ripberman

ripberman

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Dec 24, 2022
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I thought this was one corner of the internet where I wouldn't have to see gender war nonsense. Oh well.
 
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Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

Do what's best for you 🕯️ Right now, I'm stressed
Jul 1, 2020
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Okay, well. Thats a small demographic. Itb still fucking sucks dude
yes youre right, it does suck, and so can the lives of the people that youre still kinda dismissing. like "oh well, thats not a lot of people" reasoning that its "a small demographic" doesnt make what you said any less harmful.

pretty people can lose family members/loved ones, be in horrific accidents or harassed as well. ones looks does not change the trauma their brain takes
 
RichardFirst

RichardFirst

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Jan 16, 2021
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It is a harsh reality of nature that most males are disposable as far as the species is concerned. One male can impregnate 1000 females, but one female can have just one baby per year (for the most part). This, combined with the natural hypergamy of most females (especially true for humans) means that most men will be ignored by most women.

This was probably fine when we apes living in the trees, but I believe that this is truly maladaptive to the modern world.
 
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hermestrimegistus

hermestrimegistus

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Sep 16, 2023
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yes youre right, it does suck, and so can the lives of the people that youre still kinda dismissing. like "oh well, thats not a lot of people" reasoning that its "a small demographic" doesnt make what you said any less harmful.

pretty people can lose family members/loved ones, be in horrific accidents or harassed as well. ones looks does not change the trauma their brain takes
Yeah. It can suck being a conventionally pretty person. But theyre also fortunate in other ways that most are not. Deny it all you want. Its still true
 
Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

Do what's best for you 🕯️ Right now, I'm stressed
Jul 1, 2020
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Yeah. It can suck being a conventionally pretty person. But theyre also fortunate in other ways that most are not. Deny it all you want. Its still true
what you might deem as "fortunate" another might not. youre still being dismissive and hurtful. im not denying anything, its you thats in denial of the pain that people can experience.

youre clearly not going to change your mind. while im agreeing and saying your pain is valid you are heavily inferring anothers is not. someone like you is not worth my time. enjoy your ways/mindset. i just hope you dont push someone closer to suicide with it
 
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CPY

Student
Oct 30, 2023
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I think being a man comes with a higher risk factor for extreme kinds of suffering like being homeless or drug addict

I always thought regardless of living in a right-wing or left-wing society when worst comes women always land on their feet as they are seen as worthy of protection, they have the option of marrying someone and live off of them.Hell these days you can become wealthy by just selling nudes on onlyfans.I wouldn't say it's necessary an happy life but it would make existence a hell of a lot easier while you plan to ctb


Instead as a man I'm expected to find a job and fend for myself.This is already difficult for the average Joe in my country let alone a man with incurable issues like me
 
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hermestrimegistus

hermestrimegistus

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Sep 16, 2023
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what you might deem as "fortunate" another might not. youre still being dismissive and hurtful. im not denying anything, its you thats in denial of the pain that people can experience.

youre clearly not going to change your mind. while im agreeing and saying your pain is valid you are heavily inferring anothers is not.
someone like you is not worth my time.
Enjoy your ways/mindset. i just hope you dont push someone closer to suicide with it
I just think theyre experiencing a different kind of struggle. Imagine not knowing if someone likes you for being you and not because youre a occupying a pretty vessel? I think everybody experiences struggles. This is more of a judgment on material reality and its values and less about a specific individual.
someone like you is not worth my time.

Haha. Okay. Then why did you even respond? Seems incredibly immature
 
Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

Do what's best for you 🕯️ Right now, I'm stressed
Jul 1, 2020
6,912
Haha. Okay. Then why did you even respond? Seems incredibly immature
or maybe because im mature and i realize that im going to completely forget about who you are and that this conversation ever happened. and that the stress youre causing me really isnt worth it
 
hermestrimegistus

hermestrimegistus

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Sep 16, 2023
341
or maybe because im mature and i realize that im going to completely forget about who you are and that this conversation ever happened. and that the stress youre causing me really isnt worth it
I'm causing you stress? Lol. Dude. Calm down. This is just internet discourse. If this stresses you out, I truly feel for you. How do you function throughout the day? Hope you're okay
 
casual_existence

casual_existence

Experienced
Jul 29, 2023
220
Everybody suffers goddamn.
I knew this girl at work. Single mom. Two kids. Husband left cause he got bored. Her dad was an asshole.
Same job. Guy has a brother he has to baby because he can't work for himself. Alcoholic. His dad is in jail and his stepdad is an asshole.
Guess what. Both of them are morons.

If I was a mod I would just delete this. Complete waste of time.
 
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pochii

pochii

Member
May 27, 2023
31
I hate being a boy as well. I don't even know if I'd want to be a girl in place. I think I would rather just not exist. I just am expected to be so strong when I am not. Everything about me is not manly and I cant even talk about stuff I have trouble with like eating cause its just normal that guys shouldnt have trouble with that or care about their weight (in terms of wanting to be smaller) I at least wish i was somewhere where there were more boys like me :c
 
The Silly Sluggy

The Silly Sluggy

Nobody to anybody.
Nov 18, 2023
42
PREACH, BROTHA!!! Fuckin MOOD AS FUCK!
 
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