Do you think you’ll get a gravestone or an urn?

[articledon]

after i'm cremated, just flush my ashes down the toilet. bye.

I feel this, I'm like just toss it or flush it but then I thought maybe donate my body, it's not like like I'm gonna rise up and say wtf are ya'll doing lol

 

[CatabolicSeed]

Gravestone, as cremation goes against my religion. I already know exactly where I will be buried.

 

[ashedout]

I imagine my family would bury me in the same graveyard as my sister. I don't care either way...graves/urns/whatever ceremonies are important to the living

 

[UseItOrLoseIt]

I want my ashes scattered to the wind. But deep inside, I don't care even if they give my body to a necrophiliac.
At least I would finally make someone happy

 

[TessB]

No way do I want a gravestone. I don't want a funeral and I have already chosen the place I want my ashes scattered and it makes me feel content to imagine it.

 

[loopylou]

I own the burial plot rights for my mum and dads grave. I'm going to be flung in with them but without any headstone marker I'm there

 

[color_me_gone]

after i'm cremated, just flush my ashes down the toilet. bye.

I feel this, I'm like just toss it or flush it but then I thought maybe donate my body, it's not like like I'm gonna rise up and say wtf are ya'll doing lol

me too, me too!

 

[Hirokami]

My parents and I mutually agreed we'd all be put in a columbarium once we pass away, so cremation it is. I'd rather not bother anyone with a funeral, though but I would doubt I'd have control over that.

 

[Lady black]

I want to be buried and slowly rot so yes I want a gravestone

 

[Trisolaris]

Don't care what they'll do with my body.

 

[brokenwaves]

i don't want to be buried because i don't want a place for people who have harmed me in life to come and feel sorry for themselves. cremate me and scatter the ashes into the ocean baybeeee, i'm going home

 

[FreeAngel]

I want to be cremated

 

[NightmareTour]

I think there'll be some problems with that. My mum will to scatter my ashes at her new house, and my dad's side of the family will want a memorial they can go to. I just want to be thrown into the ocean and forgotten.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

I don't think I'll write a note or set any paperwork up when the time comes, so I have no idea what I'll get. The only thing I know that I won't get is a girlfriend.

 

[Tackingintothewind]

I would prefer cremation. For my ashes to be spread in the sea.

This

 

[May]

maybe parts of my body could be given to other people who deserve to live and then just throw me in the bin where I belong..

 

[wait.what]

I want to be cremated and scattered. I'd like to have my ashes fertilize trees and whatnot. I don't see the point in filling my dead veins with embalming poisons to "preserve" my body (for what?) and then sticking me in an expensive box, only to take the whole mess out and bury it. What a weird custom.

It sort of makes sense if you view it in light of the Christian tradition that says God is going to bring you back to life at the end of days, so you better make it convenient for him by keeping track of all your body parts. As if a God who could actually undo death is going to be all mad if he's missing pieces, like he got a defective IKEA kit or something. WTF. I'm fairly sure that the Catholic Church still wants you to get permission from your bishop before you cremate a dead relative. I don't know what happens if you don't. Do you go to hell? Does your dead relative go to hell? Are they barred from being buried in the local Catholic cemetery, which they probably wouldn't be anyway because you literally just cremated them? I don't effing know.

I don't particularly want an urn, unless it's one of those cardboard or cellulose ones that breaks down. Mostly I just want to be scattered out in the woods someplace that won't be paved over to build a strip mall in 5 years.

 

[Sprite_Geist]

I really hope not. I do not understand the sentiment behind gravestones and such, and dislike it too. I am not against others doing it for their loved ones, but do not wish for it to be done for me. If some form of relic is left near my remains I hope it will get destroyed or removed.

 

[clueless2dayor2morro]

i'd personally like an urn, or really the cheapest way to get rid of my remains. it'd be a nice symbolic gesture if they took my ashes and used them for trees and plants to grow in. i also heard you could compress the cremated into a sort of diamond, so maybe that'd be something else to look forward to.

 

[Bagger]

I will get a gravestone or at least ditch in the ground because of stupid laws in my country. The best thing for me would be just being thrown into dense forest. I want my body to quickly disperse and return to the carbon cycle. I want to be useful at least once.

 

[WornOutLife]

I want to be cremated because the idea of rotting in the ground boges me out.

I think exactly the same!!

 

[Wrennie]

I think exactly the same!!

I actually discussed this with my family and they agreed to cremate me if anything were to happen, so I feel like a massive weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Like, I get that I'd literally be dead and cease to exist, and therefore it's technically illogical for me to be self-conscious about how "I" look when there's no longer such a thing as "I", but when I'm in the process of dying I'll totally be picturing myself bloated and rotten... but now knowing I'll at least be spared that one cruelty will make it infinitely easier for me to follow through with the act.

 

[sadbadpsychogirl]

all i know is that i'm going to end up rotting in the ground, possibly in some kind of container. good enough for me

 

[SuicidalSymphonies]

I'd like to be cremated. If I am put into an urn, I would like for my ashes to be spread or close to my fiance. The necklace I own with some of his ashes in it, I would like if that were cremated with me. I just want to be with him, regardless of what happens to this flesh prison.

 

[Infinite Conscious]

Too bad the ashes can't be snorted... or at least smoked. :)

I would prefer cremation.

And where I live, it costs as much to buy a space at the local cemetery as it does to purchase a small apartment.
And all you need is 2m2, underground.

I would rather be returned to nature in the form of sand, then to rot underground and be eaten by maggots.