I didn't really mean for this thread to turn into a debate about whether beauty prohibits the development of mental health problems, as we all know that anyone can suffer. My point was more about how beautiful people are more valued by society than others. For me, beauty was the initial/only factor I considered whilst looking through the photos of those that had died from suicide. Some people might say other factors like wealth or status are just as important, but for me they don't matter as much as the initial judgement was made on how people look. As I said before, it's really sad that I view the lives of beautiful women to be of more value than others, when in a perfect world each life should be equal.
As Twombly pointed out, it's an issue in the media (where I'm from anyway). I don't know the stats but suicide is a massive killer. However, the papers here only really report the suicides of attractive people (Altough that could also be due to confirmation bias on my part). I look at them and think it's so sad as they must have had everything going for them, but obviously that's not the case, and I'm making an incorrect judgement based on how they look. Whereas, I'm more understanding of those that aren't as attractive taking their own lives. Really all lives should be important and it's terrible that we live in a world where anyone should even have to consider ending their life.
As Twombly also pointed out, 'If you're an ugly woman you're viewed and treated as trash, or better yet, completely invisible and as if you don't exist', which must be horrible. I'm male so have no idea how hard it is for females and the additional pressure that must be on them around how they look. I guess it's like penis size and the stigma and societal expectations attached to having a big or small one (Another cause of mental despair that is enforced by the media).
I never once thought that beauty is the answer to all life's problems. However, my mental health issues, and previous years of bullying and struggling to fit in, have left with an insatiable need to be desired. I just wanted to know more about how being beautiful, and thus desired, impacted on mental health. Like any factor or trait eg. beauty, health, wealth, status, popularity, height, weight, penis/breast size etc. they can all have a detrimental effect on mental health. Everyone's problems are painful and too much to deal with hence why we all ended up here.
This also wasn't a thread about everyone being equal as unfortunately we're not and life isn't fair. However, everyone's death by suicide should be equally sad.