad acne happened. Then I got on accutane and it really did do the job. I tried to enjoy the good skin again even though the rest of my face was busted up and/or naturally unattractive. Good skin is kind of like an irl filter. I took very good care of it, as I didn't have much else.
..Fast forward years later and a fluke incident happened that ruined my skin beyond recognition. It's beyond acne, if anyone has ever seen laser damage victims who end up with this weird scarred looking holey texture that's endlessly dehydrated, ruddy, and aged 30+ years overnight..well it's basically that. Hasn't gone away for 3 years.
Just when you think things can't possibly get worse, trust me, they can.

My issue has always been my appearance and when stuff like this happens, even as someone who doesn't believe in higher powers or religion or any superstitious nonsense..you just gotta sit back and wonder..is the universe fucking with me?
It's just too sadistically perfect. I wake up every morning still unable to believe it. That this is my life. That this is the reflection staring back at me.

Anyway, glad accutane was able to help you, sorry you didn't get on it as soon as you wanted. I sympathize dearly with anyone who has skin issues or any issues that affect one's looks. That's what we show the world and what is-unfortunately-directly linked to our identity. It would seem only fair that everyone had-at the very least-comfort in their own skin. But that's not how the world works. Life is the definition of unfair.

 

[noon]

I guess I wouldn't consider myself ugly if it weren't for the bullying I received from my parents and people all throughout school. the "need" for validation sure does get tiring. there are days though where I genuinely think I'm really pretty. I really like those days.

 

[Sweet emotion]

People keep telling me that I look younger than I really am. Is this suppose to be a compliment?

Is that what is making you suicidal?

People keep telling me that I look younger than I really am. Is this suppose to be a compliment?

And yes always take people thinking you're younger as a compliment. I'm 34. People think I'm 29.

 

[AnnonyBox]

Honestly, since I'm bi, I have occasionally felt attracted to myself when looking in the mirror, but either my face truely is repulsive, or my own negative self image makes me hate my face so much that it instantly shuts me down there.

 

[Wayfaerer]

Is that what is making you suicidal?

No, not at all. What has made me suicidal is incalculably worse.

I don't know what could've given you that impression lol

 

[Harlar91]

I don't think I'm ugly. I would consider myself attractive based on the comments that have been given to me by people who are definitely not my mother.

 

[JulienSorel]

No. My extreme attractiveness has actually garnered me a lot of violence and harassment, but also love.

As a guy, when you are attractive in the gentile manner, you get targeted by most guys, and all girls will turn to you like plants competing for sunlight.