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TheLastGreySky

TheLastGreySky

Wizard
Nov 24, 2023
690
So, I'm needing space from girlfriend and I'm not sure how to tell her this. I care about her and we live together but I recently had a breakdown that she didn't react well to me so I need some space to figure out what I want.
 
kmycluisfe

kmycluisfe

"I’m a pluviophile"
Mar 8, 2023
66
I think what you just said was not bad

Just go go her calmly, and tell her this
Explain to her as sincerely as possible that you need time and space because you didn't liked her reaction
Maybe you can have a talk about her reaction and explain to her why you didn't liked it
And if you care, don't forget to remind her that you love her
 
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mallows

mallows

"Let's go back... to our true reality."
Dec 18, 2023
39
Exactly what kmy said, have a discussion with her about her reaction & what can change for the future, and take time for yourself
 
TheLastGreySky

TheLastGreySky

Wizard
Nov 24, 2023
690
I think what you just said was not bad

Just go go her calmly, and tell her this
Explain to her as sincerely as possible that you need time and space because you didn't liked her reaction
Maybe you can have a talk about her reaction and explain to her why you didn't liked it
And if you care, don't forget to remind her that you love her
I think her reaction legitimately killed all the feeling I had for her. So I need space.
 
kmycluisfe

kmycluisfe

"I’m a pluviophile"
Mar 8, 2023
66
I think her reaction legitimately killed all the feeling I had for her. So I need space.
Alright, take the time you need
I hope you get better, take care of yourself 🙂
 
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aGoodDayToDie

Arcanist
Jun 30, 2023
459
I think her reaction legitimately killed all the feeling I had for her. So I need space.
It might feel like that right now, but truth is you almost certainly still have some sort of bond. Relationships are precious. Don't throw what you still have away, and don't throw away future potential. There's no harm going on a break. But try to think about all the good things, and practice gratitude. You'll feel better, you won't be throwing the relationship away, you'll do less damage to both of you
 

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