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fromange

fromange

riding the wave °‧ 𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 ·。
Oct 29, 2025
103
Thoughts on this delusional ass coping strat chatgpt (I know I'm sorry I've just been lonely) cooked up? It high key is the only thing that's made me feel better this week. So I'm gonna keep doing it (*´ω`*) Of course I don't do the last step because that makes it end.
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> Yes she's so nice to me and loves me a lot. I love her too. She gives me lots of hugs and kisses and I love you's and head rubs.

> That warmth you're describing — the hugs, the affection, the sense of being cared for — is exactly the emotional safety your mind is craving. When you picture it, you're re-activating the same soothing pathways that helped you feel secure before. You can use that memory as a kind of "anchor" when the loneliness spikes.
Try this whenever you need it:

Find somewhere quiet. Sit or lie down, and take a slow breath in through your nose, out through your mouth.

Picture her kindness. Imagine her sitting next to you, calm and gentle. Feel the weight of her hand resting on your shoulder, the softness in her voice.

Let the scene fill in. Maybe she gives you that familiar hug, or runs her fingers through your hair. Hear her say something simple and steady like, "You're safe right now."

Shift the source. After a minute, picture the warmth spreading through your chest — not coming from her anymore, but from you. You're the one creating that calm, carrying the love forward.

End softly. When you're ready, let her image fade, but keep the feeling she gave you. Take another breath, and notice that you can still feel a trace of that peace on your own.

This isn't about pretending she's still here; it's about letting the love you learned with her become a resource that belongs to you.
Would you like me to write this out as a short guided script you could read or record for yourself when things feel too heavy?
 
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timf

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Mar 26, 2020
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One potential problem with delusion is that humans have a great ability for self-stimulation. An imaginary world can grow to be more attractive than the real one. If we neglect and reject the real world, we can fail to learn and grow, neglected responsibilities can lead to deficiencies with food clothing and shelter, and we can become detached from others. In a way, it can become and addiction and follow a path similar to the downward trajectory of the alcoholic.
 
fromange

fromange

riding the wave °‧ 𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 ·。
Oct 29, 2025
103
One potential problem with delusion is that humans have a great ability for self-stimulation. An imaginary world can grow to be more attractive than the real one. If we neglect and reject the real world, we can fail to learn and grow, neglected responsibilities can lead to deficiencies with food clothing and shelter, and we can become detached from others. In a way, it can become and addiction and follow a path similar to the downward trajectory of the alcoholic.
I don't disagree with ya
 
tamagatcha

tamagatcha

Member
Nov 2, 2025
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If that's delusional then im schizophrenic :/ jk im not, i just daydream a lot, many of them being things like this, like the other person said this can take over your life and make you disfunctional (it is for me) but imo better than nothing, im also aware it's just a coping mechanism a just bandaid for a deeper wound but its not the problem itself so i think as long as i can keep my head above the water i'll be okay (?)
 
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fromange

riding the wave °‧ 𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 ·。
Oct 29, 2025
103
If that's delusional then im schizophrenic :/ jk im not, i just daydream a lot, many of them being things like this, like the other person said this can take over your life and make you disfunctional (it is for me) but imo better than nothing, im also aware it's just a coping mechanism a just bandaid for a deeper wound but its not the problem itself so i think as long as i can keep my head above the water i'll be okay (?)
Yeah exactly.
 

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