not_a_robot
"i hope the leaving is joyful, & never to return"
- May 30, 2019
- 2,121
Hugs to you.
It hurts the same way every time, doesn't it?
Twenty years ago I decided I would never have sex for free again. What is the point, if they treat us like we are disposable? If a motherfucker wants to treat me like some two-bit whore and never talk to me again, he better pay me that two-bits first. Plus it's safer, easier to force them to use a condom if they think you might have other partners. They won't wear a condom to protect a woman, but they'll wear one if they think they need to protect themselves.
Honestly not as bad as it sounds.
When they paid, I never felt as used as when I let them do it for free.
Instead of feeling bad if he didn't love me afterward, I felt good spending the money.
No man buys me flowers on Valentine's Day? I don't feel bad.
I buy my own flowers and gifts, and I have better taste than any man anyway, so it's just practical.
I've never understood why most women think it's somehow noble to refuse to be paid for it. Why let the bastards use you for free?
Of course, they just find other ways to make your life hell, even when they're paying.
Best solution is just love yourself, and forget they even exist.
