dating apps are suicide fuel

[CatLove56]

Which me being the masochist I am is probably why I still use them. I have always said I must be an ugly sob to not be able to get a guy or girl to at the very least just hang out with me. always have idiots saying oh you need to work on yourself or lose weight or improve your profile. fuck that. if you're a hot 10 you're gonna get spammed. If you're a 1? maybe if someone is bored they'll chat with you and then ghost.

 

[remluvr]

I also have a hard time with em. fuck em

 

[PlannedforPeru]

🗣🗣🗣

 

[twolegs]

I've had some luck on plenty of fish ngl

 

[CatLvr]

Ngl, you couldn't pay me to use a dating app.

 

[Wolf Girl]

Dating apps are hell and I'm a somewhat attractive female. Half the people on there don't even want to meet, they just want to chat and sext forever.

 

[lysergamide]

Which me being the masochist I am is probably why I still use them. I have always said I must be an ugly sob to not be able to get a guy or girl to at the very least just hang out with me. always have idiots saying oh you need to work on yourself or lose weight or improve your profile. fuck that. if you're a hot 10 you're gonna get spammed. If you're a 1? maybe if someone is bored they'll chat with you and then ghost.

"always have idiots saying oh you need to work on yourself or lose weight or improve your profile. fuck that." why 'fuck that' i don't get it

 

[combatcuteness]

Why not copy paste messages into chatgpt or something. Then see If you can get a response . Also what's your profile like, idk if you know this but dating apps are all about putting appearances. Pretty much all photos are best angle, once a year kind of things.

 

[justkatie]

If you're a girl you're much more likely to get some contact. Sadly it's almost always negative.

I'm ugly as sin yet would find a couple of messages a day.

The issue with dating sites is that it's 90% guys and that a lot of the guys like to simply send photos of their penis without asking. No thank you, I know what a penis looks like.

 

[memoriesofyesterday]

To be fair to apps, so is dating.

 

[Jarni]

it's people, not dating apps...

 

[geogaddi_676]

it's people, not dating apps...

I agree, it just makes human nature and our dating preferences more explicit, its still human nature.

 

[Final_Freedom]

Never used them

 

[-nobodyknows-]

I've tried them but I also haven't had much luck with them.

 

[Golemishna]

It seems there are a few threads about this. I started using those apps recently, they have convinced me to finally take my life

 

[Deleted member 94706]

i basically became an unironic incel at 17 because of it, but tbh I had poor luck on friend making apps as well.
If I actually wasn't a pussy and could talk to girls I'd probably get a girlfriend. I'm not that ugly I just need to lose some weight, and stop being a pussy. The problem is I'm a huge pussy and I don't want to talk to anyone regardless of their gender.


I got asked out by a girl in high school and I rejected so I'm basically just a fakecel.

Someone also told me that the girls at church find me attractive and I talked to them once then never did again, because I am a huge pussy, so this is literally my fault.

Around 2023 I was really depressed, because I couldn't get a girlfriend. It's basically my fault, because I thought it was a good idea to join dating apps.
I joined several dating apps including scam ones. One website I used, I am convinced that the profiles there are AI, either that or they pay people to make fake profiles, it would make me pay tokens to talk to people. and if I tried to delete my account, they would offer me free tokens so I stay. and every profile there refused to talk to me anywhere else. I would also get blown up with messages.

Dating apps are meant to exploit your mental health for money. Many of them are literally scams. and use fake profiles to keep you engaged. Even Tinder is filled with fake profiles add any girls on snapchat .and they will spam you with dms to buy their onlyfans.
Tinder wants you to spend thousands of dollars to get zero matches. They know you're desperate and pathetic and will do anything to get a girlfriend.

The number 1 advice on Tinder to get likes and trust me you will literally get BLOWN UP with likes is to tell Tinder to show you men. Literally got 7 likes in a day, It's crazy, but unfortunately I'm not gay, most of the men who liked me are probably ugly anyway.

I have a friend who's gay, hes extremely ugly, hes 5'3 and 196 pounds, and he has 24 likes on Tinder.
He doesn't have any matches though, because hes picky with looks and swipes left on almost everyone.

I'm convinced dating apps are almost all used by men. Lots of female profiles are just scams. Lots of men catfish as women also either for money, or some probably just want to get with other men.
People use dating apps because its easier to talk to people online than irl. It's like talking people on the internet feels disconnected from reality I don't feel as shy.

Companies that own dating apps should be sued for making them unfair. If they want to make money just make the apps paid instead of making them unfair for free users.

It seems there are a few threads about this. I started using those apps recently, they have convinced me to finally take my life

delete all of them dating apps are all poison doing meth is better

you shouldn't let dating apps affect your perception of reality they're maid unfair on purpose so you waste all your money

 

[Surai]

the fakeness of it all, the supperficial end it all

 

[Deleted member 94706]

If you're a girl you're much more likely to get some contact. Sadly it's almost always negative.

I'm ugly as sin yet would find a couple of messages a day.

The issue with dating sites is that it's 90% guys and that a lot of the guys like to simply send photos of their penis without asking. No thank you, I know what a penis looks like.

lol how fucking pathetic how do these people think by sending dick pics they will instantly get laid
i wonder if any of them are fake accounts if they're super attractive men they must be

I've had some luck on plenty of fish ngl

plenty of fish is filled with fake accounts

 

[Leiot]

If you think they're bad now, wait until you get older. I've talked to some of my female friends and the stories they tell me are, well, these guys that go out with them are freaking amateurs. I keep thinking that I'm a way better person than these idiots, but they're the ones getting dates.

My favorite is 'Panera Guy'. A friend of mine met this guy at Panera for a lunch date. So, they're in line and he says he's not hungry and is just going to get coffee. On a lunch date. Then he asks her if she can pick up his coffee. OMG.

I bet you women have similar stories.

 

[newjourney]

Which me being the masochist I am is probably why I still use them. I have always said I must be an ugly sob to not be able to get a guy or girl to at the very least just hang out with me. always have idiots saying oh you need to work on yourself or lose weight or improve your profile. fuck that. if you're a hot 10 you're gonna get spammed. If you're a 1? maybe if someone is bored they'll chat with you and then ghost.

But it is good advice. You can work on yourself in many ways not just your appearance. That being said, anyone can build a great physique and anyone can work on social skills so don't give up hope. Find something you enjoy doing and try to connect with others through that as a starting point

 

[tinyboxer]

When I was first introduced to dating app I was told by the internet that women are flooded with likes and messages. I guess that rule does not apply to unattractive black women so I eventually stopped using them.

 

[Leiot]

I had a witch tell me one time that the best kind of love spell you can cast is one on yourself. That sounds real good in theory..

 

[Reticent Being]

it's like you have to win the genetic lottery or no one cares about you on those dating apps. i joined a facebook group to make friends in my city and witnessed the same thing: the socially desirable people got the most attention. it's a competition of who can look like they are having the time of their life - whatever that is . have an interesting bio, that's not "hi i want to ctb one day lol"

all my matches ended up being bad at conversation, communication skills, or they solely wanted a "cuddle buddy." most of the Men on dating apps dont use the dating apps to date. the dating industry is fake. you're not going to find that romantic lover who cares about supporting you and being there for you. to me, it isnt realistic.

 

[leavingsoonx]

Which me being the masochist I am is probably why I still use them. I have always said I must be an ugly sob to not be able to get a guy or girl to at the very least just hang out with me. always have idiots saying oh you need to work on yourself or lose weight or improve your profile. fuck that. if you're a hot 10 you're gonna get spammed. If you're a 1? maybe if someone is bored they'll chat with you and then ghost.

You're not missing anything, it's all lifeless bots now adays anyways xD

 

[Leiot]

it's like you have to win the genetic lottery or no one cares about you on those dating apps. i joined a facebook group to make friends in my city and witnessed the same thing: the socially desirable people got the most attention. it's a competition of who can look like they are having the time of their life - whatever that is . have an interesting bio, that's not "hi i want to ctb one day lol"

all my matches ended up being bad at conversation, communication skills, or they solely wanted a "cuddle buddy." most of the Men on dating apps dont use the dating apps to date. the dating industry is fake. you're not going to find that romantic lover who cares about supporting you and being there for you. to me, it isnt realistic.

Funny, dating sites look the same from my perspective. Maybe we should start a SanctionedSuicide dating site.

 

[karel1987]

Am i the only one who doesnt care about dating anymore. There was always something on dates, then i spoke to much then, we dont fit or the simply dont feel the spark. It doesnt botter me anymore. Life with a girlfriend is also a life i dont want. I just want to die

 

[Trav1989]

Which me being the masochist I am is probably why I still use them. I have always said I must be an ugly sob to not be able to get a guy or girl to at the very least just hang out with me. always have idiots saying oh you need to work on yourself or lose weight or improve your profile. fuck that. if you're a hot 10 you're gonna get spammed. If you're a 1? maybe if someone is bored they'll chat with you and then ghost.

I've had some luck on plenty of fish ngl

Same, I'm a guy and met up with 5 different women this past year without a lot of effort. To be fair I'm an above average guy though. The sad part is that after going on a date with them I realized online dating wasn't for me...

Here are my experiences.

1. Immediately wanted sex, had terrible hygiene and I had to leave. She asked me if I could help pay her "rent" despite there being men's clothing on the ground in piles and I could hear guys talking in one of the rooms and I replied "no" to her so she took her top off and I left quickly. Also, the house was infested with roaches and reeked of pot.

2. Was "living with" her ex who apparently wasn't home and she had to be home before he returned but claimed they weren't together.

3. Was about 300 pounds instead of the 180-ish she was in her pictures she clearly took years earlier.

4. Was extremely shy, to the point that it was infuriating and I had to end things.

5. Like number 2, was clearly in a relationship but wanted an "upgrade".

I was particularly repulsed by number 2 and 5 because my wife left me for an "upgrade" and ended up like number 1.

Number 3 and 4 weren't too bad but 3 blatantly lied to me and was twice as heavy as she claimed and number 4 was attractive but she had no personality.

So I guess I had luck on plenty of fish in regards to dates but not what I was looking for. I would have considered trying harder with number 4 but she just gave me nothing to work with at all. I am good at talking but if I have to carry 99.9% of every conversation I might as well just stay single because communication is a big part of any relationship, romantic or otherwise.

If your looking for something casual and can leave your morals at the door or aren't bothered by putting in a large amount of effort then go for it.

 

[paredler]

Very much agree, the dating scene is a sh!thole. Beauty standards are too high and ugly people don't have hope. It's been more than a year since I last had sex. I'm getting my virginity back and it's very unpleasant to be alone when you desire to be with someone and feel less lonely.

Am i the only one who doesnt care about dating anymore. There was always something on dates, then i spoke to much then, we dont fit or the simply dont feel the spark. It doesnt botter me anymore. Life with a girlfriend is also a life i dont want. I just want to die

Yes, I do want to die, but as long as I'm alive, I have sexual needs.

But it is good advice. You can work on yourself in many ways not just your appearance. That being said, anyone can build a great physique and anyone can work on social skills so don't give up hope. Find something you enjoy doing and try to connect with others through that as a starting point

That's really hard to do if you work a demanding job where you're forced to multitask, take abuse from rude customers and solve complicated problems, and when you go back home, you collapse in your bed. Most people have neither the time nor the energy to work on themselves. I'm a binge eater and the more stressful work is, the more I binge eat. It's out of my control.

 

[ForeverLonely82]

Living in general is suicide fuel.

 

[Deleted member 94706]

it's like you have to win the genetic lottery or no one cares about you on those dating apps. i joined a facebook group to make friends in my city and witnessed the same thing: the socially desirable people got the most attention. it's a competition of who can look like they are having the time of their life - whatever that is . have an interesting bio, that's not "hi i want to ctb one day lol"

all my matches ended up being bad at conversation, communication skills, or they solely wanted a "cuddle buddy." most of the Men on dating apps dont use the dating apps to date. the dating industry is fake. you're not going to find that romantic lover who cares about supporting you and being there for you. to me, it isnt realistic.

do people just use friend making apps to get a boyfriend/girlfriend

Same, I'm a guy and met up with 5 different women this past year without a lot of effort. To be fair I'm an above average guy though. The sad part is that after going on a date with them I realized online dating wasn't for me...

Here are my experiences.

1. Immediately wanted sex, had terrible hygiene and I had to leave. She asked me if I could help pay her "rent" despite there being men's clothing on the ground in piles and I could hear guys talking in one of the rooms and I replied "no" to her so she took her top off and I left quickly. Also, the house was infested with roaches and reeked of pot.

2. Was "living with" her ex who apparently wasn't home and she had to be home before he returned but claimed they weren't together.

3. Was about 300 pounds instead of the 180-ish she was in her pictures she clearly took years earlier.

4. Was extremely shy, to the point that it was infuriating and I had to end things.

5. Like number 2, was clearly in a relationship but wanted an "upgrade".

I was particularly repulsed by number 2 and 5 because my wife left me for an "upgrade" and ended up like number 1.

Number 3 and 4 weren't too bad but 3 blatantly lied to me and was twice as heavy as she claimed and number 4 was attractive but she had no personality.

So I guess I had luck on plenty of fish in regards to dates but not what I was looking for. I would have considered trying harder with number 4 but she just gave me nothing to work with at all. I am good at talking but if I have to carry 99.9% of every conversation I might as well just stay single because communication is a big part of any relationship, romantic or otherwise.

If your looking for something casual and can leave your morals at the door or aren't bothered by putting in a large amount of effort then go for it.

Imagine having the audacity to ask random guys on the internet to pay for your rent. I've had similar things happen to me, but most were bots.
The number one way to get a girlfriend on any dating app is money, not looks, not personality, money, If you're a reasonably attractive woman, you would have already gotten multiple matches, either you're looking for the perfect guy or want to exploit them for money.

Am i the only one who doesnt care about dating anymore. There was always something on dates, then i spoke to much then, we dont fit or the simply dont feel the spark. It doesnt botter me anymore. Life with a girlfriend is also a life i dont want. I just want to die

if i could i'd choose to be aromantic since i;m not a very social person