redeeming_butterfly
Life is no more beautiful than its cruelest suffer
- May 15, 2024
- 90
I didn't come here to talk, I just came for the purpose of CTB. Thank you for having this place.
Nevertheless, I've come across some interesting views here that are very similar to mine. That was unexpected ... a bonus, so to speak. Thank you.
I'm leaving now because I want to spend the last few days alone again. Like a dog that hides when it suffers, when it dies.
I don't want to deal with certain energies that are buzzing around here in the forum.
I want to be completely with myself, with my truth, with my perception, with my feelings and with my decision.
I wish you all all the best.
If you want to die, die.
If you want to live, live.
If you want to have a child ... live with the consequences. And should your child one day commit a very cruel suicide out of despair or should your child suffer incredibly because of an accident or a disability or thousands of other possibilities ... You have forced this life to happen. That is a 100% factual truth. If you want to take this risk, "you little sweet devil", you are playing with fire. You think the chances are low? Why do almost 50% of people play lottery, where the chance of winning is much lower?
That's the stupid human being. He thinks the probability of creating agonising suffering is low enough and still plays lottery where the chances of winning are not even close to as high as the possibilities of suffering unbelievably cruelly in one lifetime.
Humans run blindly after temptation. They think they are being reasonable by living the way society defines reason. But every birth is the opposite of reason. It is risk.
Reason does not play with risk.
If voluntary death was at least socially and legally recognised from a certain age, the decision to have a child would be many times more reasonable. But that would probably only happen if people started protesting. And that will probably take another 3 million years given the speed of human ethical development.
Anyway ... I'm off, bye and thanks again to all the people who make this place possible.
EDIT:
I don't want to stir up hatred against parents here. I have no problem with my parents or with other parents. Many parents go to great, great lengths to bring happy people into the world, so it's all the more upsetting when people still suffer miserably for thousands of reasons.
Being a good parent has only a limited amount to do with whether the people you bring into the world will suffer.
That is precisely the point. It is precisely because of this fact that as a parent you are powerless over an infinite mass of events that the decision to have a child is all the more risky. You are exposed to chance immediately after ovulation.
Nevertheless, I've come across some interesting views here that are very similar to mine. That was unexpected ... a bonus, so to speak. Thank you.
I'm leaving now because I want to spend the last few days alone again. Like a dog that hides when it suffers, when it dies.
I don't want to deal with certain energies that are buzzing around here in the forum.
I want to be completely with myself, with my truth, with my perception, with my feelings and with my decision.
I wish you all all the best.
If you want to die, die.
If you want to live, live.
If you want to have a child ... live with the consequences. And should your child one day commit a very cruel suicide out of despair or should your child suffer incredibly because of an accident or a disability or thousands of other possibilities ... You have forced this life to happen. That is a 100% factual truth. If you want to take this risk, "you little sweet devil", you are playing with fire. You think the chances are low? Why do almost 50% of people play lottery, where the chance of winning is much lower?
That's the stupid human being. He thinks the probability of creating agonising suffering is low enough and still plays lottery where the chances of winning are not even close to as high as the possibilities of suffering unbelievably cruelly in one lifetime.
Humans run blindly after temptation. They think they are being reasonable by living the way society defines reason. But every birth is the opposite of reason. It is risk.
Reason does not play with risk.
If voluntary death was at least socially and legally recognised from a certain age, the decision to have a child would be many times more reasonable. But that would probably only happen if people started protesting. And that will probably take another 3 million years given the speed of human ethical development.
Anyway ... I'm off, bye and thanks again to all the people who make this place possible.
EDIT:
I don't want to stir up hatred against parents here. I have no problem with my parents or with other parents. Many parents go to great, great lengths to bring happy people into the world, so it's all the more upsetting when people still suffer miserably for thousands of reasons.
Being a good parent has only a limited amount to do with whether the people you bring into the world will suffer.
That is precisely the point. It is precisely because of this fact that as a parent you are powerless over an infinite mass of events that the decision to have a child is all the more risky. You are exposed to chance immediately after ovulation.
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