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cantdecidenameeven

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Oct 2, 2024
38
Slightly above average height, average face, average hair, average skin, average life, average skillset, average income, average health, hell even average dick 🤣. below average social life, below average mental health, below average self acceptance

existence is brutal and i feel invisible
 
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PI3.14

what is chaos to the fly is normal to the spider
Oct 4, 2024
392
I'm below average in almost everything ig, way below average.
 
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cantdecidenameeven

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Oct 2, 2024
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I'm below average in almost everything ig, way below average.

I used to think this way, but looking at it objectively it's likely not true and you think this way because you don't want to cling onto hope because it all feels suffocating right now

Nonetheless....the struggle remains
 
PI3.14

PI3.14

what is chaos to the fly is normal to the spider
Oct 4, 2024
392
I used to think this way, but looking at it objectively it's likely not true and you think this way because you don't want to cling onto hope because it all feels suffocating right now

Nonetheless....the struggle remains
I'm 5'4, my hair is great ig, face is ok but kinda have a babyface, skin is fine, life is trash, couldn't complete my degree, don't have a career, don't have skills, mental health is utter trash, socially awkward. Oh, forgot my dick, it's average.
 
swankysoup

swankysoup

Student
Feb 12, 2024
192
Below average frame and hair, baby face, can't bulk up naturally. Yay. Not the mention the other stuff like social life and mental health. Luckily things like career and money can be improved over time.
 
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TBONTB

Enlightened
May 31, 2025
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Average is fantastic. Life can me plenty good, even excellent, with average. Right now for me I long for average. Cherish your average.

But you said below average mental health and self-esteem. These are very real. I truly hope there's an avenue where you could find improvement there.

Wishing you the ability to enjoy an average life li
 
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NutOrat

Sleepwalking
Jun 11, 2025
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I hate that we have these averages, that we can't just not compare each other all the time. No matter how much you try to ignore these things consciously, your nature dictates you to focus on them. We're made to select and to judge. Nature hate rant #??????
 
Fish On Land

Fish On Land

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Oct 9, 2024
11
It is unfortunate that we are obsessed with comparisons. I think it's so toxic because no matter what I do, there is someone who can do it better, faster, and smarter than me. I feel inferior and in fact probably below average in lots of things. I can only try to make up by putting in hard work but sometimes I wonder if it truly makes up my lack of talent or innate abilities. Sometimes you get dealt a bad hand and there's little you can do about it. I think it's important to meet friends who love and respect you because they don't care about anything but who you are personality wise. I try to think that I don't have to be the best or even good, just happy and loved by a few people is enough.
 
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