Do you ever hate your parents for bringing you into this world?

[Braindead Atheist]

I feel so angry at my parents for bringing me into this world. I just hate them and don't even care anymore. I'm done with everything and I wish more than anything that it was all over. That's all I want is to just go die and go to that void of existence. Everything in my life is a problem and life itself is worthless and dreadful. My god damn parents are just wanting to lock me up for being unhappy. They're "tired of putting up with my crap" and my mom said I'm a psycopath worse than my elementary school principal who bullied me. I will not be writing that little bitch a goodbye note. Theres a lot of things I wanted in this life that will just never come to pass. I wanted to be skinny, I wanted to be a succesful graphic designer, I wanted a nice condo at meadow brook park by my house. But none of that was ever going to happen anyways. I just don't think this life is worth living. Every time I try to live it I just end up gaining weight or one of my friends ditches me or something else goes wrong. I'm tired all the time and everyone is done with me. No one even wants to say good-bye. ...this life makes me sick, this life is dead to me.

I am DONE.

 

[NeverNoLuck]

Yes. I remember asking my dad why he had me and he pretty much said "LOL CAUSE"
few years prior, my mom told me she wished she never had kids. my parents were 19 and 20. So i know they didnt want kids. Im an accident. unwanted. I hate my parents for bringing me here too.

 

[Braindead Atheist]

Yes. I remember asking my dad why he had me and he pretty much said "LOL CAUSE"
few years prior, my mom told me she wished she never had kids. my parents were 19 and 20. So i know they didnt want kids. Im an accident. unwanted. I hate my parents for bringing me here too.

I'm really sorry. I hope we both get to find some peace before we go. I wish you well and you deserve better.

 

[Snake of Eden]

I just wish I didnt happen but I dont hate them for it because there is not much wrong with them. The problem is me physically and mentally I am not a good offspring by any stretch. Sometimes I wish that they did something bad to me intentionally so I can hold a grudge and ctb to get back at them but I dont hold a grudge and if I am to ctb then my conscience will be at odds with hurting them because they dont deserve it

 

[FuneralCry]

I do wish I was never born and I view my existence as a mistake. My parents are essentially the cause of all my suffering. I was perfectly fine not existing until I was brought into this world. However they thought they were doing a good thing by having children. My hate is not directed towards them, but more to just life in general. I dislike everything about living.

 

[NeverNoLuck]

I'm really sorry. I hope we both get to find some peace before we go. I wish you well and you deserve better.

Thank you. I wish you the same.

 

[Stroopwafel.]

I do wish I was never born and I view my existence as a mistake. My parents are essentially the cause of all my suffering. I was perfectly fine not existing until I was brought into this world. However they thought they were doing a good thing by having children. My hate is not directed towards them, but more to just life in general. I dislike everything about living.

I agree with this. I do not specifically hate my parents for bringing me into this world. They thought they did a good thing. My mom literally told me if she knew what my existence would be like, she would have never gotten me/kids. She knows how much I suffer and it breakes her.

 

[Braindead Atheist]

I agree with this. I do not specifically hate my parents for bringing me into this world. They thought they did a good thing. My mom literally told me if she knew what my existence would be like, she would have never gotten me/kids. She knows how much I suffer and it breakes her.

my mom and dad don't give a shit. they want me here regardless and are done hearing about it. talk about selfish.

 

[Snake of Eden]

my mom and dad don't give a shit. they want me here regardless and are done hearing about it. talk about selfish.

Mine too are not budging to let me go. They feel entitled to rather have me stay to suffer than be dead. I asked them to wish for my death and I got absolutely no as a response

 

[heretogethelp]

I feel so angry at my parents for bringing me into this world. I just hate them and don't even care anymore. I'm done with everything and I wish more than anything that it was all over. That's all I want is to just go die and go to that void of existence. Everything in my life is a problem and life itself is worthless and dreadful. My god damn parents are just wanting to lock me up for being unhappy. They're "tired of putting up with my crap" and my mom said I'm a psycopath worse than my elementary school principal who bullied me. I will not be writing that little bitch a goodbye note. Theres a lot of things I wanted in this life that will just never come to pass. I wanted to be skinny, I wanted to be a succesful graphic designer, I wanted a nice condo at meadow brook park by my house. But none of that was ever going to happen anyways. I just don't think this life is worth living. Every time I try to live it I just end up gaining weight or one of my friends ditches me or something else goes wrong. I'm tired all the time and everyone is done with me. No one even wants to say good-bye. ...this life makes me sick, this life is dead to me.

I am DONE.

I think having children is foolish and ignorant, but that's just my opinion.

 

[Alwaysbadtime]

My dad I guess said to my mom that life was full of pain before I was born or created. I wish she would have listened and said no. She wanted a baby. Babies are cute. She is a pro-lifer who thinks suicide is the easy way out and it's a shame one doesn't make their lives better.

They had no idea how fucked my existence would become. It's not their fault...but I think my dad would have been ok not having any kids.

It's too bad babies can't stay babies and kittens stay kittens.

 

[NormaJeane]

It is my parents fault that I ended up here. It is because of my parents that I exist. I did not create myself but I have to live with myself. I live in a society where people are forced to live no matter the circumstances but our pets can be killed at the vets. I hate my parents who try to force me to live.

 

[GreenTree]

I love my parents and in no way blame them. I blame myself for wrong gullible choices leading for how I feel now. Death would truly be a relief.

 

[Lightflicker]

I don't hate my parents as hate is strong word. But like knowing full well you're bringing a children into this world knowing you have terminal illness it's selfish knowing you won't be able to be around for as long as you would like to be. The effects it can cause on undeveloped brain and the full term mental health problems not being brought up like normal child. It's the broken childhood that can have long effects either into adulthood life.

 

[ClownMe]

I hate them for bringing me into this world, yes, but I hate them even more simply for the fact that they're shitty parents.

 

[Braindead Atheist]

I don't hate my parents as hate is strong word. But like knowing full well you're bringing a children into this world knowing you have terminal illness it's selfish knowing you won't be able to be around for as long as you would like to be. The effects it can cause on undeveloped brain and the full term mental health problems not being brought up like normal child. It's the broken childhood that can have long effects either into adulthood life.

i'm retarded but my parents didn't know that I would be

I hate them for bringing me into this world, yes, but I hate them even more simply for the fact that they're shitty parents.

I'm so sorry!

It is my parents fault that I ended up here. It is because of my parents that I exist. I did not create myself but I have to live with myself. I live in a society where people are forced to live no matter the circumstances but our pets can be killed at the vets. I hate my parents who try to force me to live.

I feel the same way

 

[rosie93]

Every day.

 

[summers]

I don't hate my parents. I've had my share of ups and downs, and they weren't perfect, but at least they tried. I learned a lot from my father and grandfather. My mom did the best she could, despite her struggles.

Both of my parents told me they wish they didn't have kids at points in my life. I understand what they mean. It doesn't mean that they hate me, just that given the chance, they would have done things differently. We all have feelings of regret, and wish we could have a second go at certain things.

I think I was pretty lucky in the parent department. At the same time, I completely understand the people who do hate their parents.

 

[Tiredsotired]

Yes, although I do Iove them, I also hate them for having me. I was the last child because my father absolutely wanted a girl after having two sons. My youth was a living hell having to deal with a crazy violent brother who's still alive. I hate my mom for being free now, after she died of cancer. I'm still stuck here having to deal with more problems caused by my parents. My life would've been so different had I been an only child, I could've had a happier life. I just wish someone would invent the suicide pill already.

 

[LONE WOLF.]

I don't hate my parents for bringing me into the world, but l do resent them for giving up on me at the age of 17yrs when they knew l'd already been given up on by my birth mother at 7 weeks old!

 

[it's_all_a_game]

I do hate my mom sometimes for bringing me into a world where I have faced bullying, poverty, discrimination, etc. At the same time, I respect her for caring for me when no one else does.

 

[slyna]

Society is trying to hide the truth about parents because this big fat machinery called society needs to go around and without KIDS it's doomed.
Parents are evil. They are the epitome of selfish people and they cherish in the thought of suffering to another innocent soul.
(Nobody will tell you that but every parent knows this deep within)
Ask yourself, why do you think numerous people get kids just to molest their own kids for example? I've seen countless news articles about fathers molesting their own daughters. In a state near Brooklyn in the USA there is a place where drug addicts are famous for selling their kids for dope. They prostitute their own daughter...

And you say this is only because of drugs and so on? Yeah right. Blame it on the drugs. Sure, they're a big reason why people go that far but drugs are just an instrument.
Drugs is a kickstarter. But peoples insanity manifest differently in every individual and it's latent in every invidivual. Yes, I'm saying that everybody has the potential to become "crazy" or what you as a society define as "crazy" anyway.

Having a kid is the only (and I mean only) remedy/answer to their life thats impossible to save. So they get a kid, because that saves them from a meaningless life.
It can save the relationship if it's in a bad storm. As a matter in fact, many people get kids just for this reason and they are very brutually honest about it.
They say that the kid is like a first aid to the relationship. That's all.
They get off on this. That's the harsh truth. Parents are horny people that don't know how to control their ecstasy of feelings of horniness and absolute illusion of the blissful life.

Parents are nutjobs. Parents are CRAZY people.

If I am ever placed in a situation of life and death and I am with a parent and other people, I will not hesitate to call the hounds on those parents that I see for money/food or whatever that I NEED to survive. I'm gonna enjoy that.

Damn, I just got a stronger will to live just to experience that lol.

 

[Dear Agony]

Not bringing me into it, but sometimes I do feel very angry that they won't let me leave it. They gave me life so they think they still have some kind of ownership over it, but they don't. They shouldn't. I should be able to go whenever I want to.
I understand them though to a point. I could never hate my parents for anything, although sometimes I wish I could (my father is not the best man there is...) But, I love them too dearly to do that.

 

[FailureGirl]

Iv never hated my parents for bringing me into this world. I do often hate the world its self and my existence but I love my parents and they couldn't have known how things would turn out or how I would end up feeling.

 

[WatermelonMel]

Yes, and any time they say something like "we brought you into this world" I ask "Why? Why did you have to do that?"

I cringe whenever people get excited about having kids AKA excited to add more suffering.

 

[GoingMyOwnWay]

Both of my parents are addicted to meth and try and blame me for their addiction. Meth has turned them into the most horrible people, my mum was already a nasty bitch but meth has just accentuated her nastiness. I never had a chance at life with parents who would choose drugs over me.

 

[MindFog]

Yes ofcourse... But more because I'm an accident. They were dumb teenagers when they have me. I ruined their future, probably even hated me since I heard I was almost aborted.

I never had a fighting chance at life myself. Guess it's payback huh?

 

[Darkover]

As a human being one has been endowed with just enough intelligence to be able to see clearly how utterly inadequate that intelligence is when confronted with what exists, life is about struggling you will have to fight everyday of your lifetime for little reward lower your expectations to meet reality, life's mad hard but you will survive, i want to be free of this pain, death is better than a bad life, lifes a bitch and then you die so fuck the world and lets get high. i regret being born here every single day life is ruined for reason beyond my control i could never enjoy my life, Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom.

 

[PDAnnie2610]

Everytime mom screams about lack of space and takes out her frustrations on grandma, I feel that she's resenting my existence.

Psyching myself for death by SN. 2 more months to go before freedom.

 

[Braindead Atheist]

Everytime mom screams about lack of space and takes out her frustrations on grandma, I feel that she's resenting my existence.

Psyching myself for death by SN. 2 more months to go before freedom.

I'm so sorry it came to this for you.

Yes ofcourse... But more because I'm an accident. They were dumb teenagers when they have me. I ruined their future, probably even hated me since I heard I was almost aborted.

I never had a fighting chance at life myself. Guess it's payback huh?

for your suicide note write, "well, well, well...how the turn tables..." (you probably don't understand this if you don't watch the office)

I do hate my mom sometimes for bringing me into a world where I have faced bullying, poverty, discrimination, etc. At the same time, I respect her for caring for me when no one else does.

yeah I can sort of see it both ways