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ForgottenAgain

ForgottenAgain

On the rollercoaster of sadness
Oct 17, 2023
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This thread is inspired by other members you've made threads on tests from this website. Hopefully I'm not repeating a post, I haven't found this mentioned when I searched. Share your results!
Are you holding yourself back? Quiz

My results:
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EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
5,165

Holding Yourself Back Test

Results:


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You are significantly holding yourself back (74.29%).

Explanation of Traits:

Getting Stressed is synonymous with poor stress management and stress coping skills. People who are easily stressed out often have trouble juggling the many overlapping tasks and chores life throws at them. They may be held back as they expend their energy struggling with stress, making it hard for them to buckle down or focus.

Self-criticism can be described as the tendency to always blame oneself when things go badly; feeling that one is cursed with bad luck or simply not as good as others. People who are high in self-criticism may shy away from throwing themselves at new tasks since they know that they will blame themselves a lot if things do not turn out as they had planned.

Getting Distracted measures difficulty keeping one's interest and attention focused on long-term projects once the initial excitement wears off. People who are easily distracted may be both creative and insightful, but with their inconsistent long-term commitment to plans, others may come along and scoop up their contributions.

Risky Behavior is the tendency to either take risks just for the sake of it or to act out internal frustrations by engaging in hazardous activities. Risky behavior may include anything from speeding, stealing, or cheating to more serious and unsafe activities. People who engage in risky behavior put both their own talents, work projects, and efforts in jeopardy, often preventing them from reaching their full potential.

Perfectionism is the tendency to be overly scrupulous and rigid in one's work and about how things "ought" to be done. A drive to achieve is an asset in life, but when that drive turns into perfectionism, it often becomes destructive, holding the person back from producing as much quality work as they could have done and/or holding them back from new and unusual ways of doing things.

Lost in Fantasy is the tendency to get lost in one's daydreams and reveries. People who spend a lot of time fantasizing or "zoning out" from life are often keeping themselves from reaching their full potential. A good imagination can often lead one to be more creative in life, but imagination needs to be crisscrossed with the real world in order for it to work to a person's advantage.

No Enthusiasm can be described as apathy and the lack of strong emotions. Humans are not just rational creatures but emotional ones as well, and without emotional excitement, it may be hard to motivate oneself to give one's all to the tasks at hand.
 
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SMmetalhead36

Ready to have my forever date with suicide
Oct 6, 2023
337
All of these are me. Smh.
 
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L9my

L9my

i'm wilbite sasoot
Nov 22, 2024
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My results:

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waistcoat

waistcoat

wow, i have a lot of people to disappoint :o
Aug 10, 2024
433
haha, decided to do the quiz, that's an unexpected answer lol
guess i'm holding myself back from ctb as well, i should stop that
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_Gollum_

_Gollum_

Formerly Alexei_Kirillov
Mar 9, 2024
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I'm surprised I wasn't 100% for No Enthusiasm lol.
 
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fuewybfunsfoiceoi

fuewybfunsfoiceoi

life is short, make it shorter
Mar 3, 2024
120
1735692489990 it's not bad
 
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kenma0

kenma0

𝔪𝔦𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔶𝔬𝔲 𝔱𝔬 𝔡𝔢𝔞𝔱𝔥
Dec 22, 2024
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surprised no enthusiasm isnt higher, but self criticism is on point for me here lmfao
 
BlendedHeart

BlendedHeart

It is what it is
Mar 9, 2024
240
Zero enthusiasm and I'm my own worst enemy. Yikes.

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Unsure and Useless

Unsure and Useless

Dreaming Endlessly, not Wanting to Wake Up
Feb 7, 2023
391
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I'm surprised I didn't score higher on "No Enthusiasm".
 
thankyouforthis

thankyouforthis

Member
Jun 13, 2022
72
Surprised "Getting Stressed" isn't filled-in entirely! Also REALLY surprised about the "Lost in Fantasy" bit.
Also, I'd like to take this again in the future, because I know that my younger self would have scored differently. Had I taken this 15-20 years ago, "Perfectionism" would have definitely been completely filled.


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derpyderpins

derpyderpins

A Simple Kind of Man
Sep 19, 2023
2,146
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You are significantly holding yourself back (67.14%).

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I imagine self-criticism was worse at many points. Thank goodness there isn't a category for "unable to pick the 1 or 5 option." Although maybe that's encapsulated in "risky behavior."
 

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