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[boddibo]

129,296

you tell him SaS!!

 

[SleeplessAndSad]

129,897

I am surprised you let me attack your senpai :D

 

[Arvayn]

129,296

How can it be a strength, though? As an outsider, I don't really see empathy as anything more than a weakness.

It is true that emotional empathy can be a weakness in the sense that it creates a vulnerability within a person which can be exploited; in that sense, you are setting yourself up for potential hurt if anything negative were to happen to your object of attachment. Emotional blackmail is a common tactic.
Cognitive empathy can replicate the beneficial effects of emotional empathy without the underlying sacrifices that comes with it. You do not need to truly care about someone to ask about their day, to consider a situation from their perspective, to help them out, etc... and more often than not, this forges an alliance that convinces them to help you, as well. So, your view is rational.

However, emotional empathy can be a strength. It motivates a person to act and grants them a sense of meaning and purpose, which is an effective cure to existential depression; it fosters strong relationships that are proven to increase the overall health of participants by considerable margins; people in empathically bonded relationships are significantly more likely to be successful than those who are not; it ensures secure and trustworthy social dynamics (emotionally empathetic people will continue to support you even if they would be heavily disadvantaged by doing so); it acts as a source of happiness and an anchor for the aimless.

Empathy is not black and white. It is not perfectly good or innocent like many preach, and it is not completely stupid and vulnerable like others say. It is a trade, one with a lot of risk in some circumstances, for mutually significant reward.

 

[SleeplessAndSad]

129,297

I admire you typing out all of that. I have the attention span of a fish (hehe see what i did there?) i fear.

Also aint nobody got time for that except for a vampire!

 

[boddibo]

129,298

I am surprised you let me attack your senpai :D

he deserves to be bullied sometimes. mostly by me of course.

 

[Lov3]

I think I'll have to defend U.A.

Poor thing, being attacked from all sides.

129 297

 

[U. A.]

thanks amor.
129,298

I am surprised you let me attack your senpai :D

you tell him SaS!!

boddibo is pushing his luck. might lose 'kohai #1' status.

 

[SleeplessAndSad]

thanks amor.
129,298


boddibo is pushing his luck. might lose 'kohai #1' status.

129,299 ohhh my chance to shine

 

[boddibo]

129,300

might lose 'kohai #1' status

 

[U. A.]

129,301

time will tell...

 

[Lov3]

thanks amor.
129,298


boddibo is pushing his luck. might lose 'kohai #1' status.

I'll steal it real quick, senpai.129 302

 

[boddibo]

129,303

 

[SleeplessAndSad]

You got competition B

129,304

 

[U. A.]

129,305

on the off-chance @Chemi logs in anytime soon.

 

[Arvayn]

129,304

Also aint nobody got time for that except for a vampire!

Patience is not a vampiric trait. Slanderous.

 

[boddibo]

129,305

You got competition B

I ain't afraid...

on the off-chance @Chemi logs in anytime soon.

I miss her

 

[SleeplessAndSad]

129,304

Patience is not a vampiric trait. Slanderous.

They don't need patience because they got all the time in the world.

Spoiler: Don't open

Spoiler: I said don't open!

Spoiler: Will you listen to me?

Spoiler: For real?

Spoiler: ...

Spoiler: You get on my nerves

Spoiler: Final warning

Spoiler: Ok here we go

Spoiler: Only open if you are a vampire

come bite me

129,306

 

[Lov3]

You already lost, B.

129 305

 

[U. A.]

129,306

first time i've seen someone do a better spoiler-ception than me.

 

[SleeplessAndSad]

129,307

Thank youu senpai

 

[Arvayn]

129,306

Welp, I'll never know what's behind that spoiler. You outplayed me.

 

[Lov3]

139 305
senpai? what?
But weren't you mistreating him?

 

[SleeplessAndSad]

129,306

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Welp, I'll never know what's behind that spoiler. You outplayed me.

I am still suspicious, maybe you have only recently been converted.

139 305
senpai? what?
But weren't you mistreating him?

Tough love

 

[boddibo]

129,307

@SleeplessAndSad I clicked all the spoiler thingy........ what does it say about me?

 

[SleeplessAndSad]

129,308

129,307

@SleeplessAndSad I clicked all the spoiler thingy........ what does it say about me?

ALL OF THEM???....... B..... i am shocked... and scared. i need to go buy garlic



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[boddibo]

129,309

woops

Spoiler: my true form

 

[Lov3]

B lost the Kohai title.


129 308

 

[boddibo]

129,309

I did not, don't worry.

 

[SleeplessAndSad]

129,309

woops

Spoiler: my true form

Of course you would be a cute bat

129,310

 

[boddibo]

129,311
i'm a simple bat