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NoPoint2Life

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I'm going to bed. I'm really hoping that all thoughts about BL, pineapple on pizza and even raisins stay out of my dreams.
 
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U. A.

U. A.

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i hope you dream exclusively pleasant dreams about all those things....after all:
Our ancestors survived so we can read and consume BL:)
 
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Spicy Tteokbokki

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I'm going to bed. I'm really hoping that all thoughts about BL, pineapple on pizza and even raisins stay out of my dreams.
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I hope you dream of BL on a steamy, hot pineapple pizza!!! :O jk jk (not) XD
 
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U. A.

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@orvreader the context was that linked post on the previous page....though where exactly it cam from, only @Chemi could ansewer.
 
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@U. A. It seems like I have access to more features now that I've been here for a day, can you help me figure it out please? I'm especially confused about the PM system, while searching is pretty straightforward I think; and are there other features that I'm not aware of? Sorry for the bother
 
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U. A.

U. A.

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@U. A. It seems like I have access to more features now that I've been here for a day, can you help me figure it out please? I'm especially confused about the PM system, while searching is pretty straightforward I think; and are there other features that I'm not aware of? Sorry for the bother
For sure; so, the forum has both DMs which are called Conversations and are basically private threads for two or more people (there's an upper limit though), and well as Chat. You can initiate either on a user's profile card, assuming they allow them (some do not):

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imo Conversation is far more useful for people you talk to infrequently, as it sends an alert on every message and is hard to miss; initiating a Chat with someone only sends them an alert at first—when a chatroom with you and them is created—but will manually need to be checked thereafter. There are also group chatrooms where anyone can come and go whenever.

Chemi actually had some issues with the chat when access was gained and it might take some more days to work right. I don't think there are any other permissions given other than these at this point but if there's anything weird or confusing just holler.
 
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Ohhh thank you for the help as always, U. A.!
Chemi actually had some issues with the chat when access was gained and it might take some more days to work right. I don't think there are any other permissions given other than these at this point but if there's anything weird or confusing just holler.
I tried to Chat somebody earlier and was given an error message, perhaps this is the cause? Makes sense.
 
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U. A.

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I tried to Chat somebody earlier and was given an error message, perhaps this is the cause? Makes sense.
Yeah same for her. She started one with me, I was alerted and could use it, but she couldn't. I don't think they did everything right on the backend when they changed the conditions for accessing chat and DMs so everyone will just be confused forever.

If you ever want to level up your search (hopefully for non-dubious purposes), this may help.
 
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If you ever want to level up your search (hopefully for non-dubious purposes), this may help.
Thanks again! That helps a lot, although I won't use it for non-dubious purposes. It wouldn't be your fault though, you were just being helpful, much love<3.
 
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U. A.

U. A.

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haha, you can use it for whatever you want; all the tools are out there, I just want everyone to have equal access.

Also I just now actually noticed your age despite copying in your card in the post above. It's still summons a cloud over me to see someone so young end up here, knowing what must have led them. Sorry about life :/
 
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Also I just now actually noticed your age despite copying in your card in the post above. It's still summons a cloud over me to see someone so young end up here, knowing what must have led them. Sorry about life :/
Don't be sorry about my life, I can only blame myself haha:)
 
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U. A.

U. A.

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well, I don't believe in free will; you didn't choose the circumstances you were born into, the people or even the personalities of the people who shaped your childhood development, and the million other things that have led you to this path here and now.
Unless you're one of the extremely rare few who truly simply have no interest in continuing to live despite not being disadvantaged whatsoever either in the present or past, I still feel bad about anyone in this mindset (seeing you're actively planning for next month)
 
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Namelesa Graves

Namelesa Graves

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U. A.

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oh @orvreader , here's an actual mod (for a little while longer); @Namelesa Graves , who can answer things i could never.
 
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Hello Mr./Mrs. Mod, nice to meet you!
 
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@orvreader Welcome to the forum, I'm sorry you're here.

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