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gulp

gulp

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May 21, 2023
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or not?
 
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Pluto

Pluto

Cat Extremist
Dec 27, 2020
5,221
Almost everyone is doing it because of love, one way or another.
 
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BookPostponed

BookPostponed

an ideation regular
May 1, 2023
25
I'm partially ctb because I can't escape "love", and partially because I love myself to not deal with this no mo
 
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NoLoveNoHope

NoLoveNoHope

Mage
Mar 25, 2023
561
I don't think it is, I am traumatized from my last relationship and it's a massive reason why I want to CTB.
 
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EndJstifiesTheMeans

EndJstifiesTheMeans

Bad english, didn't go to school sorry
May 14, 2023
447
No, i will do it because i got rejected by my crush
 
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unnormal9

unnormal9

SOLDIER T.
Apr 12, 2023
1,134
I don't think it is, I am traumatized from my last relationship and it's a massive reason why I want to CTB.
so was I, it's part of my reason too
 
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Death is my goal

Death is my goal

pathetic failure
Aug 25, 2022
516
imo, ctb because of romantic love is dumb
again just my opinion
 
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leftdreaming

leftdreaming

I should’ve been a house cat
Apr 28, 2023
170
Hate to say it, but yes. I've never experienced attraction and have spent my youth growing up around friends with rocky relationships. Got tiring after a while with the whole "what do you know about depression?" thing some people spew. I do believe the emotions and pain they felt is real, though. Maybe my lack of experience in this regard frustrates me and my opinion is based on that.

That said, abuse whether it be verbal, physical, or mental are never okay. I also believe that betrayal is a horrible thing and some people just suck in general.

Sorry for the controversial answer and mind dump. I hope you find what you are looking for.
 
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▪︎⚠ KOHI ⚠▪︎

▪︎⚠ KOHI ⚠▪︎

-10 points in life
Feb 27, 2023
53
I don't think so, well, I do not plan to ctb mainly because of a romantic interest or reason but I understand what y'all are saying.
 
The anhedonic one

The anhedonic one

Dead inside
May 20, 2023
1,069
Absolutely yes. My heart was broken recently. I have been suicidal for a long time, but the pain and emotional turmoil of romantic betrayal and rejection is beyond sorrowful.
 
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▪︎⚠ KOHI ⚠▪︎

▪︎⚠ KOHI ⚠▪︎

-10 points in life
Feb 27, 2023
53
Hate to say it, but yes. I've never experienced attraction and have spent my youth growing up around friends with rocky relationships. Got tiring after a while with the whole "what do you know about depression?" thing some people spew. I do believe the emotions and pain they felt is real, though. Maybe my lack of experience in this regard frustrates me and my opinion is based on that.

That said, abuse whether it be verbal, physical, or mental are never okay. I also believe that betrayal is a horrible thing and some people just suck in general.

Sorry for the controversial answer and mind dump. I hope you find what you are looking for.
Same for me, although I have had romantic relationships I'm now afraid of falling for someone because of most of these past experiences.
It makes feel lonely sometimes that, well, I reclude myself in this aspect and when a friend tells me they need some advice because of an issue they had with their partner or something like that, all I can do is just try to help because I can't relate at all now in these situations, and also makes me wonder sometimes if I'm a bad person just because I can't sympathise with them.


Sorry if it's not clear or awkward
 
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EnderAxe

EnderAxe

Member
Mar 14, 2023
5
I don't think so, My last relationship was very traumatizing and aspects of it still affect me to this day. It was a big contributor to the reason i wanted to ctb and I was going to, but by some coincidence that moment was the exact moment my friend decided to check up on me lol
 
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leftdreaming

leftdreaming

I should’ve been a house cat
Apr 28, 2023
170
sometimes if I'm a bad person just because I can't sympathise with them.
If being unable to sympathize with people makes us bad, then we are all going to hell. It's better to fail at sympathizing than to claim understanding of a situation when you don't imo.

Wanting the best for one another is what makes us good, that's what I live by.
 
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charlotte_

charlotte_

Arcanist
Mar 12, 2023
435
There's no foolish reason for CTB. As long as it makes you want to do it, then it's valid. Love is no exception. A lot of things in our life surround around love, and it is also one of the key factors to be happy and fulfilled.
 
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Ashu

Ashu

novelist, sanskritist, Canadian living in India
Nov 13, 2021
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
43,674
Suicide could never be pathetic under any circumstances, to suggest such a thing would be both insensitive and absurd, that idea would be centred around delusional beliefs that existing is something of value and is a desirable state for everyone. Nobody is obligated to delay the inevitable, and suicide could never need a reason, we will all die someday whether there is a reason behind it or not, existing is completely futile and meaningless anyway. Death will erase everything for us someday so it's up to the individual when to leave. To want to deny someone the right to die is inhumane.
 
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Ernest1964

Specialist
Jan 6, 2023
362
Yes. I think that CTB because of love is dumb... But who cares? An individuals reason for CTB is their own and should not be influenced by any one else.
 
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macrocosm

Member
Apr 3, 2023
93
Love and hate are the strongest emotions humans have, and drive people to do all kinds of things, conquer kingdoms and commit genocide and all kinds of crazy things historically. CBT is CBT and there's no bad or good reason that is justified or unjustified. Don't feel judged
 
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