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Liebestod

Liebestod

Death is near
Mar 15, 2025
685
Do you guys want to be buried or cremated? Me personally I don't really care, as long as I'm not alive is all that really matters to me.
 
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rainwillneverstop

rainwillneverstop

Global Mod | Serious Health Hazard
Jul 12, 2022
1,026
Cremated and ashes spread wherever. No cost of a grave that way.
 
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MyShadow

MyShadow

Left the forum to pursue recovery
Aug 27, 2025
475
Cremation.
 
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skywhywalker666

Member
Aug 5, 2025
29
I don't give a shit even if the body is thrown in the trash. I don't want the family to spend a lot of money on the funeral.
 
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RinneOfAragon

Student
Jan 2, 2025
196
I would prefer Burial but it doesn't really matter if I'm dead.
 
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strawberry931

Member
Aug 23, 2025
76
Cremation. It is cheaper. I wouldn't mind if I was just thrown in the trash, but my family wouldn't do that.
 
Hangman.

Hangman.

Experienced
May 22, 2025
207
Cremation. I don't want a trace of me left behind, every last piece of me should be turned to ash and gone.
 
Alexandra_

Alexandra_

Don't Fear the Reaper
Sep 30, 2023
800
I don't really care what happens to my remains either. But I'm all for cremation
 
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Whole-Ad

Experienced
Apr 4, 2021
201
I'd prefer cremation, I just don't want to rot in the ground. And I believe cremation is way cheaper anyways so that's a bonus. I don't want my family wasting their money on my funeral.
 
Jisatsu

Jisatsu

黒い薔薇(The Black Rose)
Jan 5, 2025
2,012
Cremated , it honestly doesn't matter what my family does with the ashes.
 
Irisse

Irisse

Art belongs to Maksn (on yt)
Sep 8, 2025
506
I want to be cremated so that no one can desecrate my grave, and I want my ashes thrown into the sea. Though I think that my family would rather want for me to have a grave. But if I ever leave a note, I will insist to be cremated.
 
cvury

cvury

Member
May 20, 2025
47
Doesn't matter because in the end nothing matters, and you're dead, so why think about it. Someone will think of you for the last time and you will be forgotten to the universe.
 
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dead dav

dead dav

Specialist
Feb 27, 2025
348
I'm not bothered cremation is way cheaper especially the direct cremations without a service
 
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xanthe

me/ow
May 21, 2025
18
cremation for sure. idrc what they do with the ashes, i just dont wanna push the cost of a full burial onto my family. i'd be fine with my body being donated to science too. its not like im using it lol go crazy
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
4,016
Natural burial. No chemicals. No energy to burn me. Just let nature have me back.
 
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Dejected 55

Dejected 55

Visionary
May 7, 2025
2,644
I always say... I wish we didn't do cremation or the hermetically sealed caskets and tombs. I wish we were just buried 6-feet under in a pine box so that our remains can decompose naturally and merge back into the Earth. With all the talk about climate change and the effect humans have on our environment. I rarely see conversations about the nutrients we are permanently removing from the ecosystem by sealing our remains and preventing our basic materials from recombining with the planet after we die. At some point, it seems like that has to cause a problem somewhere.

So... I have two answers:

1. I would prefer to buried in a "green" way like I suggested above. No fuckery with chemicals in my body, just plop me in a box naked and bury me to go back to the Earth.

2. I'll be dead... so... it's not like I'm going to complain whatever is done with me.
 
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Cauliflour

Cauliflour

I'm the doodler, I make terrible doodles.
Mar 24, 2025
717
I used to want to be cremated but I'm paranoid about being forgotten nowadays so I would like to have a grave covered in roses. Expensive? Yeah but the thought of a stranger undressing my corpse and then chucking me into a furnace to be scattered about somewhere with nothing left to remember me by freaks me out.
 
Fall_Apart

Fall_Apart

Student
May 22, 2023
160
To be turned to ashes and completely disappear as if I never existed is all I want. The only mistake I made was watching a documentary showing cremation, and that shocked me, but I realize it's just a silly fear, so I want to be cremated.
 
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superbfrawg

Member
Sep 4, 2025
14
ive always wanted to be somehow just given to the earth, throw my body into the forest and let nature do its thing, but thats impractical so probably just dump me in the sea / cremate
 
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JesiBel

JesiBel

protoTYPE:cclxxv
Dec 5, 2024
1,123
Direct cremation without funeral service. You only pay once and that's it. Regarding burials.. I don't like them because my family would have to pay the cemetery fee every month, leaving them with an expense to worry about. And I'm not going to let others profit from my rotting corpse.
 
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starboy2k

starboy2k

whhaazzzzzuuupppp
May 21, 2025
470
my grandmother was buried. its been 10 years since she passed and my mother has not visited her grave ONCE and if on the off chance she did, she sure as fuck didnt take me to see her……

that alone makes me choose cremation over a non visited, expensive and useless gravestone
 
nool

nool

He who has not tasted grapes says sour
Aug 17, 2025
117
Cremation. I don't really care what happens to my ashes afterwards.
 
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Hollowman

Empty
Dec 14, 2021
2,352
Cremated and flushed down the toilet.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
48,185
It wouldn't matter to me as well as after all once I no longer exist this dreadful, torturous existence I just always saw as a mistake will finally be no longer my problem which is all I hope for, I just wish for peace from the abomination of existence, all I see as desirable is being unconscious for all eternity but I'd choose to be cremated and forgotten about, I wish for this existence to be erased, I want it to be like I never suffered in this existence at all.
 
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Liebestod

Liebestod

Death is near
Mar 15, 2025
685
It wouldn't matter to me as well as after all once I no longer exist this dreadful, torturous existence I just always saw as a mistake will finally be no longer my problem which is all I hope for, I just wish for peace from the abomination of existence, all I see as desirable is being unconscious for all eternity but I'd choose to be cremated and forgotten about, I wish for this existence to be erased, I want it to be like I never suffered in this existence at all.
Life was never even meant to happen, it just did, opening the door for universal suffering; what a burden.
 
SmellsLikeNapalm

SmellsLikeNapalm

You complete me
Aug 29, 2025
19
No one to bury or cremate me lmao

But if I had the choice, cremation since my father chose the same thing
 
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MissAbyss

Member
Jul 20, 2025
585
Cremation without funeral service.
 
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closetoyou

closetoyou

Member
Aug 19, 2025
81
cremated. i dont care what you do with the ashes, you could flush them down a toilet for all i care. i just don't want my corpse to just decay in a box if given the option
 
uzl lover

uzl lover

he/him
Aug 22, 2025
27
I don't care if i'm cremated or buried, because I will be dead.
 
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unluckysadness

unluckysadness

Enlightened
Jul 9, 2025
1,175
First I wanted to be cremated, but I changed my mind for being buried. Personally I don't care but my parents are fervent catholics so I do it for them. My death will be tough enough for them. I've just wrote I don't want a lot of flowers and just a cheap coffin.
 

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