being too sensitive, too emotional

[Defenestration]

Hi,I have the same sensitivity as a little girl of 7 years old but I am a man of almost 37 years old... all bless me... I don't hold grudges but sometimes a little sentence not too delicate can make me ruminate for a whole day.

I live in a Disney/Care Bear world where everyone is nice to each other....but that's not the case...there will always be people to bless you even unintentionally. I feel so different from others...

all the people who know me in real life say that I have a huge heart, that I am a beautiful person etc.

but it serves no purpose other than people taking advantage of you or talking bad to you.

 

[Life_and_Death]

i dont believe you can be too sensitive.
besides, its the insensitive ones that concern me

 

[R_N]

People will talk bad about anyone tho, maybe not to their face but still.

And some of us are just wired differently. I can relate to being sensitive and disliking conflict. I was also very emotional and couldn't stop thinking about anything that happened to me.

I changed but even with less emotions and attachments world can seem bleak. Best you can do is come to acceptance and not take everything seriously. We give importance to a lot but in the end nothing matters unless we give it meaning.

 

[Malaria]

I relate to this one so hard...

I've had people insult me and take advantage of me for being sensitive, emotional, and naive. I wish I had thicker skin and that I wasn't so soft. Everything hurts my feelings. I feel affectionate towards everyone, even people who don't deserve it. It makes me miserable.

 

[Defenestration]

the sensitivity is extremely painful. I don't hold a grudge...BUT it's horrible to be hurt by everything and to ruminate on it constantly..

.I live in a world of teletubbies. people lack a lot of kindness, empathy and delicacy... I would really like everyone to hug each other and say nice things to each other...

but that's not what life is like, I'm like a lamb in the middle of a pack of wolves.

ps: if it is forbidden to complain, I will no longer post any problems, but I did not see this in the forum charter that this was prohibited.

 

[Life_and_Death]

ps: if it is forbidden to complain, I will no longer post any problems, but I did not see this in the forum charter that this was prohibited.

its not.
i wonder where you got that idea

 

[Defenestration]

I understand things intellectually but the emotions are different. I can't control them. someone said something not very nice to me and it twists my stomach and makes me sick...

I know I should give a damn but I can't do it. I'm not at all suited to this world...call me Calimero if you want but that's how it is... in real life I never complain

 

[Unattainable666]

Hi,I have the same sensitivity as a little girl of 7 years old but I am a man of almost 37 years old... all bless me... I don't hold grudges but sometimes a little sentence not too delicate can make me ruminate for a whole day.

I live in a Disney/Care Bear world where everyone is nice to each other....but that's not the case...there will always be people to bless you even unintentionally. I feel so different from others...

all the people who know me in real life say that I have a huge heart, that I am a beautiful person etc.

but it serves no purpose other than people taking advantage of you or talking bad to you.

Omg we have to be related. I get shit on constantly. I'm at a job I hate and at lunch I sit in my car and cry

 

[Life_and_Death]

I understand things intellectually but the emotions are different. I can't control them. someone said something not very nice to me and it twists my stomach and makes me sick...

thats completely understandable. i recently had the same convo with my bf. i told him something was fine but then got upset. however i explained that logic and feelings, the brain and heart are 2 different things. i can understand but that doesnt make it not hurt, however im trying to get better at that.

 

[Defenestration]

Mais les gens parleront en mal de n'importe qui, peut-être pas en face, mais quand même.

Et certains d'entre nous sont simplement câblés différemment. Je peux comprendre que je suis sensible et que je n'aime pas les conflits. J'étais aussi très ému et je ne pouvais pas m'empêcher de penser à tout ce qui m'arrivait.

J'ai changé mais même avec moins d'émotions et d'attachements, le monde peut sembler sombre. Le mieux que vous puissiez faire est d'accepter et de ne pas tout prendre au sérieux. Nous accordons de l'importance à beaucoup de choses mais au final, rien n'a d'importance si nous ne leurs donnons pas de sens.

ce n'est pas.
je me demande où tu as eu cette idée:câlin:

I am a 7 year old child stuck in a 37 year old adult body

 

[R_N]

I am a 7 year old child stuck in a 37 year old adult body

You are what you are, there is no right or wrong way to exist.

I am sorry you are hurting so much emotionally tho.

 

[Meteora]

Hi,I have the same sensitivity as a little girl of 7 years old but I am a man of almost 37 years old... all bless me... I don't hold grudges but sometimes a little sentence not too delicate can make me ruminate for a whole day.

I live in a Disney/Care Bear world where everyone is nice to each other....but that's not the case...there will always be people to bless you even unintentionally. I feel so different from others...

all the people who know me in real life say that I have a huge heart, that I am a beautiful person etc.

but it serves no purpose other than people taking advantage of you or talking bad to you.

I think you re writing about me.... except that I am emotinally younger than 7 years old. I feel for you. I think about unsensitive comments even weeks later. I m not made for this world.

 

[Life_and_Death]

ive tried something like distraction therapy
when something is on my mind ill have something attention grabbing like a mint or sour candy.

and you need to separate yourself from everyone else. theyre opinions and not every opinion applies to you. be picky and choose-y about what you listen to.

im not going to say my method is perfect or works instantly, but its something ive been working on for a little while with some success.
just thought id share my opinion in case others wanted to try, or maybe find their own spin that works for them

 

[Defenestration]

I think you re writing about me.... except that I am emotinally younger than 7 years old. I feel for you. I think about unsensitive comments even weeks later. I m not made for this world.

I Say 7 years but it's perhaps 4 years old

 

[Linda]

Hi,I have the same sensitivity as a little girl of 7 years old but I am a man of almost 37 years old... all bless me... I don't hold grudges but sometimes a little sentence not too delicate can make me ruminate for a whole day.

I live in a Disney/Care Bear world where everyone is nice to each other....but that's not the case...there will always be people to bless you even unintentionally. I feel so different from others...

all the people who know me in real life say that I have a huge heart, that I am a beautiful person etc.

but it serves no purpose other than people taking advantage of you or talking bad to you.

Nothing wrong with being sensitive. It means you're human. And it doesn't mean you're weak. I had a successful career in a tough part of the business world, and I can fight my corner against anyone - and when necessary I do. But I have just spent the last 3 days bursting into tears without warning. (Because of something that happened recently. I think you know what it was.)

You might perhaps need to learn to be a little more assertive sometimes, to make it harder for people to take advantage of you. It takes practice, but you will probably be able to do it if you really want to. And the nice thing is that you can do that without losing your "huge heart".

 

[Defenestration]

Nothing wrong with being sensitive. It means you're human. And it doesn't mean you're weak. I had a successful career in a tough part of the business world, and I can fight my corner against anyone - and when necessary I do. But I have just spent the last 3 days bursting into tears without warning. (Because of something that happened recently. I think you know what it was.)

You might perhaps need to learn to be a little more assertive sometimes, to make it harder for people to take advantage of you. It takes practice, but you will probably be able to do it if you really want to. And the nice thing is that you can do that without losing your "huge heart".

Big thanks but too late....
Only solution is ctb

 

[Meteora]

May I ask, do you suffer from depressions?

 

[Defenestration]

Big thanks but too late....
Only solution is ctb

May I ask, do you suffer from depressions?

Yes major depression

 

[Meteora]

Nothing wrong with being sensitive. It means you're human.

Theoretically, I agree. There's nothing wrong with it. In fact, it would be an enormous strength. Practically, it is hell and makes you feel manipulated and worthless. This world is not for sensitive souls.

Yes major depression

I m sorry, same goes for me.

 

[Linda]

Theoretically, I agree. There's nothing wrong with it. In fact, it would be an enormous strength. Practically, it is hell and makes you feel manipulated and worthless. This world is not for sensitive souls.

I have to disagree slightly with that. Being sensitive and also unable to resist manipulation must indeed be hell, but you can be sensitive and able to resist manipulation. When it comes to the ability to resist manipulation, I guess it's mostly down to DNA, but practice can help too.

 

[Defenestration]

Theoretically, I agree. There's nothing wrong with it. In fact, it would be an enormous strength. Practically, it is hell and makes you feel manipulated and worthless. This world is not for sensitive souls.

I m sorry, same goes for me.

Bipolar disorder
Borderline personnality disorder
Major depression
Eating disorders
Social phobia
Généralised anxiety disorder
My boyfriend died
My Mum has a beginning of Alzheimer's disease( 65 years)


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[Life_and_Death]

and you need to separate yourself from everyone else. theyre opinions and not every opinion applies to you. be picky and choose-y about what you listen to.

 

[InAgony]

I'm pretty sensitive too and also feel a child in a 38 year old body. I understand where you're coming from.