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StarryEyed

StarryEyed

PMs aren't my thing
Mar 14, 2024
412
What a great topic!

Earth: Yes.
SaSu: Yes.
Community: Somewhat (city kind of, friends yes, family only some).
Country: Somewhat.

It's always been a struggle for me to connect. But when I do, it's often worth the effort.
 
Spite

Spite

I wish I never existed.
Aug 20, 2025
686
I don't feel like I belong anywhere.
 
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StarryEyed

StarryEyed

PMs aren't my thing
Mar 14, 2024
412
I don't feel like I belong anywhere.
Oh? πŸ«ͺπŸ₯²

Sometimes our feelings can change. Like others have said here, I used to feel I didn't belong anywhere. With time, that has changed as I've made connections. So maybe it will change for you?

Sometimes our thoughts can be different than our feelings. Often when I feel I don't belong, if I really think about it, I can often find - in some way - I do belong. Maybe you can find reasons you belong?

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Ludath

Ludath

All the help in the world couldn’t save me
Sep 7, 2026
12
Fuck no. I fully believe i would be happier if i was born as a slave in medieval times.
 
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tomame

tomame

lost in the country 🌾
Dec 28, 2025
287
i don't. i've never met anyone like myself .. and i don't say that to highlight myself as superior somehow. i just really haven't .. maybe ariana grande at the most for what i can perceive of her from the outside. or disney characters. or people who haven't experienced much in life .. idk. most people seem so different than me and i fail to see how my attributes would deem useful to survive.

i do however feel i belong here un SaSu .. i also felt i belonged in a psych ward i stayed in once .. as well as an ED community i'm apart of. just the vulnerability we carry here and the massive load our illness carries in our life and how we vulnerably relate to one another without judgement, is why i stick around. i love feeling like i'm not alone so yes, despite feeling less alone in these communities .. i would love to meet more people like me, as i do personalities of others, much more
 
狐狐狐

狐狐狐

ι‡Žη‹
Aug 20, 2026
42
For a long time I thought I didn't -- I really really struggled, and only recently am I starting to feel like I belong

It's like patch work, nothing is perfect, and I don't feel like I belong everywhere

Not sure at this stage I'm going to stay,

My wings are tired, for once, I can rest on this branch.

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I'm happy to be on earth. I don't feel like I belong where I'm at in life. Sasu is for the most part a nice reprieve from 'normal' people.

Regarding where I'm at in my life I think the stray cat spirit is calling and I'd like to wander a bit again, honestly though I'm getting too old for this.
 
pond

pond

stuck like a nerf dart
May 8, 2018
310
No. I don't belong in this world, my body, nor my brain.
 

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