Discussion do you care what clothes you die in?

[interna]

title. do you care?
personally i don't, im probably dying in a hoodie and some sweatpants. i know some people stress over and plan their appearance before dying.

 

[Catscratch]

Yes. I want to wear an good outfit even when die

 

[vyvanceandvodka]

I never thought about it until I saw posts on here discussing what clothes they want to die in. Now it got me thinking. But when I'm feeling really suicidal, I'm not thinking about what I'm wearing lol

 

[Baisley]

I don't care. Since I have been in this funk and depressed, I don't care how, I look at all. I used to be pretty and took care of myself and now I have lost so much weight, I look like a concentration camp victim, I don't do anything with my hair, and don't wear make up.. I barely function and just eat and sleep thinking of ways to CTB.

 

[IsolatedChaos]

Oh, absolutely, I'm a fashionista, no way in hell am I dying without my style lol

 

[BullsDon'tFly]

Not very much. There was a thread of an AMA by a mortician where he/she stated that it is very common for dead bodies to release... anything they've got inside, basically.

Spoiler: TW: Bodily fluids

Feces, urine, maybe blood from nose, liquids...

If you plan to CTB and desire a funeral, I wouldn't suggest to wear the clothes you want to appear in when doing it.

 

[A_Lost_Feeling]

I know its not going to be pretty, but id atleast like to be presentable, I plan to get my hair/beard cut and wear nice (ish) clothing

 

[Dawnfang11]

As a trans woman, I have a... difficult relationship with my clothes. My parents are pretty resistant to it (especially me wearing dresses), so back when I was pretty adamant on ctb, it was important to me that I die in a dress. So it would be the last thing my parents would see me in. So they remember me that way...

 

[Drogon]

Jeans and a T Shirt

 

[Fadenself00]

naked-gang, rise up !

 

[Forever Sleep]

To an extent. I want to be clean but, nothing fancy. I'll go for comfort over fashion- same as in life.

 

[monetpompo]

As a trans woman, I have a... difficult relationship with my clothes. My parents are pretty resistant to it (especially me wearing dresses), so back when I was pretty adamant on ctb, it was important to me that I die in a dress. So it would be the last thing my parents would see me in. So they remember me that way...

transphobic parents.... grrr.....

i share most of my clothes with my sister because we're the same size so i think i'm going to die in pajamas or clothes she doesn't wear so she isn't mad she can't wear a specific pair of jeans anymore. i'm pretty sure i'll die closeted to my parents because it's just another thing they'll assume i'm going to hell for. i'm pretty sure they'd kick me out of the house if i told them.

 

[lawlietsph]

no, not at all.. actually i don't care about nothing, none of my stuff, i just want to die :(

 

[Reishi]

I want to be relatively comfortable and not look like a slob so yeah kinda....

 

[Dawnfang11]

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transphobic parents.... grrr.....

i share most of my clothes with my sister because we're the same size so i think i'm going to die in pajamas or clothes she doesn't wear so she isn't mad she can't wear a specific pair of jeans anymore. i'm pretty sure i'll die closeted to my parents because it's just another thing they'll assume i'm going to hell for. i'm pretty sure they'd kick me out of the house if i told them.

Yeah I get the pajama part lol. I'm so sorry that you have to be in the closet. Everyone should get to be themselves. Sending lots of love your way. I hope you find a way to be happy, or that whatever lies beyond is kinder to you. I wish you peace, friend <3

 

[AcrobaticSilky]

I'll probably be wearing headphones, something comfortable, and a tarp to minimize the clean up inconvenience. Depending on the method, also a printed out copy of DNR paperwork. But I'm leaning towards the firearms method so that might not be a concern if my aim isnt horrible.

 

[Sphinxi]

I always tried to dress well in public, so I'll probably wear something nice when I die. I imagine having that shit on also makes the experience less traumatic for anyone that watches you die and/or cleans up your corpse

 

[darksouls]

no, I dont care, I will wear what I always wear

 

[BillyBob]

Do not care one bit what I will CTB in. I just normally wear a hoodie and trackpants with some thermals. Nothing special or branded.
When I CTB I would rather feel comfortable for my final moments then anything else.

 

[badenddonuts]

i think i care more about what i'll be buried (if i get buried) in, but i do care about my last outfit as well. i don't want to wear something uncomfortable or ugly. my current plan is a button-up and a pair of jeans i like with my favorite cardigan. but the way i dress is fairly important to my identity, so..

 

[Forveleth]

I will die in whatever I happen to be wearing the day I decide to go. So no.

 

[outrider567]

Will just be wearing a pair of shorts

 

[squillykilly]

title. do you care?
personally i don't, im probably dying in a hoodie and some sweatpants. i know some people stress over and plan their appearance before dying.

I want to wear one of my favorite hawaiian shirts to atleast go out comfortably

 

[ceelobling]

Not at all, my focus is to ctb. I don't care what I'm wearing, and no one who finds my body is going to care either.

 

[Deepdense]

I'd dress up in a full clown outfit. I find it funny that someone would find a dead clown.

 

[VitriolLD]

Well I don't want to die naked, obviously. But wouldn't be particularly well-dressed either.

 

[InBetweenTheBars]

I have always wanted to die looking beautiful for some reason, so I do care. My plan is to wear my favorite dress and lipstick, It'll be the last time I dress up after all

 

[Realog11]

title. do you care?
personally i don't, im probably dying in a hoodie and some sweatpants. i know some people stress over and plan their appearance before dying.

Im just gonna be wearing any clothes

 

[nitrogenous]

I mean ideally I want to die in comfortable clothes, don't want to spend my last moments being distracted by how a certain fabric or tag feels…

 

[InevitableDeath]

I imagine it will be the same clothes as I wear every day. Depression isn't a great stylist.