Before finding this website, were you a member of another forum or group to discuss similar things ?

  • Yes, positive experience

    Votes: 14 11.8%
  • Yes, negative experience

    Votes: 20 16.8%
  • No

    Votes: 85 71.4%

  • Total voters
    119
Maka hiamoe

Maka hiamoe

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Dec 10, 2020
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Before you found Sanctioned Suicide, were you a member of another forum / discussion group / chat room / whatever... to discuss suicide / personal problems / mental health ? If yes, what was it and what was your experience ?
 
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Amumu

Amumu

Ctb - temporary solution for a permanent problem
Aug 29, 2020
2,624
A poll would be appropriate, maybe.
 
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Maka hiamoe

Maka hiamoe

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Dec 10, 2020
99
A poll would be appropriate, maybe.
Done. I didn't add one initially because I personally don't care much about the numbers, I am mostly interested in the experience of those who come from another place.
 
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k75

k75

L'appel du Vide
Jun 27, 2019
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No. I didn't plan on joining this one, either. Originally I was just going to grab the info I needed and go. It's funny how things work out.
 
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NeverSatisfied

NeverSatisfied

Experienced
Dec 28, 2020
225
I wonder if all the "no"s are from people who don't go online often or because there are sites where people discuss depression but none of them allow people to discuss things like plans or methods. I think this site being pro-choice makes it unique and allows for more open discussion and a more genuine feel of community maybe?
 
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Maka hiamoe

Maka hiamoe

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Dec 10, 2020
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I wonder if all the "no"s are from people who don't go online often or because there are sites where people discuss depression but none of them allow people to discuss things like plans or methods. I think this site being pro-choice makes it unique and allows for more open discussion and a more genuine feel of community maybe?
Thanks for your comment and welcome ! I was hoping people who come from a pro-life forum (or anti-choice as I prefer to call them), would still reply yes even if they felt they couldn't speak as openly as we can here. It was kinda hard to figure out how to word my question.
 
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PDAnnie2610

Waiting for my bus.
Oct 27, 2019
698
I was part of a support forum online for people who struggled with self harm till it closed. Same for depnet.
 
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k75

k75

L'appel du Vide
Jun 27, 2019
2,546
I wonder if all the "no"s are from people who don't go online often or because there are sites where people discuss depression but none of them allow people to discuss things like plans or methods. I think this site being pro-choice makes it unique and allows for more open discussion and a more genuine feel of community maybe?
I'm online often, and I've frequented other types of forums. I just never needed something like this before, I guess. It's not something I had much desire to talk about because I have a bad habit of bottling things up, and I didn't find SS until I was actively making plans. I was surprised to find it helpful to post here, actually. It kind of filled a need I didn't realize I had.
 
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Ghost2211

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Jan 20, 2020
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I was one that said "no". I've never been social, so joining groups never occurred to me. I naturally assumed I would just be silent and ignored. I still don't really understand how I'm social here lol.
 
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Symbiote

Global Mod
Oct 12, 2020
3,101
Was on Reddit often, still am, but definitely strayed away from SuicideWatch and Depression because it's a massive echo chamber of platitudes and pro-lifers trying to shame or guilt trip suicidal people.
 
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pthnrdnojvsc

pthnrdnojvsc

Extreme Pain is much worse than people know
Aug 12, 2019
2,497
There is only one website like this in the world right now imo. No other place irl, internet etc where you can talk about suicide, Death, nor any real life topics . It would be really bad if they ban this website.I've never seen a place like this anywhere.
 
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Brick In The Wall

Brick In The Wall

2M Or Not 2B.
Oct 30, 2019
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I've been a part of groups and networks like this since the internet started. Some bad, some good, but none can hold a torch to this community.
 
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Teal_Blue_Dreams

Teal_Blue_Dreams

Arcanist
Sep 15, 2020
401
No. I didn't plan on joining this one, either. Originally I was just going to grab the info I needed and go. It's funny how things work out.
Same!
 
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Pravesh

Student
Oct 19, 2020
129
i was on Reddit , They Had A Sub Called Sanctioned Suicide or Something Similar but then it got banned then they had a Sub Called Timetogo then it got quarantined and fell off , so i googled a suicide forum and found this.
 
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sadworld

sadworld

existence is a nightmare
Aug 25, 2020
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No but this seems to be the best site out of them all anyway! :heart:
 
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AwokenToReality

AwokenToReality

Just wanna close my eyes, and feel alright
May 27, 2020
90
Spent a lot of time posting on Reddit on r/SuicideWatch long before I found SS, but I got fed up of the generic pro-life advice I got on each thread I made, and just stopped posting there.
 
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LakatosDiogenesz

LakatosDiogenesz

I can tie a noose with my eyes closed
Nov 21, 2020
143
Used alt.suicide.holiday back in the day. I remember it being very hard to find, which was kind of cool as the govt wasn't watching it as much. As such, it was a bit more open about the morally ambiguous stuff.
 
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Deleted member 15256

Deleted member 15256

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Feb 18, 2020
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No. Came here looking just for methods.
But found so many people, so may testimonials... It's emotionally helping me
 
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BluesRunTheGame

BluesRunTheGame

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Dec 15, 2020
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I was on a pro-life forum for about half an hour till I couldn't take it anymore and eventually found this place.
 
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NodusTollens

NodusTollens

Nov 17, 2020
989
i was on Reddit , They Had A Sub Called Sanctioned Suicide or Something Similar but then it got banned then they had a Sub Called Timetogo then it got quarantined and fell off , so i googled a suicide forum and found this.
I did the same. Once SS disappeared from Reddit, I eventually found this place through google.
 
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mado

mado

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Dec 23, 2020
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i used to post on r/suicidewatch on throwaway accounts but it never felt very useful and mostly people dont reply anyway. one time someone pmed me asking for 50 bucks bc i was just going to kill myself anyway. that gave me like a cold feeling, i guess there are people who will try to take advantage of suffering people. i wonder if they ever successfully got money out of anyone.

i found this place randomly searching for methods and found the sn thread
 
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Apathy's Girl

Apathy's Girl

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Jul 20, 2020
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Alt.sucide.holiday was a great forum. This is the closest thing to it I've found.
 
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Broken Chimera

Broken Chimera

The abyss also gazes into you
May 27, 2019
972
I never knew that a group like this existed. I don't talk much but I'm glad that a community like this exists because there isn't any other community where you can vent without the pro lifers repeating the same lines every time.
 
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ScribeofSkryre

ScribeofSkryre

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Dec 29, 2020
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I used to post on a /suicide/ board on 8chan for a while. The anonymity was nice. Eventually though, 8chan died for obvious reasons, and that went with it. Dunno if there's any other place quite like it besides here. Was another sort of "pro-choice" "community" but of course a bit more rough around the edges with chanboard culture and all that.
 
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Maka hiamoe

Maka hiamoe

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I used to post on a /suicide/ board on 8chan for a while. The anonymity was nice. Eventually though, 8chan died for obvious reasons, and that went with it. Dunno if there's any other place quite like it besides here. Was another sort of "pro-choice" "community" but of course a bit more rough around the edges with chanboard culture and all that.
I was wondering when someone would mention 8chan. 8chan came back under a different name : 8kun. You can still see the old messages from /suicide/ here : https://8kun.top/suicide/index.html

Unfortunately the board has been restricted so it is no longer possible to post in it.
 
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Nymph

Nymph

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Jul 15, 2020
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I was on some of the Reddit's subreddits but they were pretty bad and had a lot of limits. You can't talk there freely at all, for me it was pretty useless cause i just couldn't speak my mind
 
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ScribeofSkryre

ScribeofSkryre

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Dec 29, 2020
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I was wondering when someone would mention 8chan. 8chan came back under a different name : 8kun. You can still see the old messages from /suicide/ here : https://8kun.top/suicide/index.html

Unfortunately the board has been restricted so it is no longer possible to post in it.
Aye, I heard. Was rather disappointed when I found the board to be restricted. I've always enjoyed the culture an anonymous imageboard brings, but I guess I'll never have that again when it comes to the topic of CTB. At least I've found here now.
 
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justanotherstar

justanotherstar

Life: you can’t fire me, I quit.
Nov 23, 2020
345
I answered no. Like others have said I planned to get the info I needed and run but something made me join and I'm glad I did. I used to kick around on pro self harm forums many moons ago but never come across anything like SS
 
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Ardesevent

Ardesevent

It’s the end of the line, cowboy
Feb 2, 2020
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Some subreddits. It felt empty, like it just a place where people begged for others to help them and only got upvotes and people pretending to help for clout in return.
 
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