Attractiveness level (be reasonable...)

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loopylou

Learn to fly
Jan 11, 2021
884
According to some people, I used to be quite attractive.
However, now I've got too fat and I never receive any compliments lol.
I have said you look nice lol
I don't think much of myself. I never had any troubles pulling the men I wanted but as I got older and got to a size 12-14 I just feel fat and ugly
 
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Endeavour

Mage
Dec 13, 2020
566
Is it easier for women to pull men, than for men to pull women?

I always believed it's significantly harder for a guy to get a girl than the other way round, you're competing against a load of dudes who all want the girls "affections".

As Roy Castle put it you need dedication, dedication, that's what you need... Etc.

If a girl comes onto a guy ... well that's that.

I'll shut up now.
 
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Nolen

Nolen

You see it too? For me, it's always like this.
Feb 21, 2021
75
It's the same as money or family it might make live more enjoyable for a sane person but if your suicidal it's hard to find comfort in anything. Also it's not like someone will remain conventionally attractive for their entire life there will be a turning point at sooner or later.
 
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JipJopMop

Member
Mar 6, 2021
96
I'm attractive, I feel ugly at times though.
 
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Addi_Madd

Member
Sep 12, 2020
57
I'm average looking. Men who are attracted to my type would rate me more favourably, men who aren't would be harsher. *shrug*
 
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lofticries

lofticries

obedear
Feb 27, 2021
1,470
I did that phone looks rating app and it said I was a 5.5 out of bed but a 7 all dolled up (yay,i can catfish someone with the proper resources). So I guess that.

My body would be a proper 7 though (even though i'd prefer to be bone thin).
 
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EmbraceOfTheVoid

EmbraceOfTheVoid

Part Time NEET - Full Time Suicidal
Mar 29, 2020
689
I'm the definition of rugged manliness.

Just kidding, I gave myself a 2 but there have been people who have said I was attractive.

There are things that repulse me about myself though and I think they are valid complaints. My looks are a moot point anyways when I'm mentally broken and don't have a future other than disability and poverty.

Edit: I changed my vote to 2 as I thought this was originally out of 10, lol.
 
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nolongerhuman

nolongerhuman

Arcanist
Feb 9, 2021
497
I've been told that I was attractive once or twice but realistically I'm at best slightly above average, probably closer to average.
 
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magick'sgone

magick'sgone

And so on it goes....
May 16, 2019
125
I was a cute kid but breathing problems and major anxiety left me kinda fucked up. Stress hormones can really damage a person physically. I hated my face with a passion, then I got it kicked in by a gang of cunts and that's when things got turboshit. I went from looking like crap to disfigured and looking like crap. Fortunately women aren't as visual as men when it comes to attraction. I had girlfriends before the boot party and I've had them since, it's just like playing on hard mode where I have to be convincingly confident and alpha all the time and never show any weakness. That feels fraudulent because that's not how I feel inside anymore. I'd give almost anything to just be ugly again, to look the way I hated so much before. On the plus side i've got a pretty wicked body that functions well, so im grateful for that and count my blessings.
 
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Endeavour

Mage
Dec 13, 2020
566
Even super models have things about themselves they find unattractive.

It's all in our own minds I think.
 
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HarpoMarx

HarpoMarx

Member
Jan 28, 2021
44
People I know or meet thinks I'm between 5 and 6 attractive, but I honestly believe I am no more than 2-3 when I compare myself to others (I have no selfsteem). It doesn't matter one way or another, as I am still sad. It doesnt make me happy feeling that someone is physically attracted by me. I prefer to be admired for the human being I am or I try to be.

I used to be quite superficial, but now I dont care about people's look anymore. 2 of my worse relatioships ever were with very pretty girls. I remember them as a nightmare as they didn't enjoy old movies.

P.s.: I'm stuck with a pretty girl atm. But it's kind of a different story. However, she still doesnt enjoy old movies or books :(
 
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awfullife

awfullife

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Nov 16, 2019
435
who rates on a 1-6 scale???
 
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DeadButDreaming

DeadButDreaming

Specialist
Jun 16, 2020
362
I'm tall and handsome. Unfortunately (for me), being good-looking as a man doesn't result in same level of success with women as good-looking women have with men. A man needs confidence, which I lack. That's the deal breaker.
 
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Mentalmick

Mentalmick

IMHOTEP!!!
Nov 30, 2020
2,050
This is me at high school:
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sadbadpsychogirl

sadbadpsychogirl

sonofabitch
May 29, 2020
725
as with anyone it depends who you ask
 
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roguetrader

Experienced
Feb 17, 2021
245
Somewhere between Shrek and Cristiano Ronaldo :blarg:
 
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SuicidalSymphonies

SuicidalSymphonies

I think I'll take a dirt nap.
Oct 13, 2019
1,028
I don't really know which one to choose, but I will say that most of my life, people haven't left me alone because they want to hook up or date me. Mostly hook up. Makes me feel like an object and it's just great. /s

It makes me think maybe I'm attractive or maybe I'm just convenient at the time. (No I do not sleep with these people.)

I've been told by a lot of folk that I'm attractive but I think thet just say those things to make me feel better... So this is a hard one to answer.
 
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autisticalex

Student
Oct 27, 2020
124
I'm repuslive

In my last job a girl said "hi Alex" and made a gagging sound to indicate disgust.

I was actually classed as having a facial deformity up until 19 and then had surgery on it but I'm still ugly despite the surgery unfortunately
 
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Sensei

Sensei

剣道家
Nov 4, 2019
6,336
I'm unattractive in some respects and attractive in others, so I'd say I'm average.
 
Into The Void

Into The Void

Student
Mar 10, 2021
196
IMO it usually has little to do with it. But it can be a factor for some.
 
xLosthopex

xLosthopex

Tell my dogs I love them
May 29, 2020
1,135
I have body dysmorphia so find it hard to see what I actually look like but I get told on a regular basis, either from men, people online or strangers on the street that I'm 'beautiful', 'stunning', 'striking' looking... sometimes I think that too, other times I think I'm the most hideous person who has ever existed lol
I'm a pretty successful stripper and sugar baby though so that's gotta count for something I guess
 
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Mentalmick

Mentalmick

IMHOTEP!!!
Nov 30, 2020
2,050
I get told on a regular basis, either from men, people online or strangers on the street that I'm 'beautiful', 'stunning', 'striking' looking
I just get bottles thrown at me.
 
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xLosthopex

xLosthopex

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May 29, 2020
1,135
I just get bottles thrown at me.
What? Why?
Even if someone is genuinely repulsive looking I don't see why anyone would feel the urge to throw bottles at them:ahhha:
 
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Lady black

Lady black

35 male, central Europe, German speaking
Oct 22, 2018
1,192
Mentalmick

Mentalmick

IMHOTEP!!!
Nov 30, 2020
2,050
What? Why?
Even if someone is genuinely repulsive looking I don't see why anyone would feel the urge to throw bottles at them:ahhha:
It's just a Scottish thing. Nothing bounces of the head better than a Buckfast bottle.
 
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Lady black

Lady black

35 male, central Europe, German speaking
Oct 22, 2018
1,192
Here's a pic of my lookalike
 

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Makko

Makko

Iä!
Jan 17, 2021
2,430
What? Why?
Even if someone is genuinely repulsive looking I don't see why anyone would feel the urge to throw bottles at them:ahhha:
It doesn't have to do with being cute or ugly. It's just one of those looks, some special sort of radiance, that makes you want to throw something heavy at it. These people are known to have "punchable faces".
 
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Mentalmick

Mentalmick

IMHOTEP!!!
Nov 30, 2020
2,050
It doesn't have to do with being cute or ugly. It's just one of those looks, some special sort of radiance, that makes you want to throw something heavy at it. These people are known to have "punchable faces".
Don't get me started. Punchable, kickable, headbuttable. My face just automatically provokes everything.
 
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Makko

Makko

Iä!
Jan 17, 2021
2,430
Don't get me started. Punchable, kickable, headbuttable. My face just automatically provokes everything.
I like faces like that. They have a magnetism to them. I'd really like to punch a very punchable face someday. I bet it would be a great bonding experience.
 
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