do you commit suicide for a girl?

[edu0z]

Hello. Normally the reasons for suicide are usually a little deeper than just a girl or a specific relationship.

I have been suicidal most of my life, but my first major depression was caused by a heartbreak with a girl at age 16. That is why I can understand the pain of those people who feel rejected and are desperate for a girl who seems to be... that of their dreams.

At that time I was a virgin... I had never kissed a woman, and I would never have dreamed of it either. However, when I no longer saw any way out, I came across a certain book that showed me how wrong I was.

Unlike popular belief (which most of the time is wrong), and what Disney has told us, social skills and courtship between men and women are skills like any other that can be learned. They're like playing chess or your favorite video game.

The other day I saw here a post of a person who said that his life would be perfect if only someone loved him. Well, if this could help me, maybe other people too.

this book. Since then I came across him, I have enjoyed the company of hundreds of women. This hasn't improved my life much, but it's been fun and may help some of you.


Y si hablas español este es para ti :)



you can search for them on amazon or download them pirate in PDF.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Don't see how casual sex is any better than masturbation. Still, does this sort of thing work for autistic, friendless, virgin NEETs that can't feel positive emotions? I imagine you have to have some base level of value to women for any techniques to work.

 

[Apricity]

Don't see how casual sex is any better than masturbation.

I'm struggling with a response here...

 

[Dot]

Jst hope book not like The Game which based on insulting & undervaluing women.

 

[TotallyIsolated]

These books are bullshit. Trying to be deliberately manipulative will not make you attractive to women. Plus, frankly the way these books actually describe sex is just sad. To roosh v and other scumbag PUAs sex is a joyless, mechanical transaction of power. If you don't enjoy sex then why are you so fixated on getting it?

I can totally relate to the loneliness and longing for companionship OP describes, but trying to trick women into sleeping with you isn't going to make you feel better nor fix the problems in your life.

 

[lonerclown666]

yes i am

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

No, definitely not. Many women might prefer it if you kill yourself (if you're not good-looking) but that's no reason to actually do it.

 

[blueclover_.]

As a woman, here's some advice that might help:

1. Just be nice, but don't be pathetic. Talk with dignity, don't show desperation. Show kindness with confidence.
2. Respect her as a human being, not a sex object. Women are human beings too, not some set of collections for you to brag about to your homeboys.
3. Just be confident about yourself. You like basketball? Be proud. You don't like basketball? Be proud. But never put down other people who disagree with you. Basic manners tbh, which many guys seem to be lacking in modern society.

 

[Luchs]

There is a difference between just casual sex and "catching" a woman and having an actual meaningful relationship, where you have a connection with her. If you somehow have to play around and have to convince her she isn't the right one.

 

[motel rooms]

View attachment 77781this book. Since then I came across him, I have enjoyed the company of hundreds of women.

Oh please, that shitty book has never done shit for anybody. You've enjoyed the company of hundreds of women only if you're handsome or rich. Don't you suffer from terrible fibromyalgia, btw? Also, as everyone else has pointed out, actual love has nothing to do with casual sex.

 

[og.]

I agree most of these type of books never help but alot of people are actually handsome without actually knowing it and they just to make changes to their lifestyle and stop with the whole blackpill shit

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

Most of these PUAs are dorks themselves. Neil Strauss? Give me a break. That's the thing, even though I'm sure he's banged 100x more women than me I still wouldn't care what he has to say.

 

[LonelyBrazilian]

I read this and other PUA books, it never worked for me in practice.

 

[Lucifer'sRight]

Hello. Normally the reasons for suicide are usually a little deeper than just a girl or a specific relationship.

I have been suicidal most of my life, but my first major depression was caused by a heartbreak with a girl at age 16. That is why I can understand the pain of those people who feel rejected and are desperate for a girl who seems to be... that of their dreams.

At that time I was a virgin... I had never kissed a woman, and I would never have dreamed of it either. However, when I no longer saw any way out, I came across a certain book that showed me how wrong I was.

Unlike popular belief (which most of the time is wrong), and what Disney has told us, social skills and courtship between men and women are skills like any other that can be learned. They're like playing chess or your favorite video game.

The other day I saw here a post of a person who said that his life would be perfect if only someone loved him. Well, if this could help me, maybe other people too.

View attachment 77781this book. Since then I came across him, I have enjoyed the company of hundreds of women. This hasn't improved my life much, but it's been fun and may help some of you.


Y si hablas español este es para ti :)

View attachment 77782

you can search for them on amazon or download them pirate in PDF.

so you're depressed cause you can't get casual sex?
this society should be annihilated.

 

[matt6callis]

No way. It hurts like hell, but you always get over someone. Def not worth suicide.

 

[Insomniac]

you had good intentions OP, for sharing this.

however, I'm glad to see that most people in the comments understand that self-help books and teachings are a scam.

you can't escape your fate.

 

[fox_wannabe]

Di you just...
Did you just advertise pua book?

 

[Marktheghost]

I don't want casual sex. I want love and affection and company and someone to talk to and FRIENDSHIP. :-(

 

[Donk]

No

 

[yive]

why do people create such topics here? often its such a toxic, provocative discussion. do you want to devalue someone else's pain? its a personal decision for everyone, no one else should have any say in it

 

[LonelyBrazilian]

why do people create such topics here? often its such a toxic, provocative discussion. do you want to devalue someone else's pain? its a personal decision for everyone, no one else should have any say in it

I think the same. This type of discussion always gives me triggers.

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

why do people create such topics here?

Because men don't have many places to air their grievances and women are often a part of their suicidality.

 

[sadbadpsychogirl]

Because men don't have many places to air their grievances and women are often a part of their suicidality.

that may be your experience but it doesn't apply to all men.

 

[Quinlor]

I almost ctb because of the last woman I had a relationship with I tried three times without success and now of course I feel like an idiot

 

[yive]

Because men don't have many places to air their grievances and women are often a part of their suicidality.

i don't argue with your statement, i'm an incel myself.
i wanted to say that its cruel to devalue the pain of suicidal people, whatever their reasons for dying

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

i don't argue with your statement, i'm an incel myself.
i wanted to say that its cruel to devalue the pain of suicidal people, whatever their reasons for dying

I agree but many women will just hear 'incel' and be like 'eww.'

 

[peach75]

it would turned up me and then join if i knew that someone ctb for me

 

[deathLiberation]

To the op question. No, i wouldnt commit suicide for anyone. My reasons are purely red pill based of how existence feels like a lie in so many ways.

I´ll share a bit on the subject of "suicide because of a girl that rejeteced me".

I was rejected and felt i would be forever alone. But one day i decided to just pay for sex. I had enough of all those "The mystery method" or players or wtv, at the time i read some of that crap that is purely manipulative to get laid.

Maybe i got lucky, but the girl i payed to have sex with was very understandable and nice. I did it, felt super mechanical and not as exciting as i thought.

After that my confidence was different, not higher or lower, just different. I actually got a girlfriend like 1 year after that, just because i didnt care anymore, i got into other short more casual relationships and i still payed 2 or 3 times for sex.

That old tradition of fathers taking their sons to a bunny ranch of something was actually to rid the boys of that ideia that girls are some divine beings and sex is the most amazing thing, it´s good, but it´s not a suicide reason imo.

Just my 2 cents.

 

[Blue_mist]

Killing own self for someone is one the most stupid things. No one deserves to take our lives in the name of love and all that shit. Probably they will be sad for few months or just weeks then what! They will definitely go on, be in someone's bed and you will be forgotten history.

 

[deleted]

I once deeply liked a girl but she hurt me so fucking much, I was 15 and she was 18. In my country killing yourself for women is something to become a joke, I would never kill myself for women, But I could kill myself along with a