Discussion ctb timing

[funhaver63]

I will ctb before the end of the month since my school's semester starts on the 24th, though I'm currently waiting for pills to reduce SI. I would like to ctb the night of receiving said pills, but my friends birthday and the birthdays of two family members are all on the 25th-26th. The relationship I have with my family is strained, but not negative, and I would like for them to enjoy their birthdays, but school and anything pertaining to a career or my future brings me a lot of anxiety, which encourages me to ctb sooner rather than later.

In the interest of my loved ones and their well-being, would it be better to ctb before or after their birthdays?

 

[ctb_warrior]

I will ctb before the end of the month since my school's semester starts on the 24th, though I'm currently waiting for pills to reduce SI. I would like to ctb the night of receiving said pills, but my friends birthday and the birthdays of two family members are all on the 25th-26th. The relationship I have with my family is strained, but not negative, and I would like for them to enjoy their birthdays, but school and anything pertaining to a career or my future brings me a lot of anxiety, which encourages me to ctb sooner rather than later.

In the interest of my loved ones and their well-being, would it be better to ctb before or after their birthdays?

I think, if possible it's better to let them enjoy their birthdays first and then mourn for you
When you know you are going to ctb successfully, enjoy the rest of the days to the fullest