Venting Discord servers are my final boss

[anonymouswebuser]

I'm pretty sure one of the reasons that messed me up are discord servers
I absolutely hate them it feels like every server is toxic in a unique way than the other.
I don't know if I'm the problem since I despise the app due to personal experiences or if it's naturally a toxic place.
I first joined discord as a minor to join a server for a game I liked to see some updates about it or theories but I ended up getting taken advantage of from an a guy and that's probably the core reason why I hate the app as a whole. and I as a naive person thought he cared for me for some reason, I wasn't even the one who started talking to him on the DMs, he started the conversation and whenever I stopped talking for a few days he'd be the one to start talking again
but still it's my fault for keeping that going and I hate my younger self for ever joining this app and especially that community, I already abandoned that account but I unfortunately got back to using discord 2 years ago, I don't even know why, I have no reason to do so
I'm starting to think I'm a masochist.
Other than that experience, it was all basically just pure toxicity to the point I couldn't handle it or servers who love to sexualize everything and I saw some content and some concerning interactions between members I shouldn't have saw at that time
Even though the minimum age for joining discord is 13 in most parts of the world but I don't think it's a place for minors anymore
It's basically become a place for cyberbullying, toxicity and manipulative pedophiles who look specifically for love deprived kids
but I don't know if I'm the one who's overreacting, it's just been bothering me for a bit.

 

[unnaturalmovement]

What this person did to you if you mind sharing?
I've been on discord since i was 14 i think.
I meet at least 3 or 4 people from it, one this saturday which was a girl i was "falling in love".
Of course i read the room wrong, so we're not talking now cause she said she doesn't wanna make me suffer.

I'll send her a few messages on my last day, talk with her a bit, with my other friends too and that's it.

 

[anonymouswebuser]

What this person did to you if you mind sharing?
I've been on discord since i was 14 i think.
I meet at least 3 or 4 people from it, one this saturday which was a girl i was "falling in love".
Of course i read the room wrong, so we're not talking now cause she said she doesn't wanna make me suffer.

I'll send her a few messages on my last day, talk with her a bit, with my other friends too and that's it.

I was also 14
I'm not comfortable or willing to get into details regarding how he
"took advantage of me"
But one other thing is that he made me believe we'd actually have a fucking chance together I don't know how the fuck I believed that back then I guess I was starving for any type of attention from any breathing male.
but he did all this while he had a girlfriend and was already flirting with another girl from the same server that's 10+ years older than hhi
I don't know what's with him ig he doesn't want someone his age
I couldn't argue with him in anything because he's the one who introduced me to the server and gave a good image of me and he was able to silence pretty much anyone and I wasn't that great at responding at all.
He also kept my age a secret from others because I didn't want them to know that I was 14 when they're all mostly adults
God, This is all so embarrassing to talk about after those years

 

[unnaturalmovement]

I was also 14
I'm not comfortable or willing to get into details regarding how he
"took advantage of me"
But one other thing is that he made me believe we'd actually have a fucking chance together I don't know how the fuck I believed that back then I guess I was starving for any type of attention from any breathing male.
but he did all this while he had a girlfriend and was already flirting with another girl from the same server that's 10+ years older than hhi
I don't know what's with him ig he doesn't want someone his age
I couldn't argue with him in anything because he's the one who introduced me to the server and gave a good image of me and he was able to silence pretty much anyone and I wasn't that great at responding at all.
He also kept my age a secret from others because I didn't want them to know that I was 14 when they're all mostly adults
God, This is all so embarrassing to talk about after those years

Well, i think i never got desperate but deep down im still longing for love.
For reference i was playing, watching movies and talking with a girl i meet from discord, as i mentioned before.
We would send pictures of each other daily and share all kinds of things.

I don't know if i feel used or really i just didn't read the room, but she had no intention of being mine in a romantic sense.
Sadly that happened in a moment where i think i was getting more stable in relationship of myself, but that woke up so many things and made me realize a ton about myself.
So yes, i still agree discord is a huge problem, but more important than that: humans.

Well, i think i never got desperate but deep down im still longing for love.
For reference i was playing, watching movies and talking with a girl i meet from discord, as i mentioned before.
We would send pictures of each other daily and share all kinds of things.

I don't know if i feel used or really i just didn't read the room, but she had no intention of being mine in a romantic sense.
Sadly that happened in a moment where i think i was getting more stable in relationship of myself, but that woke up so many things and made me realize a ton about myself.
So yes, i still agree discord is a huge problem, but more important than that: humans.

To be honest i'm very sad with all that lol... I think we could live a happy life but that flower wasn't mine.
Ha

 

[anonymouswebuser]

Well, i think i never got desperate but deep down im still longing for love.
For reference i was playing, watching movies and talking with a girl i meet from discord, as i mentioned before.
We would send pictures of each other daily and share all kinds of things.

I don't know if i feel used or really i just didn't read the room, but she had no intention of being mine in a romantic sense.
Sadly that happened in a moment where i think i was getting more stable in relationship of myself, but that woke up so many things and made me realize a ton about myself.
So yes, i still agree discord is a huge problem, but more important than that: humans.

To be honest i'm very sad with all that lol... I think we could live a happy life but that flower wasn't mine.
Ha

I hope you find someone better than her that's willing to accept you and show you true love
You seem to be a good person who deserves the best and a situation like yours isn't easy to forget about

 

[unnaturalmovement]

I hope you find someone better than her that's willing to accept you and show you true love
You seem to be a good person who deserves the best and a situation like yours isn't easy to forget about

Oh well i hope i find someone but i set my time limit to day 25 of this month so if something paranormal doesn't occur till there, that'll be it.

 

[anonymouswebuser]

Oh well i hope i find someone but i set my time limit to day 25 of this month so if something paranormal doesn't occur till there, that'll be it

Then good luck either way
Wishing you get to experience true love before that

 

[sspkky]

I'm pretty sure one of the reasons that messed me up are discord servers
I absolutely hate them it feels like every server is toxic in a unique way than the other.
I don't know if I'm the problem since I despise the app due to personal experiences or if it's naturally a toxic place.
I first joined discord as a minor to join a server for a game I liked to see some updates about it or theories but I ended up getting taken advantage of from an a guy and that's probably the core reason why I hate the app as a whole. and I as a naive person thought he cared for me for some reason, I wasn't even the one who started talking to him on the DMs, he started the conversation and whenever I stopped talking for a few days he'd be the one to start talking again
but still it's my fault for keeping that going and I hate my younger self for ever joining this app and especially that community, I already abandoned that account but I unfortunately got back to using discord 2 years ago, I don't even know why, I have no reason to do so
I'm starting to think I'm a masochist.
Other than that experience, it was all basically just pure toxicity to the point I couldn't handle it or servers who love to sexualize everything and I saw some content and some concerning interactions between members I shouldn't have saw at that time
Even though the minimum age for joining discord is 13 in most parts of the world but I don't think it's a place for minors anymore
It's basically become a place for cyberbullying, toxicity and manipulative pedophiles who look specifically for love deprived kids
but I don't know if I'm the one who's overreacting, it's just been bothering me for a bit.

yeah...you've sum it up pretty well, i don't think it's your perception, i only used it to talk with people i knew already, but some months ago i was bored and choose to stroll around some servers to meet new people, and i was surprised of how much the memes where true, i thought they were only exaggerations, but nop!

 

[anonymouswebuser]

yeah...you've sum it up pretty well, i don't think it's your perception, i only used it to talk with people i knew already, but some months ago i was bored and choose to stroll around some servers to meet new people, and i was surprised of how much the memes where true, i thought they were only exaggerations, but nop!

Glad I'm not alone then