• Hey Guest,

    We wanted to share a quick update with the community.

    Our public expense ledger is now live, allowing anyone to see how donations are used to support the ongoing operation of the site.

    👉 View the ledger here

    Over the past year, increased regulatory pressure in multiple regions like UK OFCOM and Australia's eSafety has led to higher operational costs, including infrastructure, security, and the need to work with more specialized service providers to keep the site online and stable.

    If you value the community and would like to help support its continued operation, donations are greatly appreciated. If you wish to donate via Bank Transfer or other options, please open a ticket.

    Donate via cryptocurrency:

    Bitcoin (BTC):
    Ethereum (ETH):
    Monero (XMR):
renrone

renrone

i love the world and everything in it
Sep 24, 2023
20
I'm not sure if therapy is right for me. I've had many therapists in the past, and every time I felt stuck, I couldn't tell them what I actually needed help with or I risked hospitalisation or getting my younger sister taken from our home. I feel like I've been failed so many times, but I'm willing to at least try it again now that my situation has changed a bit. How should I go about it? What can I even tell them? Should I even bother?
 
  • Hugs
Reactions: Praestat_Mori, Lostandlooking and アホペンギン
アホペンギン

アホペンギン

Jul 10, 2023
2,191
It is up to you if whether you want to start getting therapy or not. If you feel its best for you, it is worth a shot.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Praestat_Mori and renrone
P

pole

Enlightened
Sep 18, 2018
1,387
therapy is not a one-size-fits-all solution, which is how it is treated by most people nowadays.

it won't work for everyone. you can try it and see whether you can get something out of it now. but again, it's okay if it continues not to pan out.

you should try to work with a professional to see what may be helpful for you beyond just therapy. this isn't easy since therapy-pushing is at an all-time high, so if it doesn't work out how you'd like it to, enforce boundaries and move on to trying other forms of treatment.

best of luck.
 
  • Like
Reactions: wannabeasuperhero, Praestat_Mori, アホペンギン and 1 other person
renrone

renrone

i love the world and everything in it
Sep 24, 2023
20
It is up to you if whether you want to start getting therapy or not. If you feel its best for you, it is worth a shot.
Thanks, I'm just weighing my options right now. There's relatively no repercussions if I play it right, I suppose.
you should try to work with a professional to see what may be helpful for you beyond just therapy. this isn't easy since therapy-pushing is at an all-time high, so if it doesn't work out how you'd like it to, enforce boundaries and move on to trying other forms of treatment.
That's true, I hadn't quite considered that. I'll definitely try to do that, it sounds much more useful I'd say. Thanks a lot!
 
  • Hugs
Reactions: Praestat_Mori, pole and アホペンギン
lita-lassi

lita-lassi

let me spell it out for you: go to hell
Sep 25, 2023
614
therapists are a tool, not a solution. you still have to do the legwork they can only recommend to you. it isnt their personal fault the system is so rigged against the help some need
 
  • Like
Reactions: renrone and Praestat_Mori

Similar threads

U
Replies
16
Views
503
Recovery
charlavail
charlavail
DownwardSpiral
Replies
6
Views
296
Recovery
HopelessScientist
HopelessScientist
eros
Replies
2
Views
191
Recovery
eros
eros
sannoji
Replies
4
Views
196
Recovery
violetforever
violetforever
orpheus_
Replies
4
Views
272
Recovery
orpheus_
orpheus_