If you had a child, perhaps selfish. But honestly, other than a few family members, I think how much it will be a way out from how I feel. I don't think people realize the pain, but that's fine. I don't have friends to miss me, so I recommend backing away from everyone so you minimize the damage. Other than maybe 4 immediate family, nobody even messages me, so it's been good to see as I've deleted or blocked people that my resolve is stronger as ever.
I should have done this far earlier, but at least I'll be doing it before I am in more pain. And it will be healing for me, at last.