Volo vent

Volo vent

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Sep 20, 2021
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Being a man sucks not that females do not suffer but being a man just make things worse by default no shit 80% of people that commit suicide are males and vast majority of horrible deaths related to homicide and drugs are related to man be born with this condition is an abomination vast majority of men would pick up being females over being a male any day of the week (not that they will admit it thanks to pride)
 
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Spiritual survivor

Spiritual survivor

A born again but occasionally suicidal
Feb 13, 2022
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Isn't it interesting how there's men who wish they were women and women who wish they were men. As far as I could remember I always wished I was a guy because I perceived things to be that guy's had it easier but I realize that's not actually true. I just saw it from that perspective because being female makes us the weaker sex and many of us are dependent on men for like everything. I struggled with that idea that I'm the weaker sex quite a bit and more dependent on men to protect, provide, fix things. Nowadays it is hard for many men who are not rich or come from wealth, are not able to thrive in the way it used to be when there was more freedom and u could more easily build a nice life and have a family. That's been stolen from many of us, even many women also.
 
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DreamEnd

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yeah I agree. There are pros and cons that come with every gender
 
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R_N

R_N

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Dec 3, 2019
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Isn't it interesting how there's men who wish they were women and women who wish they were men. As far as I could remember I always wished I was a guy because I perceived things to be that guy's had it easier but I realize that's not actually true. I just saw it from that perspective because being female makes us the weaker sex and many of us are dependent on men for like everything. I struggled with that idea that I'm the weaker sex quite a bit and more dependent on men to protect, provide, fix things. But I agree with u that nowadays that many men who are not rich or come from wealth, are not able to thrive the in the way it used to be when there was more freedom and u could more easily build a nice life and have a family. That's been stolen from many of us, even many women also.
That is because most people are unable to see things from different perspective and love to assume things are perfect on the other side.

Life can be curse for anyone regardless of their race, gender, upringing etc.
 
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Kundalini Guy

Kundalini Guy

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Mar 27, 2023
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I LOVE being a man
 
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ropearoundatree

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Nov 9, 2023
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I believe that, one of the reasons for greater success rates in their suicide-completions, is that on avg./or in general -- men tend to take the more violent/or lethal means as their methods.
 
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leavingthesoultrap

leavingthesoultrap

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Nov 25, 2023
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Read some stories about women with endometriosis. Imagine being in 10/10 pain for more than 1/3 of your life and being gaslighted that nothing is happening and expected to perform like a healthy person.
 
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TheRottingContinues

TheRottingContinues

Low consciousness
Aug 23, 2023
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Being a man means that you always have to keep making progress, keep getting better and better, never rest for a single moment else you are called useless if you ever stop. You just need to keep feeding and feeding your effort into "progress" than you don't even believe in. And if you have the audacity to even think about turning to somebody else for help then you simply can't function.
Please just let me get some rest for even one second I will be glad
 
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WonderingSoul

WonderingSoul

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Dec 15, 2021
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Being a man means that you always have to keep making progress, keep getting better and better, never rest for a single moment else you are called useless if you ever stop. You just need to keep feeding and feeding your effort into "progress" than you don't even believe in. And if you have the audacity to even think about turning to somebody else for help then you simply can't function.
Please just let me get some rest for even one second I will be glad
Yes this ! Your comment really resonates with me because it feels like this has been most my life and still is. If I were to stop now, I'd be homeless, so it's one of the reasons I'm choosing to CTB.
 
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F@#$

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Nov 8, 2023
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Life sucks regardless.
Life sucks regardless.
 
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Morte

Morte

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Nov 23, 2023
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Isn't it interesting how there's men who wish they were women and women who wish they were men. As far as I could remember I always wished I was a guy because I perceived things to be that guy's had it easier but I realize that's not actually true. I just saw it from that perspective because being female makes us the weaker sex and many of us are dependent on men for like everything. I struggled with that idea that I'm the weaker sex quite a bit and more dependent on men to protect, provide, fix things. Nowadays it is hard for many men who are not rich or come from wealth, are not able to thrive in the way it used to be when there was more freedom and u could more easily build a nice life and have a family. That's been stolen from many of us, even many women also.
yes, but I see more men wanting to be women than the other way around, which is why I rarely see trans men. Furthermore, most men are weak and live at the bottom of the social food chain. Only a tiny portion of men carry any sovereignty ; being a man by default does not grant you any power. Being weak in a society that press you to be strong is a massive burden.
 
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Spiritual survivor

Spiritual survivor

A born again but occasionally suicidal
Feb 13, 2022
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yes, but I see more men wanting to be women than the other way around, which is why I rarely see trans men. Furthermore, most men are weak and live at the bottom of the social food chain. Only a tiny portion of men carry any sovereignty ; being a man by default does not grant you any power. Being weak in a society that press you to be strong is a massive burden.
Seems like u might be right. Then again I find it harder to spot female to male trans because with hormones they tend to be harder to tell. There was a trans female to male at a job I was at. Before he opened up about it I honestly assumed he was a biological man. He definitely looked a little bit unusual but it's easier to make women look convincing than the opposite, especially if there was no puberty blockers in the case of a guy making himself look female and u already went thru puberty. The only thing that they can't change about your sex in your appearance, is that the bone structure and proportions of the skeleton will always be of a biological man or woman. Men have a different walking gait than how women walk for example. Digit ratio or finger lengths on a biological man and woman is different. They can remove ribs but that doesn't ultimately change the entire bone structure only the appearance of your body.
 
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Unattainable666

Unattainable666

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Mar 31, 2023
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having a man in my life is far worse believe me
 
hermestrimegistus

hermestrimegistus

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Sep 16, 2023
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Nah. Being a woman fucking sucks. Unless you're conventionally attractive. It god damn sucks
 
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Kundalini Guy

Kundalini Guy

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Mar 27, 2023
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then why are you on SaSu ?
I am recovered and no longer suicidal but am fond of this community and like spreading positivity. I also want to help save some lives because I believe a lot on here have the potential to make full recovery 😃
 
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shun75x

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Dec 4, 2023
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Guys, stop this discussion about gender. Life can be sucks whatever your gender is. The problem is not related to the gender. Focusing on this create also more problems in this shitty society.
 
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IsThisEverything

IsThisEverything

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Nov 1, 2023
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It sucks being a man. It sucks being a woman. It sucks being.

I'm a trans man so I was assigned female at birth but am a man. It gives me a unique perspective and I know that there are downsides to both genders.

Women have to deal with men thinking they're superior, with the fact that we still live in a male dominated world despite progress. Medical issues specific to women are still overlooked. They have to deal with pregnancy and the very real risk of sexual abuse and rape.

Men have to deal with being expected to be strong, to never show their feelings or talk about what's really going on with them. They're more likely to be distrusted, particularly around children.

What's frustrating is that a lot of the above is a problem with society and could be fixed if we recognised that we're all just human, and our gender doesn't determine our personalities, traits, and responsibilities.
 
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dreamingofrest

dreamingofrest

so, so tired
Nov 7, 2023
122
It sucks being a man. It sucks being a woman. It sucks being.

I'm a trans man so I was assigned female at birth but am a man. It gives me a unique perspective and I know that there are downsides to both genders.

Women have to deal with men thinking they're superior, with the fact that we still live in a male dominated world despite progress. Medical issues specific to women are still overlooked. They have to deal with pregnancy and the very real risk of sexual abuse and rape.

Men have to deal with being expected to be strong, to never show their feelings or talk about what's really going on with them. They're more likely to be distrusted, particularly around children.

What's frustrating is that a lot of the above is a problem with society and could be fixed if we recognised that we're all just human, and our gender doesn't determine our personalities, traits, and responsibilities.
All of this, 100%!!! Both genders have issues they have to deal with that can make life harder. A lot of people don't seem to realize that there are issues both groups face and it doesn't make anyone's pain less valid.
 
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Life_and_Death

Do what's best for you 🕯️ Right now, I'm stressed
Jul 1, 2020
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trust me, if you saw me you wouldnt say that
different situations come with different problems. i stand by what i said. you really shouldnt dismiss others problems
 
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Morte

Morte

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Nov 23, 2023
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I keep hearing men complaining about how hard it is to be men and I'm sure it is but you should try being a woman, you'd wish you were male. Being objectified, not seen as human, not worth anything else.
Then there are the periods, the pregnancies, the birth control, the discrimination, the sexual assaults and harassment, lower pay for better work performance, not being promoted, seeing men you trained promoted instead of you. on and on.
An employer said he promoted a man over me, one that was awful at the job, because he was a man with a family.
A woman was actually raped by the boss at a company party at that job as soon as she was hired. No one in the company cared.


pretty much everything you said is faced by both sides lol
 
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DreamEnd

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Aug 4, 2022
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I love this thread. Just grabbed my popcorn. Keep it going Ahahahah mods pls don't delete
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
38,856
All humans have the ability to suffer endlessly, no matter the gender. I wouldn't see it as desirable existing under any circumstances personally, I see existence itself as the curse.
 
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