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Could you hire someone skilled to be around autistic children to come help you with your children a couple hours occasionally? My idea is your children will come to know and trust them a bit so you can get away for a bit every now and then.
I think in the end getting away a little bit won't help. It's that their overall behavior is challenging. I'm a low energy person, so they tend to overstimulate me. I tell them calmly that they are overstimulating me, and they are starting that means I won't be as receptive to play or as emotionally accessible if they keep fighting. My daughters 12+ tantrums a day will push you to your limit regardless of small breaks. I can take it most days today was just too much. They stopped once they made me cry. They aren't bad kids they are kids difficult.
 
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checkouttime

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Thank you for sharing that. It's interesting society shames moms for not liking their kids 100% of the time. Moms might be less stressed if they could openly say how thankless and hard this job can be some days.

'society' probably don't have a clue what it feels to be in the situation that others are. just like they don't understand what it feels to be suicidal!
 
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Thank you for sharing that. It's interesting society shames moms for not liking their kids 100% of the time. Moms might be less stressed if they could openly say how thankless and hard this job can be some days.

I agree so much. Especially when it comes to special needs kids.

Nobody likes their family 100% of the time but for whatever reason moms (especially of special needs kids) are held to impossible, ridiculous, inhumanly high standards.
 
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One other thought is to take supplements for stress like ashwaghanda and possibly cbd oil.
 
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One other thought is to take supplements for stress like ashwaghanda and possibly cbd oil.
Marijuana in the evening does the trick. I'm all sorts of calm and happy lol
 
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