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which are you?

  • Oldest

    Votes: 21 33.3%
  • Middle

    Votes: 9 14.3%
  • Youngest

    Votes: 25 39.7%
  • Only child

    Votes: 7 11.1%
  • Other

    Votes: 1 1.6%

  • Total voters
    63
amerie

amerie

goofball
Oct 6, 2024
219
I'm the youngest and I'm the scapegoat. My older sister was the golden child and my first bully.
This is interesting, it's usually the youngest who's the golden child bc the parents have their youngest kids when they're more experienced and "ready", but the eldest tends to be the "burden" or an experiment
 
SchizoGymnast

SchizoGymnast

Arcanist
May 28, 2024
439
This is interesting, it's usually the youngest who's the golden child bc the parents have their youngest kids when they're more experienced and "ready", but the eldest tends to be the "burden" or an experiment
I think my parents started developing personal problems (alcoholism, etc) *around the same time* as me being around, and the two became associated.
 
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bleeding_heart_show

Student
Dec 23, 2023
161
I have been reading about birth order theory recently.

It seems birth order has little to do with self destructive/suicidal ideation due to the inconsistency of results from all papers I was able to find.

It is still an interesting topic and does not necessarily devalue birth order's influence on other areas of psychological development.
 
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tulero

Member
Mar 20, 2025
61
im the youngest

i have a sister, 4 years older than me

whilst she took every decision in her life right (become a doctor in medicine, marry with a guy with a good job, two babies coming, they have a good house in a good place), I did the opposite :)
 
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darksouls

darksouls

Warlock
May 10, 2025
716
another accident here
family happiness was perfect until I came along
everyone took out their agression on me
my sister,twelve years older than me,was always mean to me
and my parents were also happy to have a scapegoat
 
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