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shediedatsea

shediedatsea

drowsy . . .
Jul 4, 2025
62
i personally don't
 
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JimBobX

Member
Aug 30, 2020
13
I mean, who has facts on this. The options are heaven through the pearly gates (and I believe we've suffered enough to get a pass straight through), nothing, or reincarnation. Can't think of any others.

For me, the reincarnation is the most likely. And that's okay. I trust that compassion wins and I'll be pumped into a more compassionate place. Even if I do pass via ctb, compassion will win
 
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hmnow

hmnow

Experienced
Jul 29, 2025
295
no -
Once we die - we are what I call "pre-compost" that is all there is
 
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JimBobX

Member
Aug 30, 2020
13
For sure, possible. This is the 'nothing' option on my list. I can't write any of these off. But something in me feels very strongly there's a continuation, something more.

It's not to say any of the options are right or wrong, there's no way to know.
 
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Cauliflour

Cauliflour

I'm the doodler, I make terrible doodles.
Mar 24, 2025
727
Reincarnation2 Reincarnation is one of those things I wish was real because it looks sick but realistically, well I don't have a strong opinion on if it's real or not because I haven't died yet. I tend to treat philosophy like this in the lens of how we treat fictional characters, detached from popular religion. Personally I think if reincarnation is real, it'll only be because some higher being thought it'll be very funny to make us repeat the same mistakes again (or they care way too much and wrote a fanfiction) and not in the Buddhist way or the Hindu way. It's hard to tell really if you don't have a concrete understanding on what said higher being may be because there's certainly one lurking beyond our scope (humans are just too fucked to not be some kind of alien soap opera) but I don't think they're gonna come down and tell us to write another holy book any time soon...
 
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rekt

Member
Jul 31, 2025
54
I think that Near Death Experiences are definitely a real phenomenon. Meaning, the people who have them definitely experienced something profound. But I think the most plausible explanation is that they are very vivid hallucinations caused by the brain releasing DMT to prepare for death.

Until it is proven otherwise, I think the most logical answer is that our awareness disappears when our brain shuts down, and that is simply the end. I used to think this was very a depressing concept that made life seem absolutely meaningless, but really, what's the alternative? That your soul leaves your body and find yourself in some other realm where you have to choose another body to incarnate into and do it all over again?
 
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a-fond-farewell

a-fond-farewell

"You say she's waiting, and I know what for"
May 22, 2025
79
as with many things in my life, i'm agnostic to it. undecided, unsure.

oblivion and reincarnation could be viewed as identical from a subjective standpoint. after all, in your new life, you'd have no memories of your past lives. everything that you once considered as your self is gone. your personality, memory, etc. you're not really you then? so is there any practical difference between the two? i mean, i'd still prefer the latter, but from a subjective standpoint, there'd be no seeming difference. unless there's some awareness between lives.

i don't know what happens, but i tend to favor one idea. one idea who another person also thought of, Alan Watts. he said that we're just the universe playing hide and seek with itself. i think that's plausible, but it's not necessarily optimistic because when the universe dies, consciousness also dies, so basically it's eternal oblivion with extra steps.

but yeah, i guess who knows. it could be something else entirely that nobody has come up with yet. i'd bet that if there is an afterlife, though, i don't see why it would be any simpler than our current reality. the universe is complex, why would the afterlife be split up into two extremes of heaven and hell? doubtful, i think. i think the afterlife would be just as intricate as this if not more. but, that's just a guess and i don't really have anything to back up that claim.

what you believe is an interesting question, but I think another interesting question is, what do you want to believe? if you had your way, what would you want death to be like?
 
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JimBobX

Member
Aug 30, 2020
13
Sure. I think we got to go with our experiences and our beliefs kinda come from there. If there's a god waiting at a pearly gate he's getting a slap. If it's nothing but compost, well so be it. That feels quite sad.

But for me, I dropped out 10 years ago and emersed myself in Buddhist and Hindu communities. I've seen enough to have a basic leaning towards this reincarnation. But I don't swallow all the Buddhist and hindu stuff, too much religious and human twists on it. It's a more compassionate movement forwards.

But who knows. I'd like to find out. I'm genuinely ready.

Inalso believe the time-space becomes irrelevant past the physical, so the alien cultures out there have us earthlings as a whopping soap opera.
 
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a-fond-farewell

a-fond-farewell

"You say she's waiting, and I know what for"
May 22, 2025
79
I think that Near Death Experiences are definitely a real phenomenon. Meaning, the people who have them definitely experienced something profound. But I think the most plausible explanation is that they are very vivid hallucinations caused by the brain releasing DMT to prepare for death.

Until it is proven otherwise, I think the most logical answer is that our awareness disappears when our brain shuts down, and that is simply the end. I used to think this was very a depressing concept that made life seem absolutely meaningless, but really, what's the alternative? That your soul leaves your body and find yourself in some other realm where you have to choose another body to incarnate into and do it all over again?
life is meaningless. that realization can be very depressing, but it can also be very liberating depending on how you view it. if life is meaningless, then life is basically just a game. it's basically just the universe's playground. i highly recommend watching Kurzgesagt's video on optimistic nihilism.
 
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Lily&Lotus

Lily&Lotus

Member
Aug 6, 2025
25
Yes. This current life is one of misery and pain. In the next I'll be exploring the stars in a space ship with a cowboy jumping through wormholes.
 
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AuraByte

AuraByte

If I'm lost, please don't find me.
Jun 24, 2025
123
I don't want to be reincarnated. I couldn't do this all over again, nor would I want to.

I just want to find who I promised to find. And hopefully they are waiting.

And even if it's to oblivion, we can go together.

I have to hold on to some hope that they are waiting. Even if it's by a thread.
 
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divinemistress87

Angelic
Jan 1, 2024
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Im open minded to it..rumor has it though all our lives are different though. So like some lives could be good, some bad ect. If I reincarnate I will strangle myself with the umbilical cord
 
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Ashu

Ashu

novelist, sanskritist, Canadian living in India
Nov 13, 2021
946
It would be too much to say that I believe in it intellectually. I call myself a "sympathetic agnostic" because I feel that there must be some truth in it.
 
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A Dream of a Dream

A Dream of a Dream

Warlock
May 6, 2024
781
Humans like to think themselves very special.
 
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kopebaldy

Dovahkiin
Jul 5, 2025
420
Gee, I hope not.

I can't stand living a single second longer and you tell me I have to do it all over again? Next time even worse because of my sins from previous one?

Miss me with that shit.
 
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not-2-b-the-answer

not-2-b-the-answer

Archangel
Mar 23, 2018
11,319
Put this in the what are you listening to threads 👍👍👍👍

 
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FadingSnowFake

FadingSnowFake

Enlightened
Nov 25, 2024
1,822
I used to, because I was hoping to make it right next time. But not anymore. Now I just want to die dead.
 
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Obliviate

Obliviate

Abandon All Hope
Aug 13, 2022
1,011
They would have to DRAG my ass, break my spirit legs and arms to come back to this earth because I WILL NOT BE BACK HERE VOLUNTARILY.
 
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WakingNightmare

WakingNightmare

Student
May 1, 2025
145
If something tries to reincarnate me I'm going to lose my shit
 
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black money boys

black money boys

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Apr 18, 2025
518
yes, otherwise how would deja vu, natural/unexplainable talents and odd strong fears (different from evolutionary) exist? these 3 are good hints to find out whether you are living your first life or spiritually experienced from past lives
 
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bankai

bankai

Visionary
Mar 16, 2025
2,340
I don't believe in it. It's only human ego that makes people want to believe in things like that. Where's the proof? Is there even a bit of proof? Ultimately, people want to believe certain things. I think it helps them keep going.

Religion is the same as well.No proof whatsoever, but people will still believe. I'm a bit more cynical when it comes to these things.
 
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darksouls

darksouls

Illuminated
May 10, 2025
3,500
I think death is the beginning of something new
 
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butimstillsoblue

butimstillsoblue

Warrior
Dec 27, 2024
93
I don't believe in reincarnation. I believe that you die and that's it.

But I don't blame or shame people for believing in it. I think people should believe whatever they need to, to get through.
 
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EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
5,157
I don't believe in reincarnation. I believe that nothing happens after death. You are just your biology at the end of the day. I don't get why people believe in things like heaven or reincarnation. Even my bf, who is Christian, doesn't believe in that stuff. I feel like it makes more sense to assume that nothing happens after death unless, somehow, solid proof is found showing otherwise. Especially since, so far, our understanding of neuroscience points to our consciousness just being a product of brain activity that can change as a result of damage to the brain, which makes it seem more likely that nothing happens to you after death.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
48,490
No, I just believe death to be non-existence where this dreadful, cruel and futile existence I always saw as a mistake is finally all forgotten, for me non-existence is all that's positive, I just want to never suffer ever again, I'd never wish for the torturous burden of existence rather all I want is some peace and I'll only be at peace in non-existence as after all if I'm gone I cannot suffer.
 
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Nightfoot

Mage
Aug 7, 2025
549
I don't believe in it, personally.
 
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Eliska

Member
Aug 9, 2025
29
No, I think its just the end.
 
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