Craving female validation/attention (pathetic rant)

[Breadkey]

My grammar reduces in quality everytime I'm trying to talk about my feelings so apologies if Something seems odd.

I love women. I desire women. And more importantly i love getting romantic attention from women. I do stupid things to get attention from women. But like this is also a problem for me.

I was born female and naturally females will have mostly female friends, right? I mean of course people can have opposite sex friends too but like people will mostly confide in friends of the same sex right? Anyways the point is That I always end up developing some sort of "thing" for my female friends. And it fucking sucks every time they get a boyfriend. Or a crush. But I'm not entitled to their affection and attention and obviously their partners should be prioritized more but fuckkkk it hurts you know? Spending hours trying to just entertain her or comforting her whenever she needs and writing down all the information that might come in handy later such as her likes and dislikes, what type of songs she listens to? What's her schedule? Her birthday? You get the point. Just trying to take care of her in anyway you can and make her the happiest girl in the world. Then some random day, a random just comes into her life and sweeps her up by the feet and she's completely inlove with him. It SUCKS. But at the same time I know I'm not ready for a relationship, I'm not in the position to be in a relationship, im not in a good financial place to support her or anything like that yet so she's my friend. She stay as my friend. But those dumbass feelings keep creeping up. It's a hopeless situation

 

[Quietist]

This is the plight of the lesbian who has a habit for falling for her friends. Been there.

And the thing that hurts the most is that those female friends will never reciprocate the love, affection, consideration.

It makes the most sense because you're establishing a bond with someone you're close to, but they also can't help being straight.

Your best bet? Stop investing so much in those female friends, because the second they get a male partner, they neglect their friendships with women.

Instead, work on yourself and try to get involved in local LGBT-friendly places.

Hell, even looking for women on dating apps would be better than the fate that is limerence and unrequited love.

 

[Bunnymmm]

This is the plight of the lesbian who has a habit for falling for her friends. Been there.

And the thing that hurts the most is that those female friends will never reciprocate the love, affection, consideration.

It makes the most sense because you're establishing a bond with someone you're close to, but they also can't help being straight.

Your best bet? Stop investing so much in those female friends, because the second they get a male partner, they neglect their friendships with women.

Instead, work on yourself and try to get involved in local LGBT-friendly places.

Hell, even looking for women on dating apps would be better than the fate that is limerence and unrequited love.

Use this advice OP!

 

[Breadkey]

This is the plight of the lesbian who has a habit for falling for her friends. Been there.

And the thing that hurts the most is that those female friends will never reciprocate the love, affection, consideration.

It makes the most sense because you're establishing a bond with someone you're close to, but they also can't help being straight.

Your best bet? Stop investing so much in those female friends, because the second they get a male partner, they neglect their friendships with women.

Instead, work on yourself and try to get involved in local LGBT-friendly places.

Hell, even looking for women on dating apps would be better than the fate that is limerence and unrequited love.

I'll try with the dating apps. But I'm a major bum and ugly and disgustingly short there's no way a woman will ever look my way let alone love me. I'll still try though