I think that if you feel comfortable on camera, it can be good because it not only gives something like a handwritten letter to people, but also a last video of you and your voice which can mean a lot. I don't think I would feel comfortable expressing my feelings on camera, so I wouldn't do it myself, but I think that it is generally not a bad idea.
I think the idea of itself isn't bad. Your family and friends would get to see a raw view of who you were, and of what you were scared to say to them and others. It could be a better way of handling grief for the ones who want to remember you.
But you'd have to factor in that we live in the modern age--where the internet exists. Do you want to leave a legacy that potentially might go viral in social media?
Personally, I think it would feel a bit disgusting knowing that the bad actors of society would have access to my pure, unfiltered dialogue. Not to mention my family/friends being harassed by others wanting to know more information, or just be cruel via anonymity.
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I think I'm going to do this alongside a written/typed note. That way if the video is too hard for her to watch she has the option to read my thoughts.
i think about this all the time. when i'm ready to ctb i'll post a twitter thread and one on here. i guess i just want people to know. just so they don't think i'm ignoring them or just disappeared.
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