My pet turtle doesn't want to touch his food. I think he's depressed. I told my dad we should let him go to the wild, but he refused because 'it's too dangerous out there'. I don't know what to do.
TL;DR: turtles/animals can be like that. it's okay (that the turtle isn't doing well). but I understand why you're hurting. it could be something about its habitat that's not working. I know I sound really, really cruel saying "it's okay", but I'll explain.
I keep a cat. 5 months old now. mom's friend keeps tons of cats and just let 'em do their own things, every breeding season. friend owes mom some money, felt sorry and gifted mom a kitten. mom wants no cats, so lil cat lives with me. I named it "lil man". it's meowing in the cutest way now as I type.
I read some vet stuff so that lil man don't need to suffer through my own hands. turns out there's every fucking reason that animals would stop doing what their life needs. a lot of cats, for example, would become unable to take a piss after they been stressed out. burnt out might be a better word, I think, cuz the condition can last very long till they get kidney stones and shit. or you know, the classic "rabbit dead cuz owner bathed it" stuff, even when it wasn't causing physical problems for the rabbit. it's the *fear* of hypothermia, that got them rabbits literally die from this stress, trauma, almost INSTANTLY. I think it's a fucking wonder that they *do*, but also a fucking wonder that humans *don't*. as long as the body's alive, the human mind gives you a second, third, fourth, a thousand even, alter to go on. I have four other. I am one, the host, wanting to take everyone on this boat with me and sail to death. not the "original" cuz there's no "originals" once the mind splits. we had another host before, now she's just "dead", in the head, not functioning to the outside world anymore.
I know the medical world invalidates our experiences but this is the only answer I have as to why I'm always losing time. and it took *me* so long to realize and to accept that. my ex has it too. we both diagnosed at this point.
so I mean, life is not easy for whichever animal. there's every way functions can go wrong. and it's meant to be like that, really. for every way something'll be able to work, there's a way it can break down *or* still function but differently. "differently" like, autism, ADHD, or like DID/OSDD (what I/we have). that's why I say sick and mad people are always gonna be with us. as long as humanity exists, we are here. same with other animals.
no one knows if your pet turtle wants to see a vet or not, go to the wild or stay home. but it's okay that lil turtle isn't doing alright though. there's always gonna be turtles like that.
although from what I heard, providing the right kind of habitat for many species of turtles can be tricky. maybe there's a way with that. we don't wanna *cause* another to suffer, but a lot of the times when there's little we have under our own control, it's more compassionate and caring to simply accept and bear with that.