Venting Being an ugly woman sucks

[Manfrotto99]

Giraffes are beautiful - they are tall and slender with graceful long legs - men adore that! That is what models and the most sought after women have....sexy beautiful long legs !

I have spent my life as a short ugly dark haired woman - too short - overlooked, pushed to the back - never seen or heard.

I had tall women friends when I was younger and I saw them favoured and chosen by men all the time. They weren't exactly beautiful either - but they did have gorgeous long legs! I was simply overlooked and left on the shelf. I never got married or had children while the blondes and tall girls got it all, they didn't have to work as hard for anything. Even short men prefer tall women.

That is life unfortunately....looks account for so much ! Try to make the most of what you have because being a tall girl and towering over others is a blessing....its a sign or power, of sexuality and confidence - learn to use it to your advantage. You don't even need a beautiful face if you have legs and if anyone has tried to tell you otherwise, there jealous - don't believe

? most men at any height would date a woman much taller. it is well proven that female height preferences are much stronger and are far more often dealbreakers. the vast majority of 165cm men would date a 190cm woman. the insecurity would come from those men feeling like she would leave them for somebody taller.

being ugly is a terrible existence for both and your feelings are valid and i hope you do feel better

As a short women who never got chosen by man - I totally agree with you that most men, even short ones prefer tall women.